The blind date cost more than 1000. Should I return it to someone else if it is not suitable?

Whether it's for a date or a gift, Ah Fu doesn't think it's necessary to return it.

Let's talk about the meeting cost first. Blind date is also a kind of socialization. Socialization costs money, which is a normal expense. Going out to dinner with friends and going to the script to win a book all require consumption, so as a social activity, you have to bear the expenses. Having a meal and a cup of coffee together, the expenses of several hundred dollars can be borne by adults, and there is no need to worry about the same expenses. It's just a blind date No engagement after dinner, and paying the bill after dinner is not a gift. Naturally, you don't have to return it.

Besides, the gift from the other party. Ah Fu believes that gifts are active goodwill, and the basic rule of interpersonal communication is that the other party has no obligation to respond to your goodwill, especially in marriage and love. Therefore, after giving a gift, the giver has expressed his mind and is not qualified to ask the other party for any response.

If you think the gift giver is too bad, it's simple. You can choose not to send it. Ah Hu has received many gifts that are self-righteous but actually fashionable rubbish. It is very tricky to throw them away or keep them. In particular, personal items such as food, flowers, clothes and cosmetics cannot be returned after receipt. Of course, Ah Fu does not advocate paying cash at a discount. After all, blind date is not about buying and selling. The recipient of the gift does not have to take the risk of having to spend money on the gift.

The above arguments are based on the premise that the other party is a normal person. If the other person is unreasonable, it is suggested to hack this person and hand over the gift through the introducer. Be sure to explain the reasons to the introducer to prevent the other party from raking. Be sure to remember not to give money directly, just return the things. Never let the bad money in the blind date market take advantage of the blind date, which is the cultivation of every blind date.