A female classmate was laughed at by her classmates for soiling her pants, and a boy was laughed at by drawing a red spider on his school pants and saying that he would stop menstruation. What do you

A female classmate was laughed at by her classmates for soiling her pants, and a boy was laughed at by drawing a red spider on his school pants and saying that he would stop menstruation. What do you think?

First of all, this student is willing to stand up for his female classmates, which deserves recognition. Anyone would be embarrassed if they were laughed at, and would feel that it is worthy of praise to take the initiative to solve the problem for her. But when you look back, you think this should be done by teachers, not students. This boy offended a bunch of kids, and even if he doesn't have a hard time in the future, he will be targeted by some small-minded classmates for a few days. This kind of means that good people don't get retribution easily. I think this is still inappropriate.

1. Moreover, the teacher must be responsible for maintaining class order. Even if he is not a teacher, he must be a class committee member. Even if he is not a class committee member, he must be an extrovert.

Let the child say a few words. This large number of people were not here when this happened. It's a bit strange that an introverted boy had to use his own pants to stop this.

In short, I feel that this person’s courage deserves encouragement. However, this matter is not suitable for students to do. Even if students do it, it will not be this person's turn.

What this male classmate did is very good and reflects the civility and literacy that should be expected. Secondly, it is really puzzling why there are people who laugh at it. After the implementation of compulsory education for 36 years, in the reform Today, after 44 years of liberalization, there is still ridicule of normal physiological phenomena. This is a matter of personal quality, and it is a direct manifestation of sexual fear. As long as there is systematic and scientific popularization of common sense in the growth process of children, There is a high probability that this kind of thing will not happen.

2. This female classmate should be happy to have such a male classmate with a sense of justice and uplifting moral ideas. At the same time, I also feel that I can see such a China

We are young and proud. Thinking about our junior high school days, although we have never met or heard of any female classmates who laughed at them because of their menstruation, generally speaking

Female classmates who encountered similar problems often waited until everyone left after school before they dared to leave. Do your classmates who get up from their seats and go home laugh at you? People don't always talk about you for no reason.

It's normal to make a fool of yourself and be laughed at by your classmates. It's abnormal not to be laughed at. You can laugh back at it.

The boy who drew Starscream is too mature. He has the potential to be a dog licker at a young age. Without this age, he should be innocent.

Don’t be so sensitive. Being laughed at will hurt your self-esteem? Then how will you mix in society in the future? When you enter the workplace and you are laughed at

It’s all minor when you are laughed at and gossiped about behind your back. If you don’t do something well, you will be scolded by your superiors and bosses, who will criticize you all over. Are you right?

What if you can’t think about it?

The so-called self-esteem and respect are things that are first broken into pieces and then picked up piece by piece by yourself. They are not things given to you by others.

3. I just hope that this child’s talent will not be too skewed in the future, so that he will be confident and not be pubbed.

He will be independent and not be enslaved;

If you have a clear conscience, you will not become a scumbag.

Speaking of which, if you don’t do good homework and don’t attend good classes,

can you really get the right to mate if you are so vain?

This kind of thing in the crotch must be publicized by government schools: It is okay to bleed in the crotch, is it normal?

You bleed in your pants and don’t want to think about the reason? There should be some protection for the work, right?

I want people to accept that pooping is normal

So I can poop everywhere. ?

After criticism and reflection in the comment area, I realized that my above answer was wrong. I want to make a warm boy send me my menstrual period and put up a banner at the gate of Nuan Nuan School, "Menstrual bleeding in the pants is normal behavior, no ridicule is allowed."

Each class has a "Menstrual Care Corner", which is filled with towels, brown sugar and hot water purchased by Nuan Men.

For the students who come to visit their aunt, Nuan Nan is responsible for doing homework, buying lunch, and carrying them to the toilet.

The slogan is,

Let every female student who is menstruating

feel that when I menstruate, I am glorious, when I menstruate, I am dazzling

Enjoying princess-like care and star-like attention, we have seen many people in school and society who like to show off. They want to please specific people, but they have to pay for it.

4. For example, when working in school, they would jump out and say that girls don’t need to do the work, and boys are all covered.

Another example is a parent group calling for funds to buy things so that he can take them to give gifts to teachers.

If it is not a girl who bleeds, but a boy who is running away, this kind of person can talk about this for a lifetime, and thirty years later he will also use it to laugh at the class reunion.

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His behavior is nothing more than trying to please the female teacher. This kind of person should be cornered and beaten. Adult women will also accidentally soil their pants during their menstrual period, which can also be very embarrassing. Ever since they were children, they have always felt dirty for no apparent reason and tried to cover it up. ?

But you won’t feel embarrassed even if you sit on your butt covered in mud and splashed with oil. However, everyone knows that menstrual periods are not visible to the public. This boy is great. I hope the girl is great too. Don’t be afraid. It’s just a change of clothes! This kind of thing has two sides, a family and a school. The family just wants to study hard and keeps silent about these things.

5. If schools don’t teach them, then the question arises, where can children learn this knowledge? Are there pornographic websites?

Personal opinion: The education system represented by families and schools should popularize sexual knowledge and moral concepts. Thanks to the legacy left to us by the Qing Dynasty, of course there is no "sex education" in China today. Because women themselves are regarded as men's private property and do not have complete personal rights. Although after the Revolution of 1911, the braids on Chinese people's heads have been cut off, the braids in their hearts still remain. Not cut yet. ?

When is it really prohibited to use marriage issues to ask for property, and to prohibit all sexual assaults outside of marriage and within marriage, while sexually seducing women over 30 years old

to male minors under 15 years old? If consensual sexual relations are defined as rape by women against men, then China will truly achieve equality between men and women. I have seen a similar situation before. When I was in junior high school, a boy in the class laughed at a fat girl. Later, when he was laughing, he was scolded by another stronger boy. Later, the teacher found out about it. I was criticized on the spot by the teacher again, and I never dared to do it again.

This boy’s intention is very good, but it’s hard to say what the actual effect will be, because it is really difficult to understand the meaning of drawing red spiders on school pants without explanation, and if the mocker is more naughty, The children would probably laugh at him as well. When you encounter children who laugh at others, my suggestion is to scold them directly, or report it to the teacher. Let those children know that the cost of disrespecting others is far more practical than painting slogans and making art.