Emotional communication: learn to get along with others and escort happiness.

Carefully open the emotional exchange of * * *, and you will see a warm yellow cover with a green cover, beautifully packaged and high-grade white paper, which is pleasing to the eye in your hand and allows readers to be intoxicated with the essence of beautiful youth and knowledge in a world that represents hope, vitality and tranquility.

Gu said: when you are happy, you spend it with your friends, so your happiness is doubled; When you feel bad, someone will support you, and your suffering will be halved. People around you are happier because of your existence. Therefore, the happiness and happiness in your life have further increased.

The book Emotional Communication explains how to communicate with others, how to be a person you like, how to live a happier life and make yourself happier.

Second, the main points of this book

"* * * * Emotional Communication" is published by publishing house, and written by Japanese psychologist Dr. Gu. The "* * * emotional communication" put forward in his book is a new concept, which is profound at first glance. After reading it, you will know that Gu's emotion can be simply understood as the ability to empathize with each other, because only by understanding each other's feelings can you have empathy.

Gu is a psychological counselor with many years of psychological counseling experience, and has provided psychological assistance to more than 5,000 people in Japan and the United States. This book is a valuable experience summarized by Dr. Gu for many years.

Emotional communication is divided into four parts: basic article, practical article 1, practical article 2 and special topic, which introduces the main points of emotional communication for us.

The preface of the book is quite wonderful, which makes people get the most treasure. I want to get into the theme immediately, read the wonderful part of the book and discuss the charm of emotional communication with the author.

Third, the knowledge that books can bring to readers.

* * * Emotional communication is a very important ability in life. The book Emotional Communication is very suitable for people who can't handle interpersonal relationships well, want to change the status quo and get along better with others. In his book, Dr. Gu introduced the art of emotional communication with others, and used many examples to show the scene, teaching more people how to be a likable person.

* * * Emotional communication is a sincere way of communication. It is to think from the other person's point of view, put yourself in the other person's shoes, feel and understand other people's emotions and emotions, feel each other's inner world when communicating with others, understand each other's feelings, understand other people's emotions and thoughts, and make appropriate responses.

There are three main points in the book Emotional Communication:

1. People who know * * * are more popular.

2. Communication skills

3. How to be an approachable person

My understanding of emotional communication includes three aspects:

1. Knowing how to care about others will make people like it.

2. Knowing how to listen to others will make people feel kind.

3. Understanding others' feelings will deepen each other's feelings.

There are always people around us who are silently happy and silently happy.

Usually they work as hard as everyone else, and it's nothing special. However, their lives got on the right track early and lived well.

Some people will say: They have high IQ and foresight, and they have planned their lives long ago, knowing when and what to do, so they will live a stable life in no hurry.

In fact, they have no ability to foresee and don't know where life will go, but one thing is certain: they have super emotional ability, know how to communicate with people, know how to get along with people and know how to deal with problems, so they will work smoothly and have a happy family.

People who know * * * can handle difficult interpersonal relationships, make themselves comfortable, add icing on the cake to their lives, and make their lives happy.

Fourth, summarize the sentences

The book is composed of small ideas, like small fragments, more like every intermediate stop on the road of life, reminding more people to think about their gains and losses after work and marriage, and to find the best way to communicate with others and shortcuts to make life smooth.

Every part of this book is short and pithy, so you can read it all at once when you have plenty of time. If you don't have time, you can watch a short paragraph every day, then think, summarize and draw inferences. This book looks ordinary, but after reading it, you will find that the fragments in the book are just a topic of discussion, and more truth needs readers to think, to constantly improve through constant personal experience, and to communicate and get along with people better with the best mentality and mood.

Every seemingly simple subtitle in the book is an idea. The following is an explanation of this idea. In other words, every subtitle reminds more people how to communicate with others. For example, people don't like being accused, and learning to forgive will be more popular; People think they are right, recognizing others will be more popular, and so on Chinese books put forward many practical methods to make readers practice thinking and using, let more people know the importance of emotional communication, and teach everyone how to be a likable person and how to get along well with others in life and work.

A person should make three kinds of friends in his life: a mentor and a pillow book. Reading this book is like chatting with a mentor friend, and it feels very kind. Emotional communication is like an abstruse staircase, which makes people walk up slowly and think seriously: how to be a likable person? How to deal with interpersonal relationships? How can we avoid contradictions? How can we live in harmony with others? Wait a minute.

If getting along with others is a work that runs through one's life, then the conclusion of Emotional Communication is the finishing touch, reminding everyone to treat others sincerely, treat themselves gently, keep a good mood, and make readers' lives full of happiness and joy.

Dale Carnegie, a famous American interpersonal expert, once said: About 15% of a person's success depends on knowledge and skills, and 85% depends on communication. It can be seen that the importance of communication, if the feelings of * * * are integrated into communication with people, our work and life will be like a duck to water and happiness will last forever.

The ancients said: people are strong, and I win with softness; People use art, and I feel it with my heart; Faith can move mountains. Treat different people in different ways and learn how to get along with others. Happiness will go hand in hand with your life, and happiness will be everywhere.

This is my first time to write a book review. Although I am over 500 years old and love reading, book review is still a strange field for me. Due to my limited level and poor writing, please criticize and correct me. Thank you.