Specific etiquette of wearing hanfu

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First, vertical capacity:

Jia Zi said: Gu Yi's eyes are straight, his shoulders are flat and his back is straight, and his arms are like drums. My feet are idle for two inches, and my face is covered with tassels. The legs are full, and the body does not shake the elbows, saying it is standing; Because it is slightly clear, it stands; Because you put your chin away, you stand still; Because of the low position.

Reference cultural relics, after being upright, look straight up, put your hands together and hide them in your sleeve. Hands can be placed anywhere from the chest to the lower abdomen, and you can even hold and lean on things (the ancients were very easy to talk _). Note: China people pay attention to nature, not straightness, so their arms should be soft and rigid-only in this way can Hanfu be laid into a soft curve and show the beauty of China.

We often see statues of Master's hands folded-but this gesture should be accompanied by chin folding to show respect-that is, the waist should be bent about 30 degrees at the same time. Of course, for artistic reasons, the painter still painted a straight body.

Application: I think it is necessary to attach importance to the establishment of classics, which should be established for teachers. Since people can't give gifts now, we can increase or decrease the degree of bowing according to the situation-but at least, it is necessary to bow our heads to show respect.

Second, the sitting capacity:

Jia Zi said, "Sit upright, not bad, but not down. Look at the balance, sit up straight, look down and look up on the venerable knee, but you can't see that you sit up straight in the ordinary, waste your head and lower your elbow, and sit humbly. "

When it comes to cultural relics, meditation in the Han Dynasty (called sitting by the ancients, but now called elegant sitting for the sake of distinction) is that the knees are tightened, the hips are sitting on the heels, the feet are behind the ground, the hands are on the knees, and the eyes are on the front. The same is true for people who are doing nothing. Don't spread your legs, put your hands on your knees. Hands can be clenched and rushed in front; It can also be folded and placed on the abdomen.

Application: With the revival of China culture, there will be more and more occasions where elegant sitting posture is needed. On this formal occasion, you can only relieve fatigue by slightly raising and lowering your knees. Of course, for life scenes such as friends gathering, everyone can sit in the distance (hips on the ground, legs apart) or sit cross-legged (Buddhist style).

Third, salute:

1. Formal title: the left hand presses the right hand (the lady's right hand presses the left hand), the hand is hidden in the sleeve, the forehead is raised, and the bow is 90 degrees, then the hand is raised, followed by Qi Mei again, and then the hand is put down.

2. General salute: stand upright, fold your arms forward, bend your right hand slightly, connect your left hand, move your arms down from your forehead to your chest, and bow your upper body at 45 degrees. Formal occasions, to friends.

3. Handover: Like a hand, but the body and arms don't have to move.

Step 4 nod your head.

5. Formal worship: Stand up straight, raise your hand and raise your forehead, bow 90 degrees like a bow, then stand up straight (this part is called a bow), and at the same time, follow Qi Mei with both hands again. Then while kneeling on the ground, bow down slowly, with palms on the ground and foreheads on palms (this is called worship), then straighten up, and at the same time reach out and shake hands with (this is called xing)-then stand up or worship according to etiquette ... When you stand up, Qi Mei, stand up, stand up straight and put down your hand.

6. General worship (elegant sitting posture): raise your hips, straighten your upper body, support your body with your knees, and then bow with your hands (hands to the ground, head to your hands) or kowtow (head to the ground) or kowtow (for a long time) or curtsy (for a short time).

7. Women salute: In the spirit of equality, women are not required to salute specially. But in a tolerant way-the woman salutes with her hands crossed on her chest, slightly bending her knees and slightly bowing her head; If you worship, your upper body is straight, your knees are on the ground, your hands are drooping, and your head is slightly lower.

Application: 5. It is generally used for sacrifice or very respectful occasions. 6 for elegant sitting posture. In Hanfu, 1 to 4 should be used as a daily salute, depending on the specific situation-the degree to which the other party is respected and the degree to which you are allowed to show etiquette on specific occasions ... Nowadays, people lack the concept of etiquette, so there is no need to ask too much, but it should be possible through handover. If someone is talking to others while walking, when paying attention to greetings, you should decide the degree of salute according to the situation around you.

Fourth, welcome:

The ancients paid attention to dressing neatly when welcoming guests, so if the host and guests met unexpectedly at the door, the host would pretend not to know each other, shut the door in disregard, and wait until he changed his clothes before opening the door to welcome guests. When welcoming guests, the host stands on the right side of the door (in fact, the host is in the east and the guests are in the west-especially when welcoming guests outside), and the guests walk on the left. Welcome guests to the door, show them the way, say "please" at every corner, the guests will answer "please", open the door for the guests and lift the curtains ... The host asks the guests to sit in their seats (that is, sit in the chair on the right), and the guests resign-and finally decide to sit down according to the situation.

None of this is necessary today. Because of the diverse layout of the building now, it is impossible to distinguish between the theme and the guests, but it is a spirit that should be grasped that the master leads the way and the guests walk behind.

Verb (short for verb) Banquet:

When the host said "please" first, the guest gave up and the host persisted. Just take chopsticks at the same time, don't be too humble.

When drinking tea and wine, block the cup with the big sleeve of your left hand to show elegance.

In short, the principle is: if you feel at ease, do it, if you can do it, do it-don't force anything else.