Children are inattentive and can't sit still. How can parents control hyperactive children?

Remove irrelevant items that attract children's attention and reduce their time of watching short videos; Cultivate the habit of doing things seriously and planning; Use slogan cards to remind children to pay attention at all times; Train children to form a behavior of "quiet and polite, and be punished for moving around", so as to improve their attention and control hyperactive children. First, clear the irrelevant items around the child that affect his attention and control the time for the child to watch short videos.

Keep smart phones, tablets and electronic toys that attract children's attention away from them. Take the short video software on the mobile phone as an example, it can attract children to slide through one video after another through complex and changeable video content, and finally become addicted. Children's attention shifts to new videos every minute or two. On the one hand, parents need to control their children's exposure to short video software within half an hour; On the other hand, parents should tell their children about the harm of this video mode, reason with them, and guide their children to use smart phones reasonably and watch short videos. Second, cultivate children's habit of focusing on things and setting up goal planning, and set an example.

parents need to cultivate their children's habit of focusing on things, which is very important for controlling hyperactive children. For children around the age of three, their cognitive ability is not yet perfect. Parents need to let their children gradually understand the goals, plans, methods and principles of doing things from the little things in daily life. Taking eating as an example, parents need to tell their children to wash their hands before meals, prepare dishes and chopsticks, set the food, and wash the dishes and scrub the table after meals. This process aims to cultivate children's ability to form their own planning arrangements for one thing. Let children do things with more sense of purpose, easier to concentrate, less likely to move around, and concentrate on things. Parents are the best teachers for children. It should be noted that parents should set an example, don't play with mobile phones at the dinner table, and talk endlessly, but should bow their heads and eat. Eat without words, sleep without words, and set an example for children. Third, use psychological hints and eye-catching slogans to remind children to stay focused.

Let children form positive psychological hints and avoid distractions. Tell children to remind themselves by language when they are aware of their own thoughts, "do it with your heart", "listen attentively" and "don't be distracted". Parents can also write down these tips with brightly colored slogans and put them in a conspicuous position that children can see. Train children to form a habit loop of "absent-mindedness", "slogan reminder" and "concentration", and use psychological hints to prevent children from moving around too much. Fourth, focus on training children, so that they can form a behavior model of "focusing on winning prizes and being punished for hyperactivity".

Use the reward and punishment mechanism step by step to improve children's attention and reduce hyperactivity. Because the three-year-old baby is curious about the surrounding environment, active by nature and pursuing freedom. If parents strictly control their children and restrict their freedom, it is easy to arouse their rebellious psychology, which will be counterproductive. Parents can train their children's ability to play quietly with plush toys. During the process, parents should control the time, with five minutes, fifteen minutes, twenty-five minutes and half an hour as the focus time, which will increase in turn.

At each stage, parents will give their children candy, new toys, fruit juice and other rewards. And after achieving the goal at each stage, the time is unchanged and the focused training is repeated three to five times. If children don't play with toys quietly within the specified time, parents can't reward them and confiscate their toys. This can make children form a behavior pattern in their minds that "there is a reward for playing quietly, and punishment for wandering away from God". Long-term training, combined with gradual and focused methods, can improve attention and make children sit still. Summary

Parents need to set an example and cultivate their children's concentration ability in the above aspects, so that they can improve their attention and control their hyperactive children.