How to spoil your husband after ten years of marriage

1. Ten years of marriage experience summary: How to be a smart woman that her husband dare not look down upon?

A smart woman should be dignified and polite in front of outsiders.

You can't be serious in front of your husband Occasionally, you should be spoiled and play properly.

Some experts say that a woman who can't be spoiled can't be called a woman, but at most she is a "woman". A smart woman should understand the strategic policy of "combining rigidity with softness, taking retreat as progress".

Gentleness is a woman's nature, and it is also the best weapon for women to conquer men. Most men are still soft-hearted guys. The old-fashioned "crying, quarreling and hanging" may make men compromise temporarily, but it will only make men more bored after a long time.

Therefore, at any time, in front of men, don't be aggressive, aggressive, which will only annoy men and women will always suffer. Smart women shouldn't be suspicious all day.

Instead of trying so hard to guard against men, it is better to spend these time and energy on yourself. Spend more time dressing up, enriching yourself and enhancing your charm.

Be a healthy, happy and confident woman easily. Instead of being nervous about men, let your husband be nervous about you.

A smart woman must have her own independent job and income. It is unrealistic to say that "it is better to marry a good husband than to find a good job".

There is a saying in my hometown that makes sense: "Parents are not as good as husbands; Husband is not as good as himself! " I really can't trust anyone but myself. If you want to have absolute power at home, if you don't want others to think you are a parasite, if you want to rely on your husband to support you, if you want to be respected by men or family members, you must have your own independent career (work).

Smart women should not keep the same appearance. In that case, even if you are beautiful, your husband will be tired of aesthetics after a long time.

Appropriate and decent changes will make your image refreshing in front of your husband and surprise the audience. Let him feel your charm and let him willingly submit to your pomegranate skirt.

A clever woman should know how to care and love her husband. It's really hard for men to be outside.

Women should create a warm and sweet quiet harbor for men, so that his tired body and mind can have a good rest. Let him fully feel the warmth of home and the power of love.

In this way, his heart will naturally not wander outside. A smart woman must grasp the relationship between herself and her husband.

In fact, even husband and wife, it is better to keep a little distance. A proper distance will not only pull away the relationship between two people, but will make the relationship lasting and fresh.

Never regard men as your accessories, and don't expect to tie men to your belts all day. Give it to him and give yourself more free space.

A clever woman must learn how to live in harmony with her husband's family. Be filial to your parents and respect your friends.

Never embarrass him in front of his family or friends. Even if he makes you angry, you should hold back first.

I'd rather settle accounts after I get home than yell at the lion in front of others. This will make him lose face.

And once a man becomes angry from embarrassment, the consequences are really serious. A clever woman must learn to play dumb.

Men sometimes get confused. Many things, as long as it is not a matter of principle, can turn a blind eye and laugh it off. There's no need to be obsessed with this.

Sometimes your generosity will make men think you are considerate and different, so they regard you with special respect and love you more. A clever woman should learn to manage housework properly.

When you get married and become a family, you have to live carefully and carefully. Life and family have plans, and we can't just muddle along.

Arrange every income and expenditure reasonably and keep the house in an orderly way. Be a competent wife, be a good wife, and let her husband have no worries and work hard outside.

2. How to make your husband love himself more after ten years of marriage?

In some families, the husband is not satisfied with his wife's personality. At this time, some women will change themselves to cater to their husbands' ideas. Some husbands think that their wives are always quiet every day. As wives, when they want to read quietly, they reluctantly become noisy birds, and from time to time they learn to look like Iraqis. Only they know how tired they are. Some husbands want their wives to be gentle, so their wives have changed from a rabbit to a calm person, and some even follow suit.

But you may not think that one day you can't satisfy his desire. At this time, there will be a war at home. Too many changes will also make men think that you are a woman with no position, and even make him think that you are vulgar. Smart women love reading. She is willing to write for her husband, even though she runs a family newspaper and is a "columnist". Like a little girl who loves to dream, she often recalls the bits and pieces of happiness and makes men feel that they can stay young forever.

3. How to spoil your husband

Sister! There is no fixed way! It depends on what kind of thoughts and personalities you two are!

There is probably such a theorem! Spooling should be based on love! Your husband loves you, and he will care about you again! Your coquetry will help! In his opinion, you are very cute! Otherwise, it will be counterproductive! Anyway! A woman who can sprinkle a little jiao is lovely! What is it! A woman who wants to be spoiled at any time will definitely make people very tired!

Think for yourself!

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4. How to make your husband love himself more after ten years of marriage?

In some families, the husband is not satisfied with his wife's personality.

At this time, some women will change themselves to cater to their husbands' ideas. Some husbands think that their wives are always quiet every day. As wives, when they want to read quietly, they reluctantly become noisy birds, and from time to time they learn to look like Iraqis. Only they know how tired they are.

Some husbands want their wives to be gentle, so their wives have changed from a rabbit to a calm person, and some even follow suit. But you may not think that one day you can't satisfy his desire. At this time, there will be a war at home.

Too many changes will also make men think that you are a woman with no position, and even make him think that you are vulgar. Smart women love reading. She is willing to write for her husband, even though she runs a family newspaper and is a "columnist". Like a little girl who loves to dream, she often recalls the bits and pieces of happiness and makes men feel that they can stay young forever.

A man who has been married for ten years teaches you how to run a marriage and family.

Introduce a way for men to apologize.

Before I made a mistake, I would only say "I'm sorry", "I was wrong" and "forgive me" repeatedly. My wife is very dissatisfied.

Later, she taught me to apologize in three steps: the first step is to state the facts, what mistakes I made today; The second step is to explain why you made this mistake; The third step, corrective measures, what measures will be taken in the future to ensure that the same mistakes will not be made again. The experiment has been done many times and the effect is good.

I remember reading a foreign survey before, and one of the family responsibilities that a wife wants her husband to undertake most is to "check the strange sounds coming from home at night". I feel the same way.

The most precious thing between husband and wife is trust. It is not an exaggeration to say that trust is "the treasure of the town house".

Once one party betrayed, even if the other party later forgave and reconciled, the trust was greatly reduced. Suspicion, anxiety and paranoia will begin to appear between two people.

To gain each other's trust, we must not play ambiguous and disappear, and we must make each other's whereabouts, friends and colleagues transparent. We all have a good life. Look at things optimistically, and be normal when encountering unlucky things.

When the mobile phone was stolen, I thought it would be good to change it. My wallet was stolen, and I want to break the bank. When I caught a cold, I thought I could rest for two days. When you encounter traffic jams, you can just think about your heart, listen to the radio and scold the DJ; When the company closed down and was laid off, I thought I could finally start a business and do what I like. When starting a business is not smooth, I feel that the previous 30 years have been too smooth, and the life with a little ups and downs is wonderful. The happiness of children depends on the happiness of parents.

For the sake of children, the two should also strive to create a happy family! I like two people to take a short trip by car, because on the road, in a closed space, I won't watch TV or do housework, so I will naturally start chatting. There is nothing to talk about. There is a lot to talk about what you saw on the road.

Novices who drive indiscriminately on the road, unfamiliar license plates, cars that are rarely seen, slogans posted on the front car, plush toys in the back seat, and drivers who look in the rearview mirror and dig nose excrement in the back car can all talk. You can also turn on the radio, listen to the DJ talking nonsense there and guess what constellation blood type he/she is.