What is social crayfish?

Social crayfish is a homophonic meme, which means a person who behaves "deaf" and "blind" when socializing, and seems aloof, so he is called social little deaf and blind, which is homophonic to social. crayfish.

As a popular Internet vocabulary, "social crayfish" is a homophonic meme. The "dragon" here is not really deaf, and the "shrimp" is not really blind. Everyone's understanding of this type of people is that they are cold and difficult to get along with.

There are two types of "crayfish". One is social phobia, which means there is a psychological barrier to interacting with others; the second is true aloofness, which means that one does not want to deal with anyone and actively chooses to "crayfish" in order to deliberately avoid interacting with others.

In the information society, the social scope of young people has become polarized. Some people are good at communication and can quickly communicate with anyone they meet, and are called "social cows"; while some people, in their interactions with others, show that they are unable to hear what others say and are blind to what they encounter. Such people are nicknamed "social crayfish".

Reasons for the emergence of social crayfish:

American psychologist David McClelland believes that people have basic achievement needs, power needs and affinity needs, in order to achieve inner driving force Keep moving forward. "Social crayfish" is often caused by social micro-needs and low interpersonal desires.

Through the filter of the times, people tend to have "low desires" under the burden of tedious life and work, and are increasingly confused and confused about social interaction. In particular, some young people are more accustomed to using low desires and inaction. , decadence, lying down, and Buddhist describe the inner low motivation state.

The emergence of this kind of crayfish has both subjective and objective factors. Subjective factors include cognitive factors, personality factors, ability factors and physical defect factors. At the same time, school environment, family environment, social environment and other objective environmental factors can also lead to the occurrence of psychological problems in contemporary youth's interpersonal communication.