Is it a traditional habit to carry on the family line?

Can't say it's a traditional bad habit. After all, it is a natural thing to reproduce in a sense, which is the duty and instinct of biology. Perhaps it is unpleasant for some people to pay too much attention to family, and most of the so-called traditional bad habits are due to this abnormal attention.

As soon as the couple held their wedding, they were reminded to have children, as if they were not married for love, but to have children legally. Choosing caesarean section or natural delivery is not to give priority to the physical condition of pregnant women, but to consider which way is good for children and which kind of children will be smarter in the future, just as women exist to have a baby. When the baby was born, I made crucian carp soup and pigeon soup for the parturient. What is the reason? I give milk like this, in order to feed the parturient and treat the parturient as a cow. In this process, there is no respect and care for women. No one realized the psychological and physical pain suffered by women who were pregnant in October. No one realized that this woman who was about to become a mother was once a baby who was cared for in the palm of her hand. Just as a mother, all her joys and sorrows, diet and daily life must be centered on the baby. At this moment, she only exists for children, and her meaning is here. Being a mother is the happiest moment for women, but it is also the most materialized moment for onlookers like me. This materialization is undoubtedly due to the over-emphasis on family inheritance.

However, the tragedy is not over yet. It is still the core of this family that the baby grows up, spends his childhood, spends his adolescence and even gets married. The materialization of women, followed by the materialization of men, will accompany the whole growth process of children.

Everything is child-centered, and everything is child-centered, which is a true portrayal of thousands of ordinary families in Qian Qian, China. When a mother has a child, she gives up food and beautiful clothes, and gives up the modification of appearance. What they hear most is probably their mothers. What else can they do? They prepare stationery, schoolbags and meals for their children, check their homework and hold parent-teacher meetings. In order to pick up the children, they are late for work and leave early; Work can be fooled in order to take care of the family; Since becoming mothers, they have lost their pursuit, forgotten their dream of being a girl, given up other social identities, and only remember that they are a mother.

So all family relationships are transformed into parent-child relationships. The so-called widowed parenting and widowed marriage have long forgotten the sweetness of the wedding. This marriage is really just for one child.

Fathers work hard, earn money for their children, let them enjoy a better education, buy cars and houses for their children, and have no worries about food and clothing. The father alienated the parent-child relationship because of fatigue, because he failed to participate in the growth of the child, and even was rejected by the whole family when he was old and weak. A father abandoned by his children and mother.

Because too much attention is paid to the reception of clans, all social responsibilities are abstracted as family responsibilities, and all family relationships are compressed into parent-child relationships. This is the sorrow of the family and the whole society.