A Guangdong college entrance examination student scored 235 points and forged an admission notice from Tsinghua University. What’s the psychology behind this?

Like son, like father. How is your son studying? As a parent, don’t you have a clear idea? He scored 235 points in the exam. He may feel embarrassed, but he doesn't want others to look down on him! I forged a fake Tsinghua University admission notice and went home!

I wanted to make my parents happy, but my parents believed it. They thought their son was flattering themselves. Not only did they put up banners and slogans at the village head, but they also planned to let their son wear a big red flower in a parade to honor his family. And prepare a treat of 50,000 yuan.

His son’s admission notice from Tsinghua University was sent to the village WeChat group by his father. He wanted to show off his son’s honor in the WeChat group, but who knew that the mayor saw it?

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The mayor believes that he knows how many people in this town have been admitted to prestigious universities. He has not heard of anyone who has been admitted to Tsinghua University!

The mayor called the Culture and Education Office and found out that it was false.

After the father learned that his son only scored 235 points in the exam, he was so angry that he was hospitalized and said: " It’s not as high as my blood pressure.”

Some netizens joked: "If I could fake an ordinary second-level university at most, I would be satisfied. This guy is very ambitious. He suggested that Tsinghua University should admit him under special conditions. Maybe he will be a talent in the future." "?

The author believes that he has no other ideas. The admission notice is different from the graduation certificate. If you forge a fake Tsinghua University graduation certificate, it will be different. The graduation certificate can be used to find a job, while the admission notice has no impact on society. It won't have any impact.

When I saw this news, I found it particularly ridiculous. The funny thing is that as his biological parents, they didn’t know how much their son weighed. When his son said he was admitted to Tsinghua University, his parents actually If you believe it to be true, you can imagine whether his parents have ever participated in or cared about his son's life and study.

The answer is definitely no. If his parents had cared about their son in daily life and knew more about their son's academic performance, they would not have been deceived this time and actually believed that their son was admitted to "Tsinghua University". His son went through a lot of trouble to deceive his parents. He spent 3,000 yuan to find someone to forge a "Tsinghua University Admission Notice." If the township cadres hadn't exposed the lie, I wonder how long this lie would have deceived his parents.

Perhaps the so-called "Tsinghua Talent" has deceived his parents more than once. It is said that he is a repeat student and his academic performance in school is not ideal. However, every time he goes home, he tells his parents that his academic performance is very good. Okay, so his parents always believed in him and gave him more pocket money whenever he was happy.

This time he tried to lie to his parents again, but this time he went too far. His parents spent 50,000 to 60,000 yuan to treat friends in the village to dinner. When the lie was exposed, they were beaten severely. Parents "slap". Maybe it was because he had been spoiled by him for many days. Maybe if he was admitted to a prestigious school this time, his parents would definitely reward him, so in order to deceive his parents about the reward, he had to pretend to be real.

Children are ignorant and never think about the consequences, just for the immediate benefit. His parents should also reflect more, communicate more with their children, and learn more about their children's lives and psychology, so that such "ridiculous" things will not happen.

I am the fifth brother, let me answer.

This candidate forged the admission notice from Tsinghua University. His original intention was to comfort and surprise his parents, but he was a bit exaggerated.

According to the investigation, this candidate’s real score was 235 points, and his score did not even meet the admission score of ordinary vocational colleges. He actually forged an admission notice out of the blue, and it was from Tsinghua University.

When the parents knew that their son had been admitted to Tsinghua University, they thought that smoke was coming out of their family graves, so they spent 40,000 to 50,000 yuan to set up dozens of banquets. The villagers came to congratulate them with gifts and were very happy. , even the village committee was filled with firecrackers and gongs and drums.

After the local education committee learned about it, they felt a little strange because they had not received any relevant information. They immediately rushed to check and found out that the notice was fake. His father fainted and his blood pressure rose to 220. .

This candidate has good intentions. Seeing that his parents are working so hard, he is the only child in high school, and no one in the village has ever looked down upon him, and all his parents’ dreams are entrusted to him. He wants his parents to Have face in front of everyone.

My child, what you didn’t expect is that after this incident was exposed, your parents would no longer be able to hold their heads high in the village. They might have to be laughed at for a long time and be feared.

There is a family in our village with two sons, one named "Tsinghua" and the other "Beida". Their famous saying is: Tsinghua and Peking University are not terrible. If you can't do it in one year, you can win it in two years.

Every day when they came home from school, the two children told their parents that the teacher praised them again today for getting more and more correct words in silent words. The parents praised their children to the neighbors for being "college students." seedling".

Every time they took a test, their scores were always in single digits. The brothers would add a "9" in front of the score and take it home to their parents, who would invariably praise them. Later, their grades got worse and worse, and they went home without even finishing elementary school.

@五哥笑 Feelings What I want to say is: Three hundred and sixty lines, and you will be the number one scholar. It's great to get into college, but it's not a shame to fail. The wise eat the wise, the unwise eat the hard work. Don't do anything to starve people to death.

Parents’ expectations for their children cannot be too high, as long as they try their best. You should also contact the teacher frequently to understand the true situation of the child.

I am the fifth brother who talks about emotions, focusing on the field of emotions and savoring the true feelings of the world.

How would you comment on this?

It is reported that the candidate spent 3,000 yuan on forging the notice, and tens of thousands more on the banquet held by his father to celebrate in the village. This is a very expensive sum for an ordinary rural family. cost.

This candidate’s college entrance examination score was only 235, but for some reason he found someone to forge the admission notice from Tsinghua University. After his father received the news, he immediately held a banquet in the whole village. , I can’t wait to run around and tell the whole world. Unexpectedly, before the banquet was completed, they found out that the notice was forged and fainted with anger on the spot.

So why did this candidate forge the admission notice from Tsinghua University? 01. The so-called vanity, satisfying your own imagination of higher education

Tsinghua University and Peking University should be the place that many college students aspire to, and they are the two top universities in my country. Being admitted to these two universities not only represents one's strong ability, but may also be half the success in life, not to mention coming from a rural family, which can be regarded as a matter of honoring one's ancestors.

Based on this premise, many candidates have their own fantasies about Tsinghua and Peking University. However, due to the large gap in their own strength, they can only satisfy their imagination through some other ways. Moreover, this is a very prestigious thing in rural areas. The chance of becoming a college student is low, let alone a college student of Tsinghua University and Peking University.

Therefore, this fake student does not rule out the suspicion of satisfying his own vanity. 02. Fear of blame and wanting to meet parents’ high expectations

There is another theory that this college student originally just wanted to cajole his parents, but he did not expect such consequences. This may be related to the excessive expectations that parents often give to their children. Some parents hope that their children will succeed. If they fail to do so, they may be blamed. This will invisibly put a lot of pressure on the children. When the children fail to do so, they may find other ways to satisfy their parents. requirements. So this candidate thought of forging the admission notice. 03. Out of fun

He should also know very well that he made a fake notice, and there is no way he can make up the lie later. Because after getting the notice from Tsinghua University, the next step is to register for school. You can tamper with the admission notice, but you can't let the world lie for you. Therefore, I think this student should know the truth that paper cannot contain fire, but why he still tries it? I think it has something to do with his immature mentality, maybe out of fun, maybe out of pride.

So this case also enlightens us that lies will eventually be exposed one day. Things that are not obtained by one's own strength will eventually come to nothing; secondly, when parents impose demands on their children, at the same time We should consider the pressure they are under, communicate more to open their hearts, and provide practical help instead of just asking without taking action.

The consequences of this incident are rather serious, because the candidate is likely to become a laughing stock in the village. What happened

Recently, it was reported on the Internet that a Guangdong candidate scored 235 points in the college entrance examination, but forged a Tsinghua University admission notice. The whole village held up banners and set off firecrackers to celebrate, and his father killed pigs and sheep, spending tens of thousands. After learning that she had been deceived, she fainted and was sent to the hospital. She was later sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. When she woke up, her blood pressure was checked at 220. She cursed: My blood pressure was too high even if I didn't do well in the exam!

Judging from the news spread on the Internet, there is a certain degree of exaggeration and joke processing.

But forging admission letters is indeed a real thing. Why are Tsinghua University admission notices forged?

Many netizens wonder that even if they forge admission notices, they cannot go to Tsinghua University to study. Lies will be exposed sooner or later, why would you take such a risk?

In his father's interview, the father believed that his son was a good boy who was obedient and helped his parents with housework and cooking. So he was shocked when he learned that he had been deceived.

His family is not considered wealthy. The candidate named Cao is the youngest son. He also has two older brothers and one older sister who are married. His parents are very busy with farm work, so he often does housework.

From his father’s discussion, we can conclude that the reasons why students forge Tsinghua admission notices are:

1. Out of a desire to show off. Because of poor grades, fake admission to Tsinghua University can gain great glory.

2. Let parents feel at ease. When the results of the college entrance examination came out, his parents must have had great expectations for him, but in the end he didn't get many marks. Parents will be very disappointed when they find out.

3. Parents’ excessive expectations. Parents' expectations will put pressure on their children, which may also be one of the starting points for fraud. Parents don’t care enough about their children

Why does this oolong happen? I think the most important thing is that parents don’t care enough about their children. It can be seen from the college entrance examination results that the usual grades must not be good.

How could a student who had always been considered a poor student suddenly gain hundreds of points in the college entrance examination?

A student who was not good at junior college became a top student at Tsinghua University after just one exam.

If parents know the usual grades, they will definitely be suspicious of the admission letter. But his father gradually realized there was something wrong with the notice after a neighbor pointed it out.

It means that the parents have a big problem and do not care enough about their children. They should be actively guided to get out of the shadows

The student surnamed Cao couldn't sleep in the first few days and nights because the incident was exposed. He recently ran away from home and threatened to no longer go to school but to work. It can be seen that after the incident was revealed, the tremendous pressure caused a shadow on the child.

Things have already happened, and regretting what you have done is of no use. Parents should not just feel that they are hurt and sink into grief. You should take the initiative to take responsibility and actively guide your children.

Parents should hold their chests high, smile and tell their children confidently that it is not scary to make mistakes, and do not lose confidence if you do not do well in the exam.

Actively guide and get out of this shadow.

First of all, congratulations to this candidate for getting admitted to "Tsinghua University" with 235 points

After the news about a Guangdong candidate who forged an admission notice from Tsinghua University spread, everyone commented on this candidate. But before I analyze the candidate's mind, I would like to say that everyone should not criticize the candidate too much. After all, too much public opinion will put the candidate under great pressure and may cause some unpredictable dangers!

Everyone already knows what happened, so I won’t go into details. Why did this candidate tell a huge lie?

This candidate is usually very honest at home. He has three older brothers and sisters who are all married. He usually does the housework. This shows that he is not a bad person and just wants to make his father happy. , but he didn’t expect that his father was too happy, and the whole village knew about it, and the village celebrated the happy event. Finally, it even reached the county education bureau. He didn’t expect the development of the matter. He just wanted to make his father happy. The result was this!

In fact, this candidate just wanted to make his father happy. The starting point was good, but he just used the wrong method. There is no need to criticize this candidate. Instead of criticizing this candidate, it is better to criticize that candidate. The person who illegally produced the admission notice, if there was no such person, perhaps nothing would have happened! Even though he only scored 235 points, he forged the admission notice from Tsinghua University, held a banquet in the village, and even took photos with many people. This is a typical morbid show-off mentality. Although he thought it was just for fun, his behavior had violated relevant laws and he might even be held criminally responsible.

Cao is a candidate for this year’s college entrance examination. I don’t know what his considerations were when he forged an admission notice from Tsinghua University. When his father received this notice, his joy was naturally difficult to express. They killed pigs and sheep, spent tens of thousands of yuan to entertain relatives and friends, and even had to wear a big red flower for Cao to parade through the streets.

In the end, because this matter was too big, the local education committee found out after investigation that there was no such thing at all, so Cao’s scam was exposed. When Cao’s father learned the truth, he was furious on the spot. Fainted. After waking up, he cursed: Your score is not as high as my blood pressure. As a father, he should know the level of his son, but he was carried away by the joy in front of him.

As the saying goes, a father knows his son better than his father. As a father, although he cannot know everything about his son's usual academic performance, he should at least know the general situation.

How could a person who usually couldn't pass the mock exams soar during the college entrance examination? So I think Cao's father was also temporarily carried away by happiness. If you give him a few days to calm down, he may also have doubts. Cao's behavior is a morbid show-off mentality of being drunk now and drunk the next.

Although Cao has not yet entered the society, he should know clearly that such fraud will one day be exposed. But he was still addicted to it. Not only did he perfectly coordinate with his father's celebration banquet and parade preparations, he even took photos with relatives and friends who came.

You must know that today is an Internet society, and information spreads very quickly. Isn't he afraid that his classmates will see such news? This can easily be revealed. So I think he is also a person who only cares about today and does not care about tomorrow. Cao's behavior has been suspected of violating the law and may even bring him jail time.

Tsinghua University is a national institution. Cao’s act of forging a Tsinghua University admission notice with a seal is also suspected of forging national official documents and public institution seals. Such behavior may be subject to public security penalties or criminal penalties depending on the severity of the case.

If Cao’s behavior does not cause serious consequences, he can be dealt with according to Article 52, paragraph 1, of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law". The maximum administrative detention period is 15 days and the minimum detention period is 5 days.

However, what is worthy of our attention is that Cao’s father held a large banquet to celebrate, during which he probably received gifts from the villagers. This indirectly caused economic losses to the villagers and caused certain social harm. If the circumstances are serious, criminal punishment can be imposed according to Article 280, paragraph 2, of the Criminal Law.

Finally, no matter what kind of psychology Cao had for forging the Tsinghua University admission notice, it was very naive, and Cao’s parents also have an unshirkable responsibility for this. There are both deficiencies in family education and deficiencies in self-supervision.

It is true that getting admitted to a good university can bring glory to one’s family, but such self-deception is simply laughable. I believe that Cao and his family have become the biggest laughing stock in the local area. It is really pitiful for parents in the world. I believe that after this incident, the plants and trees will mature and grow a lot.

It is understood that the child made this fake Tsinghua University admission notice to please his parents, but unexpectedly his father immediately took a photo of the notice, showed it off everywhere, and even went to a hotel to book it. After the banquet, all this was completely beyond the children's expectations.

It is good to want to shine, but you must achieve it through your own real efforts. If you are really admitted to Tsinghua University, needless to say, this is indeed a very happy thing , after all, every parent wants their child to succeed. However, obtaining temporary joy through such deception only brings greater loss.

The child’s father must have been very happy when he found out that his child had been admitted to Tsinghua University. He was preparing to parade on the street and prepared a banquet worth tens of thousands of yuan. Unexpectedly, he ended up making a fuss. An own goal. We don’t need to be too harsh on the behavior of children, but this behavior of children is indeed inappropriate. Fraudulence cannot be tolerated. Now it is just a forged admission notice from Tsinghua University. Do you want to forge other documents in the future?

In fact, on the other hand, it also shows that parents of children do not know much about their children’s grades. They have no idea how much their children weigh. I don’t know whether parents of children usually weigh Some oversight.

We all know an ancient story about a child who stole needles when he was young, and later stole gold when he grew up. When he was caught, he realized that it was because his parents had no money for stealing needles when he was a child. If you control them, they will become real robbers when they grow up.

Cheating is out of children's vanity and to satisfy parents' desire for their children to succeed. However, this is not the right path. Only what is obtained through real efforts can truly satisfy parents.

I hope that the children will never cheat in their future lives!

As a so-called poor student, I understand the psychology of this candidate very well, and I feel the same way.

Although people like us have poor academic performance, we are relatively strong. When we see others showing off their achievements, we are also envious and want to be such good students, favored by teachers and parents. Whenever the final results come out and the good students go to collect their certificates and bonuses, we can only pray silently in our hearts, pretend to laugh and not care, and pretend to be calm. How we wish we could get encouragement at this time. Maybe this encouragement can change our lives.

I feel that the child dared to play such a risky move because he was forced to do so. When the college entrance examination results were announced, a "Tsinghua University Admission Notice" appeared in the village, and some people were suspicious at that time. Some people found that the word "take" was not in the middle of the admission notice. In addition, the "reporting time" was also written as "reporting time", and the "higher education" on the admission notice was also written as "advanced education." It is estimated that the child thought of this step because he felt hopeless in the college entrance examination, but he did not think more about it. He just thought about hiding it day by day, and it ended up causing a big incident. From this incident, we can also see how much pressure Chinese candidates are under. Otherwise, would he be able to do such a thing?

We should look at this incident very rationally. I think parents are very responsible. As parents, don’t you know how your children are doing in their studies, how many points they can get, and what kind of schools they can get into? The father said that the child’s test scores were not as high as his blood pressure. It is said that the child's final college entrance examination score was 235, which was far from the admission score of Tsinghua University. Don't the villagers know the child's usual study status? Are they hyping it up like this? They also held banners and set off firecrackers to celebrate the event.

The final reason should be that the child could not bear the excessive pressure, so he behaved in such an extreme and thoughtless manner. The child is young and ignorant, so we cannot blame him entirely. What is most needed now is the rationality of everyone and the rationality of the media, and they can no longer hype it up.

I heard that all the children have run away from home! The most important thing now is to find ways to help this child more, so that he can go on strong and become a useful person in society. This is the most important thing!