"Pull up banners and talk about the bride price" guy voiced: The whole family, Qi Xin, got married 5 1 10,000 and separated in 33 days.

A young man in Henan, facing the breakdown of his marriage, went to the husband's family community with a banner and honked his horn to ask for a high bride price. Recently, this matter has caused heated discussion.

165438+1On October 27th, Li Shouning, the party concerned, responded to the The Paper reporter and said that he was from the countryside and spent 5 10000 yuan to marry his wife, part of which was borrowed. Only 33 days after marriage, the wife returned to her mother's house and the two began to separate. He sued for divorce, but his wife disagreed. In order to solve this matter as soon as possible and recover part of the bride price, he had no choice but to drive to his wife's house to pull banners.

Li Shouning's mother-in-law said that Li Shouning's statement was not completely true, and all the results were waiting for the court's decision.

The young man pulled a banner and asked for a refund of the bride price.

It costs 5 1 ten thousand to marry a daughter-in-law.

Li Shouning is a native of Zhumadian, Henan Province. He is 25 years old this year. In 202 1 year, he was introduced by the matchmaker and met the local woman Qian.

"The two families are very close, only 3 kilometers apart, and we all think each other is good. I just met for three days and got engaged at the suggestion of the matchmaker. " Li Shouning said that a few days after his engagement, he bid farewell to his fiancee and went to work in Wenzhou, Zhejiang, thousands of miles away with his parents. His father entered the construction site, his mother served as a waiter, and he delivered takeout.

"In my mind, if I get engaged, I am the one who has a wife, just waiting to find a good day to marry her into the house." Li Shouning works outside and often misses his fiancee in his hometown. He often gives her some small surprises, such as the first cup of milk tea in autumn, Valentine's Day gifts, Qixi gifts, birthday gifts, and so on. Even if her mother-in-law has a birthday in the future, she will 1 buy a gift in the morning and send a filial piety, "because she will be my mother in the future." Li Shouning is full of expectations for her future marriage.

On October 28th, 65438/kloc-0, in 2022, Li Shouning put on a suit that he had never worn before, married Qian and started his newly married life. On February 4th, 2022, they got a marriage certificate.

Gold and silver jewelry

The engagement fee is 88,000 yuan, the wedding gift is 99,000 yuan, the gold and silver jewelry is 42,000 yuan, the change fee is 22,000 yuan, and the car fare is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan. "Our family already has a car, and their family asked to buy a car for nearly 654.38+0.6 million, plus the money from the wedding company and the banquet and the change fee of relatives, which is almost a * *. Li Shouning's mother Gao said that of the 5 1000 yuan, 654,380+0,600 yuan was borrowed from relatives and friends.

Shortly after the marriage, Li Shouning's parents went out to work again, leaving only the newlyweds at home.

After 33 days of marriage, the two sides separated.

Li Shouning introduced that at 9 o'clock in the evening on March 3, 2022, he returned home after a day's work, closed the door conveniently, and soon fell asleep. "On that day, she went to the ear shop to help, and didn't come back until the evening 12, but she didn't open the door with a key, and then she called me. I fell asleep and didn't hear her, so she went back to her parents' house. I called her early the next morning to apologize. Later, they made up, but she has been living in her house. "Li Shouning said that his wife lived in her house for more than two months.

At the end of May, Gao returned to his hometown from other places, and then took his son Li Shouning to ask his wife. "Good words come out, but it is impossible." Li Shouning said that on June 8, he came to his mother-in-law's house again to pick up his daughter-in-law, but this time he was still very unhappy and even had a dispute. "Qian saw me arguing with her mother, so she went to my house to remove the lock, packed her clothes and left. It happened that I met her on my way back, and this time we had a complete quarrel. " Li Shouning said that afterwards, his wife blacked out his mobile phone number and micro-signal and hid.

"Mother-in-law said that since two people don't get along well, the property under their respective names will belong to them. I said that we have only passed 33 days, and you can give us some bride price. At this time, she immediately turned her face and told me where to sue and refused to negotiate. " Li Shouning said that in order to get a result and recover part of the bride price, he sued the local court for divorce.

In June 2022, the case was heard in the local court. Qian Youlu did not appear in court, but he told the court through other channels that Li Shouning's statement about the breakdown of husband and wife's feelings was not true, and the couple had a good relationship. Qian also said that he once had a child with Li Shouning. On March 3, 2022, she was shut out by Li Shouning, so she didn't go back that day. She was ill with a cold and fever for two days, and then went back to her husband's house. "Husband and wife love each other, care for each other, have stable feelings and resolutely disagree with divorce." Qian said.

Li Shouning said that "going back to her husband's family" is purely a rhetoric of money. As for his wife's pregnancy, Li Shouning said it was unclear, and he also had many questions.

In the end, the court did not allow the two to divorce. Li Shouning refused to accept the verdict and appealed. The second trial is scheduled for June 5, 20438+February 2022.

court decision

Hang a banner while driving and ask for a refund of the bride price.

The wife refused to divorce and lost contact, and the in-laws also refused to mediate. Recently, Li Shouning hung a banner in the car and went to the community where Qian lived to ask for a bride price.

The video shows that there is a big banner hanging on the white car body, and the yellow words on the red background say: "Money doesn't live with me, give me a bride price!" Another video shows that there is also a speaker on the hood of the car, which plays circularly: "I spent a month with your daughter, but I will refund my bride price."

The young man pulled a banner and asked for a refund of the bride price.

"We have only lived together for 33 days, and we don't ask them to return them all, just a part." Li Shouning's mother Gao said that in order to deal with this matter, she had rushed back to her hometown from other places, and in order to pay off her debts as soon as possible, her husband continued to work in other places. "The thought of that money makes my heart ache, and my father worries about it all day." Gao said.

165438+1On the morning of October 27th, the reporter called Qian's mobile phone, and the number was out of service. Later, the reporter called Qian's younger brother, but he hung up as soon as he heard the words "Li Shouning".

Qian's mother said she had no intention of getting a divorce. Now because Li Shouning is noisy all day, there is no way to leave, and all the results are waiting for the court to decide. "The money is in their home. What he said is not true. Lulu returned it in June. " Qian's mother said.

"If the money is in our house, why should I ask them for it? Qian Yulu did come back once in June, but only in the middle of the night. " Li Shouning refuted her mother-in-law's statement.

Li Shouning said that now the whole family wants to solve this matter quickly. "In order to get married, a * * * spent 565,438+0,000 yuan, and the car is in my name, not counting her expenses. We calculated that a * * * cost her more than 300,000 yuan, and the dowry was several quilts and living clothes for two people, equivalent to about RMB 654.38+0,000 yuan. We only ask them to return more than 40,000 yuan of gold and silver jewelry and 6,543,800 yuan in cash. Li Shouning said.

Lawyer Dong of Hubei Zhenghe Law Firm said that regarding the return of the bride price, Article 5 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation on the Application of Marriage and Family in the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC) stipulates three situations that can be returned: First, the two parties have not gone through the marriage registration procedures; Second, the two sides have gone through the marriage registration procedures but have not lived together; Third, premarital payment makes it difficult for the payer. If the latter two cases apply, the divorce of both parties shall prevail. In this case, only Li Shouning and the woman can claim to return the bride price. Because in judicial practice, the court generally requires married and cohabiting couples to claim the return of the bride price after divorce. However, if the two parties live together for a short time, the bride price is too high, the woman has obvious faults in the divorce, and the man has difficulties after paying the bride price, the court will generally decide to return part of the bride price after comprehensive consideration.

In addition, Mr. Dong also said that Article 1042 of the Civil Code stipulates that it is forbidden to ask for property through marriage. Freedom of marriage is protected by law, and no one may ask for money or property in the name of marriage, otherwise it will be deemed illegal by the court and demanded to be returned.