Get out of the linear view of living in the present

"Living in the moment" is a slogan thinking. "Living in the present" or "living in the future" or "living in the past" seems to have solved something, but in fact nothing has been solved.

"Living in the present", "living in the future" and "living in the past" are all attitudes and states of life in linear time. If I say that I am against "living in the present", I don't mean that I am sure of the concepts of "living in the past" and "living in the future".

Let's enrich ourselves and jump out of the linear thinking of such time, shall we? Isn't there any other dimension to life attitude besides "living in the present", "living in the future" and "living in the past"? Why do you have to stop at a certain time? Why do you have to choose a life state to live?

I remember a friend said a word that inspired me a lot. "The best state of life is that you never think about what state you are in, or whether you live in the past, present or future. I enjoy my daily life, and never thought that these are the future, the present and the past. These are all the same things. Time is time, not the future, not the present, not the past.

Why do you have to put yourself in a certain category? Either this category or that category, or this category or other categories. What's the point of rowing around? Isn't it endless? "Nothing is difficult in the world, nothing is impossible to a willing mind", which is probably the state of having to separate everything. Not everything can be solved clearly, which may be beneficial to research and manufacturing. However, if you are separated, you will be in trouble. Unless you get rid of this, you can separate and reconcile, and this heart needs hard work.

But it seems that "living in the present" has a strange magic, which makes people feel that this is the right choice. An invisible hand seems to push people's minds.

From the natural facts, it seems that people can and can only live in the present. "People can't step into the same river twice", and the arrow of time will never look back. If every moment is separated, it seems that people are neither "living in the past" nor "living in the future", and people always live in the present.

What people can perceive is in the present. Tomorrow's dawn has tomorrow's dawn now, yesterday's dusk has yesterday's dusk now, and now has now. It seems that the present and the present are orderly and do not interfere with each other, just like a linear equation.

So "living in the present" has become a time dilemma. We can neither fast forward nor backward, but we can only stay in it honestly and let the time brought by the change of the moving reference frame move at its natural frequency. What people can do is to wake up at this natural frequency, replenish energy, exercise and sleep, day by day, the seasons change, year by year, age grows, generation by generation.

It seems that there are no people who don't live in the present, and there are no things that can't be done in the present. There is only a natural fact that human body and brain activities can only be in the present, but human mind can be guessed according to the development and changes of things in the future.

For example, if you boil an egg in water for five minutes, the egg will be cooked thoroughly. Although it was five minutes ago, I still set a time for the rice cooker to do other things by myself. Five minutes later, everything was finished.

The rice cooker helped me through these five minutes, and I used them to do other things. There is no doubt that the minute hand of the clock has turned five times now, but people have ten minutes more.

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Time is like an arrow shot from one place at the same time. How many things are at work at the same time, and how many fruits can be harvested when people reach another growth point.

If every new human being is an arrow of time, are we in the same time and space? Undoubtedly, under the same sunlight, May 29th, 20021year is 10: 0 1.

If there is a space-time scalpel, there is actually no time difference at the same moment when the earth's space-time is cut, only the difference in motion. Because the difference between day and night is not natural time at all.

At the moment when the earth's space-time is cut sideways by a static scalpel, that is the present, a split, isolated and instantaneous present. There is a sticker painted by the old door on it. The trend of baseball landing in the next moment can't erase the traces of the past, and the present becomes the driving force for the next moment.

Although "living in the present" can ignore the past in essence, it can't erase the traces of the past. The past has not disappeared, but the mark is still there, and a new door painting has been posted, just like laying a different layer of soil on the geological layer.

The word "living in the present" is too thin to bear the weight of life. Every time I hear someone sigh "live in the moment", I really don't know what he wants to express. First, I just feel helpless and have to live in the present. Second, I regret doing some ridiculous things, indulging in past memories, ignoring for too long, or fantasizing about the future, doing too many unrealistic things, trying to return to the present and live a down-to-earth life; Third, I didn't know until I missed it, but I didn't know how to cherish it at the beginning. The people in charge are healthy and the children are thriving. Everyone is doing their own business, and they are very motivated and goal-oriented. But I didn't realize this plain and true happiness, didn't take good care of my family, didn't live in the present and wanted to make up for it. For example, when I was busy making money, I suddenly found that my children were not around, and I missed my family and the dull process of accompanying my children to grow up.

Everyone is saying "live in the present", but the reasons for living in the present and living in the present are quite different. Some run towards ideals, some return to dullness, some stick to the road, some are loyal to the rivers and lakes, some are laughing, some are singing and dancing, some are shady, some have experienced vicissitudes, some are bored, some are in danger, some are heartbroken, deeply grieved, tossing and turning, and lonely.

The attitude towards life can cover more than just "living in the present". Time seems to be not linear, but it is not the only answer. Life is even more difficult to say, that is, stepping on the stairs, looking at the people wandering, looking at the people around, looking at the people returning, and looking at the people crossing.

Life is determined by what you do every day, not your attitude towards life. Attitudes are ever-changing, and natural facts can be traced.