What should I do if I have no money to make up lessons and want to get a good grade in the exam?

At present, the price of making up lessons in the market is so high that ordinary families simply can't afford it. They want their children to have a good future in their studies. This question represents the doubts of many parents and students.

First of all, I want to show my attitude:

In fact, for most courses, there is no need for all primary and secondary schools to make up lessons. Especially in primary school, there is no need to make up lessons. In junior high school and senior high school, there is no need to make up lessons in grade one and grade two. This requires students to have a certain degree of self-discipline and consciousness, while parents should know a little about education and establish family education rules.

Specifically: there is no need to make up lessons in primary school culture classes. On the one hand, the content of primary school curriculum is very simple and relaxed. Only by completing the school curriculum can children complete their studies well. However, the qualities that primary school students need to complete in primary school include: independent study habits, neat completion of homework and exercises, learning to practice calligraphy and learning to consult the required materials. Will find problems and solve them independently. After the third grade, you can try to practice writing; If parents don't have this ability, they can let their children learn calligraphy and writing. You can also teach yourself by buying books.

In middle school, there is no need to make up lessons in grades one and two. Now the reform direction of the senior high school entrance examination has changed the function of the school from education to education. Therefore, it is by no means that students can get good grades by learning culture well. Therefore, students need to learn to think independently, read a lot and establish a trilogy of review, practice and preview. The added physics and chemistry courses need students to build interest, which will promote activities. This requires students to have their own time to deal with it. Therefore, if you can, try not to make up lessons. As long as you don't miss the exam and your grades are not chaotic, you can ask the make-up teacher to sort out the knowledge structure in the third grade and check for leaks.

High school stage: High school students are under great academic pressure and need more time for students to digest knowledge. Need more practice and brush the questions. There is even less time to make up lessons. In Grade One and Grade Two, parents can help students buy titles in various subjects. Let the students set up the knowledge structure by brushing the questions. When you are in the third year of high school, you can find a make-up teacher to sort out the knowledge points, check the missing and fill in the gaps.

What students need to do is to make clear their learning objectives, establish their own goals and dreams, and strive to realize them. Break down the ultimate goal into several small goals and break them one by one. Finally realize your ideal.

Parents need cooperation. Parents need to know some education, but also how to communicate with their children. These exchanges contain expectations for children, as well as respect and understanding for children. Especially after children enter junior high school, parents should learn to communicate with their children in a normal way. That is, how to communicate with other people at ordinary times and how to communicate with children at this time.

Ask yourself a few more questions:

Can you talk to children equally? Can parents apologize to their children when they act excessively? Can you look at the problem from the perspective of children!

Usually, we should pay attention to the way of communication with children. Don't wait until no matter what parents say, children don't listen or even do the opposite, and then worry about how to communicate. This is very difficult.

In short: making up lessons is a way of learning that wastes people and money, but it may not be effective. In fact, parents who understand education and can follow the laws of education do not have to let their children make up lessons. Parents who have no money have no need to let their children make up lessons. As long as children can have dreams, parents of children without dreams can help them build dreams, and parents know more about the laws of education, then children can still achieve excellent academic performance.

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In fact, most excellent students' good grades are not made up by making up lessons. Most parents have a misunderstanding. It seems that only by attending more cram schools can children achieve excellent results. In recent years, big data shows that all college entrance examination champions have never participated in cram schools outside of any interest.

So how do these college entrance examination champions achieve excellent academic performance? The answer is simple, that is to effectively improve learning efficiency.

Academic achievement = learning efficiency, learning time.

In primary school, the academic burden is relatively light, so in many cases, we can effectively improve children's academic performance by increasing study time. However, with entering middle school, the subjects studied have greatly increased, and the learning difficulty has also greatly increased. At this time, most of the students' time is basically spent on study. At this time, it will become more and more difficult for you to improve your academic performance by increasing your study time. So another key variable-learning efficiency will be the decisive factor.

After many students enter middle school, their grades will change greatly, and some of them have changed from top students in primary school to underachievers in middle school, all because of their learning efficiency. For a simple example, the learning efficiency of student A is twice that of student B. If student B wants to achieve the same academic results as student A, it will take him twice as long to achieve his goal. This is almost impossible in middle school, and it is impossible to achieve high time utilization. In terms of learning efficiency, the efficiency difference between students with excellent grades and students with poor grades is far more than twice.

To effectively improve children's learning efficiency, we must pay attention to three most important core points, one is learning habits, the other is subject thinking, and the third is learning management. These three points are exactly what parents need to cultivate and guide in family education.

Therefore, the child's academic performance, in fact, her fate is really in the hands of parents, not teachers and schools.

How to cultivate these core points, parents can also pay attention to official website, Learning Ability Education Center, or observe the articles and related answers of learning ability education in today's headlines.

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If you don't have the money to make up lessons and want to get good grades, you need parents to pay more attention. Are you ready?

First of all, at the beginning of children's school, parents intend to exercise their children's autonomous learning habits.

For example, let children develop the habit of previewing and reviewing from the beginning; The habit of writing correctly; Reading habits; Wait a minute.

I don't know how old my child is now and what grade he is in. If he is a child between grade four and grade seven, I recommend a set of books, the "Terrible Science" mathematics series, which is very helpful for children to learn mathematics and has a strong interest in mathematics.

In this way, for children in primary and secondary schools, solving math problems can be regarded as solving a big problem.

The second is to make full use of network tools such as mobile phones and computers.

Now is the Internet age. Besides playing games online, mobile phones and computers can also be used for learning.

For English, you can find a lot by downloading an APP about learning on your mobile phone and searching online. Also, following the text can solve the problem of teaching children English pronunciation. Accordingly, buy some exercise books to do exercises, and English will not be a problem.

For physics and chemistry, you can buy some experimental videos online, some of which may be free, some of which are very cheap, and some of which can be bought at a low price when doing activities. For example, I bought a set of videos of physics experiments online, which cost only a dozen dollars, including all the physics experiments in Grade Two. What the teacher said was very lively and interesting. I once lamented that if my child's physics teacher is so interesting in the future, physics need not be worried!

Now the network is so developed that many things can be found online. It's just that children are still young, and online classes need the supervision of parents, so parents need to pay more attention.

The third is to spend more time with children to enhance their self-confidence.

With more company, you can discover your child's advantages and disadvantages as early as possible, encourage him to recognize himself and give full play to his advantages. If a child thinks he is an excellent student from the beginning, he will subconsciously demand himself to be an excellent student. This kind of psychological suggestion will make him cheer for himself, which is what he has been advocating to make Excellence a habit.

In this way, I have the love of my parents at home and my own confidence in my heart! The child's grades will be good! what do you reckon ?

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Let me tell you a true story first. Among the students I take, one is named Zhang Pengfei. The student was admitted to Tsinghua University, but he didn't attend any remedial classes. In other words, even if you don't make up lessons and spend no tuition, your grades can still be quite good.

Let me briefly talk about this student. I once asked Zhang Pengfei, "Why don't you make up lessons?" ? The child told me: "As long as we seize the time in class and carefully and repeatedly do the materials given to students by the school, time is enough. Just do the questions in the book. If we do it three times, it won't be a problem to enter a book. "

I am a physics teacher in Zhang Pengfei. The child is very attentive in class and finishes his homework on time every time. Most students don't like doing experimental problems, but he has done every experimental problem three times. The topics in other books and reference materials are very serious, and the development of various subjects is also very balanced. He is really devoted to his studies, and the children are also very distressed by adults. He has never blushed in front of his parents and teachers. Come on, you know that!

One last word for you. Since our family has no money to make up lessons, our children have to fight for this tone! Of course, I believe that children can fight for this tone for their parents!

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I want my children to get excellent grades, but I don't want to spend money on remedial classes. So, is there really no way to help parents solve this problem?

Companionship, self-discipline, diligence and efficiency, and give children an excellent future in a relaxed environment!

accompany

Parental companionship is very important for children's growth! It is very important to cultivate children's good study habits! Therefore, if you can't afford to make up lessons for your children, then choose to accompany them and give them an environment to show their abilities. When you show your ability to your child, as a small audience, let your child's performance and display be understood and understood! Some parents say that it is too difficult for children to do problems, and neither will I! Note that the companionship mentioned here is only silent support and silent companionship! If you can't explain the problem, don't explain it, just ask the teacher when the child goes to school!

Our company is to give children a sense of security and a stable environment, and make them feel that learning is a happy thing, something worth mastering and having a sense of accomplishment!

self-discipline

Learning is actually a very tiring thing! Meeting an interesting teacher is something that children should be proud and grateful for all their lives. However, not all children will have such good luck! So what should we do? Teach children self-discipline! Let the children understand that learning is their own business and entrusted to the future! Let the children learn self-discipline Ask the teacher directly if you have any questions, and ask questions if you can't! How awesome a make-up teacher is, he is not as clear as his own classroom teacher.

Self-discipline, don't let the problem stay overnight!

Frequently ask

If you can't, be sure to let your child ask in time and ask quickly! Teachers like children who love to ask questions. Teachers like children, and children will like, love and trust teachers. The improvement of children's grades is just around the corner!

You don't ask, the teacher only gives you a few percent; You ask, the teacher is your exclusive private study consultant!

High efficiency (rate)

Keep up with the teacher's rhythm and make efficient use of class time. What the teacher said in class is definitely a classic topic. Learn classics, understand classics, make efficient use of each class, review them in time at night and summarize them in time at weekends. Your grades will not improve!

The above points are simple to say, but not easy to do! Take your time!

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This problem is easy to solve, it depends on whether you can do it.

First kind

Since ancient times, there has always been a genius for reading.

When I was studying, there was a student in the same grade who studied hard and had a high IQ. When I was a sophomore, I took the college entrance examination and was directly admitted to Peking University! For various reasons, this classmate is only taken care of by his mother, who doesn't have a regular job, so she helps him go to college by doing odd jobs and relatives. I heard that after graduating from college, I also got a doctorate with excellent results (since I was admitted to Peking University, government bonuses and scholarships from various schools have been going on).

The second type

Genius has always existed, but after all, it is a minority. Most people are from China.

I brought a student with an average IQ and a poor family (really poor, even embarrassed, relying on grandma to collect garbage for a living). However, students should study hard and can't catch up with his studies. He should run to the office by himself and ask the teacher sincerely. After class, I also play and make trouble, but I never waste time studying in class. Although the results are not top-notch, I have also been admitted to a class of undergraduate courses.

The third kind

My last student, both parents died, and my brother lived on my grandparents' retirement salary. His IQ is relatively low (he often asks me questions in his life, which can be found from the questions he asks).

However, this student studies hard, but his ability is limited and the effect is not good. Fortunately, this student respects his teacher very much, no matter whether he is his own teacher or not, as long as he sees it, he says hello wherever he sees it. After the class teacher learned about his study, he discussed with the class teacher. Several teachers spontaneously took time out to make up several lessons for him by asking questions in the office. Since then, my academic performance has improved. Although I can't reach the excellent level, I was finally admitted to a five-year undergraduate medical major in a provincial capital city.

In a word, I don't have the money to make up lessons, and I hope to do well in the exam. I have IQ and concentrate on learning IQ, but I don't have IQ to respect the teacher's EQ. If you don't study well, you don't know how to respect your teacher. You are always waiting for the pie to fall from the sky, so that the teacher can automatically make up lessons for you for free, and then dream your own big dreams in spring and autumn!

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But now education must make up lessons to improve grades, go to a good university and receive a good education.

If you have no money to make up lessons, find someone to educate you. Tuition is very expensive now, hundreds of dollars an hour. For example, the senior children in our company have an English class in 800 yuan. Scared the baby, we really don't make it up.

In fact, our parents really put in a lot of efforts for their children. Have the cheek to ask for help. Find a way from the family itself. One of the parents in the family has received higher education, at least admitted to the university, and has a certain understanding of learning. For the sake of children, I also forced myself to pick up textbooks and take the old road of campus study. Children are both subjects with advantages and subjects with disadvantages. Parents should review their subjects with disadvantages, and taking their children to study one or two courses can still improve their grades. It turned out that this happened when I was at school. The teacher asked me why my grades have dropped so badly recently. It's not that children can't keep up, but that parents can't keep up.

Then, if you are desperate for your children, no one will dislike your shame. If your relatives, friends and colleagues have just graduated from college and are not too busy at work, you can send gifts for three or four days a month and ask them for help. The results of special counseling will be improved soon. Children themselves should have the spirit and strength to work hard.

Brothers and sisters can bring one from school, two people can form a study group, and they can also learn and make progress with people who are not good at learning. Low cost and high efficiency.

Then online education. Now the cost of online education platform is much cheaper than that of private education. In the past, many courses were basically free materials. You can find online education. This requires children to be self-disciplined. After all, there is no communication. Just a conversation and an acceptance.

Difficulties are temporary. As long as you want to solve them, I wish your children to improve their grades, study in the ideal place and improve their skills.

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Suppose the topic is written by parents. If the topic is written by students, you can just turn to the end and have a look.

gene

Geniuses are born, and they often leave others behind with a little effort, so it is necessary to "give birth to good children".

However, this estimate is too late. You can consider paying attention when giving birth to a second child.

Family education and environment

"In the past, in Meng Mu, I chose my neighbor, but I didn't study, so I broke the loom."

In front of more than 20 million, Meng Shengren's mother told us with practical actions:

1, the importance of school districts;

2. The importance of family education.

The first one may not work on the theme, so the second one will work!

I won't talk about this experience and suggestions here, because this topic is too big, but there are many shares on the Internet, and the topic owner can search for it himself.

I just want to say that improving the environment of family education must be very beneficial to children. Focus-the most important thing is to stimulate the inner motivation of children's independent learning!

resign oneself to one's fate

If the subject's children are older, such as high school students, then this problem is very embarrassing, and often the opinions of parents are not important at this time. Even for many families, parents' opinions are not important after their children enter junior high school.

At this time, if you say something unpleasant, parents' greatest support for their children may really be material support.

Although many people on the Internet will say that they care more about their children spiritually, I personally think that not all parents can do it. On the contrary, parents' nagging and children's impatience are more common.

So at this time, my opinion is that if you really can't change anything, then talk to your child like an adult and have a heart-to-heart talk!

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If you want your children to study well, you don't have to let them improve their grades by making up lessons. From elementary school to high school, if a child's academic performance depends entirely on making up lessons in the whole twelve years, even if he is admitted to the university, he will only muddle along, because when he learns to learn, he will have to rely on the repeated training of teachers to master knowledge. Who will teach such new knowledge when he goes to college? What knowledge can a person who has lost his thinking ability learn?

If you want to improve your children's academic performance, you must first let them learn to cherish time, because it is impossible for a time waster to have the energy to study. Next, we should at least ensure that students get excellent results in three major subjects during the three classes, because children's main energy is also in the study of three major subjects. If you don't learn your major well, you won't have time and energy to study politics, history and geography, and you won't have good basic skills to study physical chemistry in the future.

If you want to improve your child's academic performance, you must make a study plan and review it step by step every day. This is what a child with perseverance and perseverance can do.

If your children have the above advantages and master the correct learning methods, then their grades will definitely stand out among the students.

If you want to learn Chinese well in primary schools, you should read, watch and copy more. If you want to learn mathematics well, you should preview the conceptual formula of memory in advance, do more exercises after class and consolidate the knowledge points of memory. There is no shortcut to learning English well. Read and memorize the text words every day. In junior high school and senior high school, you must master the answering skills of all subjects, so that you can get good grades in the study exam. Usually study more, think more about logistics problems, read more and read good books, and your academic performance will naturally remain stable, so you don't need to make up extra lessons.

In today's society, some parents are self-motivated, high-quality, earn more money, and their children's grades are relatively good. There is no need to make up lessons. On the contrary, just like students studying in rural teaching points, their parents are people who live on subsistence allowances and have no self-motivation. How can they have high quality students? It's really hard to give birth to a child in a cold door, and no one can deny it.

People who are poor and have no money should educate their children early and teach them the good habit of listening attentively in class and reviewing carefully after class. As long as children study hard and understand what the teacher says in class, they will have a bright future without having to make up lessons. I have never heard that good students are made up by making up lessons.