Ask for a short essay of about 500 words about the advantages and disadvantages of swearing.

1. What are the advantages of swearing? Disadvantages?

Swearing: Insulting people with rude or ugly words, thus damaging their personality or reputation and humiliating them.

Swearing: intentionally or unintentionally, insulting each other intentionally or unintentionally when speaking.

"Abuse" and "swearing" are insults to each other. Therefore, we call them "curse" for short. Never tell yourself not to swear.

Swearing is not a good habit. Swearing won't solve the problem.

Will reduce the quality and image of the parties themselves. This is an uncoordinated and irrational behavior. Swearing is ugly.

(1) Advantages: One short step will make a lasting regret. You can laugh, you can scold, you can scold.

(2) Disadvantages: The scolded person is definitely unhappy. Didn't you hear Zhuge Liang scold Wang Lang to death? Call names, attract a Tatar with deep knowledge, and you won't be able to step down. You will only be scolded, but if you don't go on, you will lose face. There was something to communicate with, but it became a pain for each other. Both sides must be angry and hurt each other's feelings.

It also seems to have no quality, low moral level, and swearing can only make yourself and the other party feel worse.

It's not that you don't swear, but that you should swear less and don't swear unnecessarily. Only scold people who have no blood.

Give vent to your anger and express your feelings by reasoning rather than scolding.

(3) ruined his image. Swearing is like advertising: look, look, I'm cursing, look how low my quality is! Unfortunately, the swearing people didn't care at that time.

(4) losing the face of parents and teachers. When a person curses, we often hear someone say: This person is really ill-bred! So swearing is not his own business, but also the business of his parents and teachers.

Did swearing achieve the expected effect? No, not only no, but also many side effects. There is a proverb in China, that illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. At least let those who do practical things feel cold and let like-minded people leave Germany. So talk calmly and rationally, and don't hurt people casually, because the consequences are unimaginable.

If you swear, the other party will not accept insulting news. Do as you would be done by.

2. When you are irritated, control yourself and vent in a reasonable way. (1) Write a diary to vent. It doesn't matter how you scold, but you can't let others read the diary, otherwise you may be betrayed and cause great disaster. Therefore, even if you scold each other in your diary, you should be civilized.

(2)

Chatting with friends. This method can be used, but it should be used less, because some friends may betray you and bring you more trouble; Some friends may be very upset after listening to your words, and even upset enough to help you get revenge.

That would be trouble. Therefore, there are standards for what kind of friends to find: integrity, kindness, wisdom and openness. If you talk to such a friend, you will get the expected effect: with the listening and guidance of your friend, your troubles will be reduced.

The troubles were alleviated and disappeared, and no new contradictions and disputes were added, nor did they bring any losses to friends.

(3) find alternatives to vent. Write each other's name or draw their portrait on paper or sandbags, and then hit or scold the name or portrait at will. This method is very good, and many exhaust companies in Japan are using it. However, it should be noted that venting words cannot be heard by the other party's friends or themselves; After venting, destroy the paper with the other person's name or portrait on it.

(4)

Shout loudly. Shout where no one is, so as not to affect others, such as streets, fields and mountains. Shout whatever you want, either "Ah" or "Zhang San, I hate you". When you shout, shout as much as you want until.

Until the gas subsides.

(5) Exercise hard. You can run aimlessly until you are tired; You can also run to fields, mountains, rivers and other places that can calm yourself down, and then touch the scene to get rid of your troubles. You can also kick.

Football, basketball, table tennis, skipping, long jump, kicking shuttlecock, dancing, swimming, etc.

(6) Sing hard. No matter how high your singing skills are, you can't be out of tune. As long as you sing all the songs you can, it's good to be exhausted. But it doesn't disturb people. When I was angry, I ran to Amano, sang loudly to peanuts and corn, and sang all the songs I could. No one applauded and sang. Finally, I screamed at the top of my lungs and went home happily.

(7) read sage books. There are many ways to vent anger, transfer anger and transform anger in the book. You might as well read a book. For example, there is "forbearance in words and self-extinction in anger" in Disciples Rules; "All people need love"; "Persuade people to be powerful, but don't use your heart. If you convince people by reasoning, you will be speechless. " . There is a saying in Zhu Zi's Family Instructions, "If you argue for something, you must know what I am." . The Analects of Confucius, etc.

(8) entertain yourself. Because you have been wronged, you can soothe your broken heart by entertaining yourself. For example, buying favorite food, it is worth mentioning that sweets can help alleviate bad emotions; Buy what you want most; Play games; Watching movies; Watch TV. Although this aspect is good, it should be moderate.

(9)

Take nature as a teacher. There are many teachers in nature, such as mountains, seas, rivers, fields, pits and parks. The grandeur, magnificence, tranquility and harmony of nature can make us calmly face the disadvantages in life.

It means that after careful reflection, we know that human beings are so small in nature that if they can even be ignored in the universe, then there is really nothing to care about. So, open-minded, anger disappeared.

(10) Write a letter and burn it. This method comes from a story: One day, Army Secretary Stanton came to Lincoln and told him angrily that a major general used insulting language to accuse him of favoring some people. Lincoln suggested Stanton write a sharp reply to this guy. "You can give him a good scolding." Lincoln said.

Stanton immediately wrote a strongly worded letter and showed it to the president. "Yes, yes." Lincoln shouted, "This is what you want! Teach him a lesson. It is really a masterpiece. Stanton. "

But when Stanton folded the letter and put it in the envelope, Lincoln stopped him and asked, "What are you doing?"

"Send it!" Stanton is a little confused.