What is the difference between two people being friends and two people being teachers and students?

Although teachers seem to be the elders of students, many of them are more like friends, even more than friends

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Friendly relationship between teachers and students

I have been working as a class teacher for many years. I have always believed in the emotional communication between teachers and students. A compliment, a reward, even a glass of water, a box of medicine... can turn spring breeze into rain and moisturize things silently. Effect. Therefore, it is essential to "greet" students in life, and even students use polite English expressions such as "hi, byebye...".

When working as a class teacher, make friends with students and maintain an attitude of equality and respect. In interacting with students, the first thing is to position myself well. Because the age difference with the students is not very different, I never interact with students as a class teacher or teacher, but as a friend or brother. This can shorten the distance between the class teacher and the students, make the students feel the care of their parents, regard you as a trustworthy friend in her mind, and be willing to talk to you from the bottom of their hearts, so that you can truly understand the students' psychological state. and hidden problems in the class, and be "targeted" in the work.

At the same time, I pay more attention to and considerate students at work. For example, during labor, I often deliver cool boiled water to students; when students are sick, they must visit them no matter how big or small they are, and arrange specific responsible care. classmates and so on. In this way, he uses his love to win the love and respect of teachers from students. With this kind of harmonious emotion between teachers and students, various management measures implemented in the class can be implemented smoothly and effectively.

I remember one time, I was in a bad mood. There was a class meeting in the third period. Before entering the classroom, I heard the commotion in the classroom, and I felt angry. After entering the classroom, I couldn't help but get angry. There was a burst of anger, and the students looked at each other, not daring to express their anger. After class, I sat in the office and calmed down and regretted my excessive behavior just now. I usually ask students to respect teachers and disciplines, respect others, and be polite, but I am not strict with myself. At this time, several class cadres came to the office, and I chatted with them. The students said: "Teacher, you are so beautiful and gentle when you are not angry, but you are so powerful when you are angry. We still like the beautiful you." So, I I immediately walked into the classroom and said sincerely to the students: "It was the teacher who was wrong just now. He should not have been angry with you when he was in a bad mood. I will apologize to my classmates." Because of my frankness, our teachers and students are like friends. We get along harmoniously. If students make mistakes, I promptly point them out, and students readily accept and correct them. If I do something unreasonable, the students will kindly point it out, and teachers and students will work together to promote it.

If you do this, you may be afraid of being laughed at by students, but through my practice, I have found that as long as the teacher is sincere, the students will accept you with a kind of tolerant kindness, understand you, and see that the teacher is sincere. If teachers can admit mistakes and correct them, it will be easier for teachers to educate students, which will psychologically enhance the sense of closeness between teachers and students.

If students get close to you and understand you, the class teacher's work will be more effective; if you make friends with students and be a caring person, the class teacher will feel extremely happy.