Single women are not accepted after 12 o'clock in the evening. This is how Qingdao stores protect women. Is it reasonable?

In Qingdao, Shandong Province, a store recorded a video saying, "After 12 o'clock, we don't accept single women and women without adult men." He suggested that women go home early. When the action came out, it caused an uproar. Later, the owner said that the purpose of sending the video was only for the sake of the vast number of female customers. In response to the netizen's claim that he discriminated against women, the owner admitted and clarified that he was not a male chauvinist. He was willing to entertain women and extend the time to 1: 3 in the morning.

In this regard, many netizens commented that "it is suspected of sexism" and "Why do you point your finger at the victim?" Some netizens also said, "I think there is no problem, so I can't come in for dinner and drink in the middle of the night." "I think it's good. There's no disadvantage in letting me go home early at night!"

The beating in Tangshan BBQ continues to ferment. Several big men brutally attacked unarmed weak women, and the tragic and bloody images made people restless for a long time, and women's sense of social security was once again put on the agenda of the public. While the whole society condemned meritorious service and demanded severe punishment with one voice, some merchants also expressed their concern for women's safety with their own actions, and made domineering slogans at the door.

Some restaurants put up signs saying that "the owner is 183 cm tall and weighs 2 Jin, so he can beat people and carry them"; Some say that "bosses and employees will turn it over at all costs for those who pick fights and hit women after drinking" ... Such slogans do not sweep away hot spots, but at least they can scare off a group of troublemakers.

The public is deeply saddened by what happened to the victimized woman. She just sat there having dinner with her friends, without causing trouble, causing conflicts, seeing invisible corners and wearing bright clothes, which can be described as a "complete victim". But even so, there are still people who pick bones in their eggs and earnestly advocate that "pretty girls should eat snack food stalls less in third-and fourth-tier cities".

people who hold this idea may think that it is the most worry-free and economical way to let women self-discipline. There is a great disparity in physical strength between men and women, and it is hard to prevent risky people. Especially barbecue shops and supper shops are complex, and women are easy to be attacked by drunken men. Stay away from such a noisy area, and all parties have peace of mind.

If women are limited in activity space due to safety risks and cannot have the same freedom of movement as men, this is a kind of gender inequality, regardless of whether this equality is deliberately formed by men. To change this inequality, we need a sound rule of law, good social order, men's self-request, and maintaining the understanding of the weak to enhance women's sense of security.

instead of letting women roll with the punches, they stay in their own one-acre three-point land at night and have to rely on men to get the opportunity to talk late at night. The latter attempts to cover up the existing problems by disciplining women, which is essentially a kind of male chauvinism that advocates women's attachment to men. It fails to see that women and men are independent and equal individuals with equal freedom.