How to Practice Socialist Core Values in Family Education

First, the connotation of socialist core values

What are the socialist core values? The 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China drew an important scientific conclusion, that is, "advocating prosperity, democracy, civilization and harmony, freedom, equality, justice and the rule of law, patriotism, professionalism, honesty and friendliness, and actively cultivating and practicing socialist core values". These 24 words, 12, are the basic contents of socialist core values. The "three propositions" express the "three levels" of values. The first layer is the first eight words, prosperity, democracy, civilization and harmony, which is the value goal at the national level. The second level is the eight words in the middle, freedom, equality, justice and the rule of law, which are the value orientation of the social level. The third level is the last eight words, patriotism, dedication, honesty and friendliness, which are the values of citizens at the personal level. Below, we make a simple understanding of the connotation of these three levels.

"Prosperity, democracy, civilization and harmony" is the value goal at the national level, and it is also the goal of building a modern country in Socialism with Chinese characteristics and realizing the prosperity of the country, people's happiness and national rejuvenation. Prosperity means that the country is rich and the people are strong. The country's prosperity is the economic and material basis of the country's prosperity and people's happiness and well-being, and it is the economic and military strength of the people of China standing in the east of the earth and the Chinese nation standing in the world.

Democracy is the people's democracy, and the people are the masters of the country, which is the essence and life of socialism and the political guarantee for the people's happy life. Civilization is an important symbol of contemporary social progress, a concentrated expression of the advanced socialist culture that we are striving to build for modernization, the world and the future, and an important spiritual force and pillar to realize the rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. Harmony is the unity of the people of all ethnic groups in the country, social stability and order, and people's harmony. The party and the masses, cadres, the army and the people, the police and the people, residents and families are all harmonious and friendly.

A vivid situation of pampering, learning and teaching, earning from work, living and living, getting medical care and providing for the elderly.

As a social value orientation, "freedom, equality, justice and rule of law" is determined by the essence of socialist society. Freedom, everyone's will, freedom of survival and development; Equality, everyone is equal before the law, human rights are respected and guaranteed, and everyone enjoys the right to equal participation and equal development according to law; Justice, social fairness and justice, the fairness of socialist society means that every member of society can enjoy rights, opportunities, processes and results in accordance with the law when participating in social life, legal survival, residence, migration, education, employment, medical care, remuneration and welfare; Justice in socialist society is to make a fair judgment on right and wrong, good and evil in the political, legal and moral fields, and its fundamental standard is to conform to the legal norms and moral norms of socialist society and the interests of the overwhelming majority of the people. The rule of law is the basic way of governing the country, the basic requirement of socialist democratic politics, and the legal guarantee for safeguarding and safeguarding the fundamental interests of citizens and realizing freedom, equality, fairness and justice. Freedom, equality, justice and the rule of law are important value orientations and legal ethics that adhere to people-oriented, promote and guarantee people's free and all-round development and social management stability, stability and harmony.

As a citizen's personal value criterion, "patriotism, dedication, honesty and friendliness" is the essence extracted from social morality, professional ethics, family virtues and personal morality, the integration of traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and the value criterion that every citizen should follow. Patriotism is an individual's deep sense of dependence on the motherland and a code of conduct to regulate the relationship between individuals and the motherland. It is the duty and social responsibility of every citizen to love the motherland, serve the people, contribute to society, safeguard national unity, defend national dignity and take the rejuvenation of the Chinese nation as his own responsibility. Love and dedication, loyalty, hard work, self-denial, service to the people, service to the society, and contribution to national construction and development are the professional spirits that all walks of life in socialist society should carry forward and practice. Honesty, from personal honest labor, honesty and trustworthiness, keeping promises and treating others sincerely, to government integrity, business integrity, social integrity and judicial credibility, should follow the principle of honesty, improve personal credit records, improve the social justice credit system, restrain and punish dishonesty, and form a social atmosphere that is proud of dishonesty and ashamed of dishonesty. Citizens get along well with each other, respect each other, care for each other, help each other, be harmonious and friendly, cultivate self-cultivation, respect morality and be kind, and establish a new type of socialist noble interpersonal relationship.

20 13 In the middle of February, the General Office of the Central Committee issued the Opinions on Cultivating and Practicing Socialist Core Values, pointing out that "the socialist core values are the core of the socialist core value system, which embodies the fundamental nature and characteristics of the socialist core value system, the rich connotation and practical requirements of the socialist core value system, and is highly concise and concentrated". As social citizens, as educators and guides of children, each of our parents should study and practice seriously.

Second, the significance of cultivating and practicing socialist core values

Why should we cultivate and practice socialist core values? The Opinions on Cultivating and Practicing Socialist Core Values issued by the General Office of the Central Committee of the CPC pointed out: "Cultivating and practicing socialist core values is a strategic task to promote Socialism with Chinese characteristics's great cause and realize the Chinese nation's great rejuvenation of the Chinese dream." Why is this a "strategic task"? It can be understood from two aspects: First, as far as the country and nation are concerned, China is a developing country, still in the primary stage of socialism, and is working hard with one heart and one mind to build a well-off socialist modern country and realize the Chinese dream of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. We are facing a new situation of value contest under the situation of ideological and cultural exchange and confrontation in the world; Facing the new characteristics of ideological pluralism under the conditions of reform and opening up and the development of socialist market economy, Socialism with Chinese characteristics countries led by China's * * * Production Party must consolidate the guiding position of Marxism in the ideological field under the new situation and new characteristics of "three connections" and "three or more"; We must establish and consolidate the ideological foundation for the United struggle of the whole party and the people of the whole country; It is necessary to gather strong positive energy to build a well-off society in an all-round way and realize the Chinese nation's rejuvenation of the Chinese dream; We should inherit and carry forward the excellent traditional culture and moral essence of the Chinese nation, and build the spiritual pillar and value support to promote the all-round development of people and lead the all-round progress of society. Cultivating and practicing socialist core values in the whole society is conducive to effectively coping with, resisting and crushing the conspiracy of western hostile forces to implement the strategy of values infiltration in China, safeguarding China's ideological security and consolidating the guiding position of Marxism; It is conducive to guiding the correct direction of people's interests and value pursuit, firmly establishing the ideal of building a Socialism with Chinese characteristics, and consolidating the ideological foundation of the United struggle of the whole party and the people throughout the country; It is conducive to leading social thoughts, promoting social integrity, cultivating civilized fashion, shaping noble personality and national spiritual character, cultivating harmonious interpersonal relationships, and condensing strong positive energy and * * * common will to realize the Chinese national rejuvenation of the Chinese dream in the whole society. Therefore, the socialist core values are the magic weapon to realize the above-mentioned "four musts", which has important practical significance and far-reaching historical significance. Second, judging from the current generation of young people, they are the main force and fresh force to realize the grand goal of "two hundred years" from now to 2050 proposed by the 18th National Congress. The ideals, beliefs, ideas, values, moral quality and spiritual outlook of this generation are directly related to the success or failure of our party's cause and to the future and destiny of our country and nation. We should train the younger generation to be socialist builders and successors who practice socialist core values and develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically, and shoulder the historical responsibility of realizing the grand goal of "two hundred years". Therefore, vigorously cultivating and practicing the socialist core values is an important event to ensure the continuous development of Socialism with Chinese characteristics's cause, the long-term stability of the country and the happiness and well-being of the people, which will contribute to the present and benefit the future. Therefore, this is a strategic task. It is necessary to implement the opinions of the CPC Central Committee on cultivating and practicing socialist core values, strengthen organizational leadership, strengthen publicity and education, integrate into the whole process of national education, implement economic development practice and social governance, carry out practical activities, and implement them in rural areas, enterprises, schools, families and other grassroots units to achieve full coverage, form a vivid scene for everyone to practice socialist core values, and constantly promote the transformation of socialist core values into social group consciousness and the people.

Third, the family shoulders the heavy responsibility of educating children to learn and practice socialist core values.

Learning and practicing socialist core values is an important task of family education for two reasons: First, the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China and the Third Plenary Session of the 18th Central Committee clearly put forward that "moral education is the fundamental task of education". Moral education is not only the fundamental task of school education, but also the fundamental task of family education. What kind of morality we want to establish, we must establish socialist morality; We should cultivate socialist builders and successors with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Socialist core values are the core and essence of socialist morality and the soul of socialist builders and successors. Every parent is eager for their children to grow up healthily and become adults in the future. Every child has his own life ideal and value pursuit. However, parents should understand that whether their children become politicians, industrialists, scientists, artists ... and pursue career success, rich life, happy family and so on, they must establish and practice socialist values. Because they are all China people and citizens of Socialism with Chinese characteristics society, they should love the motherland, be loyal to their duties, be honest and trustworthy, be friendly to others, enjoy freedom, equality and justice, support the rule of law, serve the country, serve the people, contribute to the society, and make their due contributions to the country's prosperity, people's democracy and social civilization and harmony. Otherwise, their own pursuit of personal value will be difficult to achieve, they will not become useful talents to society, and they will even be eliminated by society and spurned by the people.

Second, the Opinions on Cultivating and Practicing Socialist Core Values issued by the General Office of the Central Committee of the CPC pointed out: "We should start from an early age", "Improve the educational network that combines schools, families and society, guide families and all sectors of society to actively cooperate with school education, consolidate the achievements of school education with a good family atmosphere and social atmosphere, and form a strong synergy of family, society and school education". Family is an emotional collective, the base for cultivating children, the first school for children, the first teacher for children, the mentor and friend for children, and the role model for children's life. Parents' occupation is not only responsible for their children's physical development, but more importantly, it is responsible for cultivating their children's "mental outlook", so that children can gradually take responsibility for their "mental outlook" in the process of growth, form a scientific world outlook, outlook on life and values guided by socialist core values, and make their "spiritual seeds" sprout, blossom and bear fruit healthily and become towering trees. Family education is a great "life project", a project that affects life with life. Children's living conditions, life dreams, moral cultivation, emotional quality, behavior habits and so on are closely related to family education. Therefore, family education must not become a shoddy project, which not only harms children and families, but also harms the country and society. Therefore, families and parents should shoulder the heavy responsibility of cooperating with schools to educate children to learn and practice socialist core values.

Fourth, how can families educate their children to learn and practice socialist core values?

This paper focuses on children's learning and practicing citizens' personal values-patriotism, professionalism, honesty and friendliness, that is, how to cultivate children's patriotism, professionalism, honesty and friendliness, which should be an important content and task of family education.

(A) How to cultivate children's patriotic feelings in family education

The Chinese nation has a long history of civilization of 5,000 years, which provides us with the most extensive and profound traditional cultural resources in the world. The long historical tradition and profound cultural accumulation are inexhaustible, rich and vivid teaching materials for family education to cultivate children's patriotic feelings.

1. Cultivate children's awareness of "isomorphism between home and country"

The traditional society in China is a society composed of clan, clan and clan ties. The biggest feature of China society is that a whole set of relationships and lifestyles come from the family. China's family ethics lasted for thousands of years, and also derived the social tradition of "giving one's life for the home" and "defending the country". In the historical process of the development of the Chinese nation, the belief of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world" has penetrated into the national bone marrow and transformed into a strong sense of national identity and national cohesion.

Under the impact of the modern tide, China's traditional social values of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and calming the world" should still be the core content of family education. Cultivating children's patriotic feelings means changing the "self-centered" parenting style caused by doting, cultivating children's sense of family responsibility from an early age, learning to honor their elders and be grateful to their parents; Cultivate children's sense of social responsibility from an early age and learn to give back to the society and the motherland. Cultivate children to be China people who have feelings, love and responsibility for themselves, their families, their nation and their country.

2. Cultivate children's awareness of "fighting for the rise of the Chinese nation"

Premier Zhou Enlai's belief of "learning for the rise of the Chinese nation" has inspired generations of China people. In today's complex and diverse social background, this belief should still be a powerful driving force to stimulate children's patriotic feelings in family education.

To cultivate children's patriotic feelings is to guide them to correctly understand the history of China and the national conditions of China's reform. Let the children know that the history of China people's establishment of their own modern nation-state is tragic, and it is a century-long unremitting effort. From the collapse of the Qing Dynasty to the * * * peace, from the May 4th Movement to the warlord scuffle, from the Northern Expedition to the establishment of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression and New China, the Chinese nation experienced the sacrifice of tens of millions of people and finally established a nation-state in the modern sense. Later, after several twists and turns, after more than 30 years of reform and opening up, it finally established its position as a real world power and attracted worldwide attention.

Family education should let children know that true patriotism is not the abuse and irrational behavior of the enemy, but the inheritance and development of the fine revolutionary tradition of the Chinese nation, with the belief of "fighting for the rise of the Chinese nation", loving the motherland with practical actions, serving the motherland and winning glory for the motherland.

3. Cultivate children to learn Chinese as a unique language.

The industrious and intelligent Chinese nation has created rich and sustained cultural achievements in the 5,000-year history of civilization, and Chinese is the product of China's long history and culture. Chinese characters in China contain the culture and belief of China people, which gives China people inexhaustible cultural resources. If you learn Chinese well, the basic elements of China culture will melt into your blood, and you will learn a lot about being a man and doing things.

In today's international and scientific social background, to cultivate children's patriotic feelings, family education should start with learning Chinese well. Let children write Chinese characters well, master Chinese characters and understand Chinese characters from an early age; Let children know that the language of a nation is the spiritual blood of their own culture. If you keep Chinese, you will keep the root of China culture. Let children love and be proud of Chinese in the process of learning Chinese, and let Chinese have greater influence all over the world.

(B) How to cultivate children's professionalism in family education

Looking at successful people or people with lofty ideals from all walks of life, the core of their successful experience lies in their majors. For children who are studying, dedication means loving learning and having a sense of learning. In China, parents want their children to have a successful career. Children should be dedicated in the future, so they should learn consciousness from an early age. Parents are duty-bound to learn and grow together with their children.

1 to stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning

The main function of education is to enlighten and awaken. Developmental psychology believes that when a child is young, it is like a video tape. Need to show and experience all emotions (happiness, pain, sadness, pride, depression, love and hate, etc.). ) and behavior, leave a suitable impression. In the later growth process, children can find a more suitable coping style through "psychological rumination", which is very similar to the formation of human immune system. If parents leave a learning impression on their children during the formation of this system, then children's awareness of learning will increase day by day during their growth.

Awakening children's awareness of learning is the process of awakening children's hearts. A child's mind consists of six parts: self-esteem is the "backbone" of the spirit; Self-confidence, which is the "main program" to enter the brain; Responsibility, which is the "heart lock" to control yourself; Initiative and enterprising spirit, which is the source of power in life; Interest in learning, which is the physiological motivation of learning behavior; Good habits, this is the "automatic program" of outstanding performance. The best way to help children improve their minds is to be good at discovering children's advantages, giving positive encouragement, cultivating children's positive and optimistic attitude, curiosity and questioning habits, and developing their ability to find, ask and solve problems, so that children can become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause will have a good start; Without reason, no feat will have a good result. "

Once the fire of children's life and passion for learning are ignited, they will have a strong life force, and they will "face the sea and bloom in spring" and laugh at any difficulties and twists and turns in life.

2. Cultivate children's good learning quality.

Cultivating children's learning quality cannot be blind and disorderly. Parents should know what their children need for their growth and future development. Harvard University and Princeton University in the United States must have the following qualities to judge a "quality person":

(1) has clear thinking, expression and writing skills.

(2) the ability to form concepts and solve problems.

⑶ Ability to think independently.

(4) Have independent working ability and innovative spirit.

5] Ability to cooperate with others.

Familiar with different ways of thinking.

From the above qualities, it can be seen that the standard of judging "high-quality people" in western society is not only high, but also comprehensive qualities such as action, leadership, creativity, communication ability, cooperative understanding, humanistic spirit of selfless love, knowing how to give and know how to repay society.

The contents of family education in Japan are:

(1) Pay attention to developing basic living habits.

(2) Pay attention to honesty and decisive education.

(3) Pay attention to cultivating children's rich emotions and personalities.

(4) Pay attention to the education of endurance and self-control.

5] Pay attention to the education that children can act consciously and have their own opinions.

Attach importance to the education that children can rationally adapt to the environment.

Once attached importance to the education of discovering the value of self.

(8) Pay attention to the education of getting good grades and academic qualifications.

As can be seen from the above, Japanese families pay more attention to their own growth and experience in their children's study and education.

Parents in China can learn from it. In any case, in the process of accompanying children to grow up, life education, personality education, frustration education, habit education, responsibility education, laws and regulations education, psychological education and so on are needed. Because these educations involve children's future survival direction, viability and quality of life.

3. Help children learn to learn.

It is very important to help children learn to "teach people to fish" or "teach people to fish". Many parents have been accustomed to "arranging" their children's learning since childhood, which leads to their children suffering from "learning dependence" and passive learning. Helping children learn is to guide children to learn to learn and form the ability of active and independent learning in learning and training.

First of all, we must cultivate children's awareness of setting goals. The goal is the map of success. If you set a learning goal, you will have a direction to struggle. The clearer the goal, the easier it is to succeed. The four elements that guide children's development goals are:

(1) Guide children to write down goals-In the process of thinking about writing down goals, children naturally enter specific plans, and the content of implementation is gradually clear.

⑵ Limit the time to achieve the goal-with the goal "road map", it is necessary to give a time limit so that the limited time can stimulate the action to achieve the goal.

(3) the gradual improvement of the goal-the difficulty of the goal is directly related to the efforts made. Children should be encouraged to constantly improve the "height" of their goals and let them jump up and "pick peaches".

(4) Have fighting spirit-In the process of implementing the goal, it is very important to stimulate the fighting spirit of children. Encourage children to work confidently, bravely and intelligently for the set goals.

Secondly, help children analyze and overcome the unfavorable factors that affect their study. For example, make a list of "problems", let children check the numbers, and then focus on correcting them:

(1) insufficient accumulation;

(2) sloppy;

(3) vague;

(4) Blind spots;

5] Understanding deviation;

[6] In a bad mood;

(7) Lack of methods;

Too slow;

Levies writing is too messy;

Lack of perseverance ...

In the process of classifying and finding problems, children's learning ideas will become clearer and clearer, and their learning efficiency will continue to improve.

Finally, we should train children's thinking ability in daily life, let them learn to observe, think, classify and summarize, and learn causal analysis, thus forming lasting and effective learning quality.