What is closeness and alienation?

"There is a degree of intimacy" means that we must grasp a degree in interpersonal relationships. This degree is graded and cannot be treated equally. There is no need to deliberately avoid or cater to it, just let it be.

First of all, distance is peaceful, which comes from the whole sentence in Chen Jiru's Little Window: "Time, shade, people's heart and distance are peaceful. Time flies, long or short. Floating life, all guests. " The explanation of peaceful coexistence is that no matter who you are with, you don't have to deliberately avoid or cater to it, just let nature take its course and let it be.

Time and shade are suitable, and people are at peace. It should be regarded as a state of life or attitude. Living in a suitable scale is a harmonious state for people or things. Intimacy: It means that whether you are a close friend, a strange ex, a bitter enemy, or an old partner in love with you, it is a life experience, and you can face it calmly without deliberately avoiding or catering.

How to maintain a good communication relationship

1, sincerity

Sincerity is the most basic requirement of interpersonal communication, and all means and skills of interpersonal communication should be based on sincere communication. Cunning deception and hypocritical perfunctory are blasphemies against interpersonal relationships. Sincerity is not written on the face, but from the heart. False sincerity is more annoying than true deception.

2. Interpersonal interaction

We all hope that others can recognize our own value, and we also hope that others can accept and like ourselves. For this purpose, we often pay more attention to self-expression in social interaction, attract others' attention and expect others to accept us first.

3. Maintain others' self-esteem

People have faces and trees have skins. Everyone has self-esteem and hopes that other people's words and deeds will not hurt their self-esteem. Self-esteem is measured by self-worth. A strong sense of self-worth leads to a higher level of self-esteem; If self-worth is not strong, self-esteem will be low.