The more decent the breakup is, the more relieved your love will be.

I love you without regrets and respect the ending of the story.

Yesterday, the monitor of high school sent a circle of friends and said his heartfelt words after breaking up with his predecessor:

"You must live a good life, or I'm sorry I won't bother you."

How to treat yourself after breaking up has caused me to think.

Ma Rong divorced Wang for two years, but she has been biting Wang.

Look at her Weibo, didn't escape the propaganda king this stalk:

A few days ago, it broke out that she was beaten by Wang and took a selfie on a hot search.

The truth behind this ugly photo is that Ma Rong threatened Wang's mother with scissors, causing her to faint, and deliberately angered Wang and forced him to hit her. Then he filmed the whole process and exposed the injured photos.

Ma Rong has a tendency not to stop until he stinks Wang. Looking at this farce after farce, I have no sympathy for Ma Rong, only feel sad.

There are countless stars who tear each other up after divorce.

Angel and Pan Yueming, who used to be the golden couple in the eyes of the audience, openly exposed each other's shortcomings after their divorce and had a big fight.

I believe that everyone is familiar with the torn war between Crystal and Crystal Qing, from slander to airport dispute to children's dispute.

After breaking up, he constantly criticized his predecessor, smeared his predecessor everywhere, and publicized his scum everywhere. All the good things have disappeared.

Those happy and sweet moments and wonderful life experiences have all disappeared in the confusion with their predecessors, which not only hurts two people, but also may hurt each other's new partners.

Entanglement with the ex will make the scars of the past reappear and be torn. This feeling is the most unforgettable.

I couldn't let go of what I used to like and turned into resentment. What I once liked fell apart, and what I once cared about turned into malice.

So after breaking up, you should learn to let go of Ta, so as to let go of yourself.

Since we are going to break up, let's break up happily, get together and leave, leave the other party with the last dignity, and let go generously, so that the other party will look at you with new eyes.

Psychologist Baxter thinks:

When the partner who broke up chooses to announce the intention of ending the relationship with dignity, it will give the partner a chance to reflect and save face.

There are many examples of decent breakups on the screen. The most classic scene is the romantic and luxurious divorce ceremony between li xiangshan and Mango in If You Are the One 2.

In the sacred and elegant divorce ceremony, li xiangshan and Mango vowed not to love each other, returned their wedding rings and cut out the happy words together.

When the master of ceremonies announced that "we are still good friends after leaving, but we will not lose our friendship", they gracefully poured champagne and shouted "Enough!"

At this time, flocks of white pigeons hovered over the scene, balloons floated by, and the slogan "Good friends after parting" fluttered with the wind.

In this way, the couple declared their unfortunate marriage was completely over with a decent parting ceremony, and they would start over and move towards a new life in the future.

Also, when Faye Wong and Li divorced, they didn't vilify and tear each other, but they defended and blessed each other. A decent breakup didn't hurt the spirit. They were still friends.

As high as the sum. When they broke up, they met with gratitude and reunited well. After many years, it is still a beautiful memory.

People who can forget everything and leave no memories have never loved deeply at all.

The deepest love is actually a continuous rain. The sky cleared up after the rain, and the invisible rain had already penetrated into the depths of the earth.

These partners who can break up with dignity, they are relieved, and they are still friends when they meet. How wonderful!

If the relationship between two people is difficult, it is the best choice to get together and then leave.

Let's get together and part, keep the beautiful things in our hearts, stop doing unnecessary entanglement and entanglement, let go of each other, find the new self who is more willing to treat himself as a treasure, and then live quietly in their respective worlds.

It is necessary to get together and have a good break-up, because a good way to break up will make each other very decent and will not hold grudges against each other in the future.

A decent breakup is an explanation for yourself and the other party, and you can't love it in the future.

At the end of an intimate relationship, no matter who doesn't love first, please let go. This is the minimum respect for love. Even if you are sad again, it is good to get through this period. Dignity is the beginning of regaining self-esteem.

Life is to let go at the end, and all we can do is say goodbye.

Last week, I was moved by the breakup video of my friend Xiao in Weibo.

When I love, I will try to love. Xiaohua's eyes are full of each other. The scene of Xiaohua's boyfriend's confession is like a wedding for her.

When we parted, we parted honorably and gave each other a happy ending with gratitude.

There is no right or wrong relationship. Now that we have decided to break up, a decent breakup is the last responsibility of both parties in this relationship.

A decent breakup is not only to fulfill each other, but also to fulfill yourself.

Breaking up must be decent, not ashamed of the people you once loved, but also give both sides a chance to start over.

Christopher intimacy said:

So, in order to get real peace and satisfaction, let's analyze the reasons why we can't let go after breaking up:

First, lovelorn makes you breathless and unbearable loneliness;

The second is to hope that the other party regrets breaking up;

Third, from sadness to anger, there is hatred and sometimes even revenge.

So, what can we do to get out of a relationship as soon as possible?

What is the real letting go?

This means that you should realize that you are a person with the ability to pursue happiness, that you are an independent individual, and that your heart is getting stronger and stronger.

Therefore, when a relationship must end, please speak out boldly, be decent and give yourself an explanation.

I love you without regrets and respect the ending of the story.

After all, breaking up is two people's fault. Giving a decent face is not only a respect for that relationship, but also a full stop for yourself.