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Watching the variety show "Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law" is mainly out of curiosity about how Patty Hou will whitewash his mother. After reading it, I was caught by Chen Songling and Zhang Duo.

It is not surprising that Chen Songling was killed without complaint. She was a goddess when she was young. She can't find any trace of the past because of her weight gain in recent years.

At first glance, Chen Songling belongs to a very reasonable person. The first time I saw it, I scolded my mother-in-law for her behavior, but she went too far, so I can only say that she was killed without complaint. My husband often annoys me in this way. We have problems. When he bothers me and doesn't want to talk to me, I will post it, one baby at a time. My husband usually grits his teeth and keeps silent, opens his eyes and pushes me away with one hand. If there are passers-by around me, I think I will stare at my husband and scold him love rat. By the way, I bitterly advised my girl that there are so many men in the world, so don't spoil yourself.

Chen Songling's mother-in-law obviously doesn't like this daughter-in-law, and this old woman is not a celebrity. When she was one year old, she was too lazy to pretend, so she made do with being on TV. Facts have proved that the direct conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on netizens like Holmes to find the answer. I didn't expect Chen Songling to throw it directly on the table. The way she put it on the table was to take the lead in pushing her mother-in-law to the position of a villain. So we can see Chen Songling's care and her mother-in-law's indifference.

My in-laws are her husband's mother, so I don't need to invite her three times a day and see her several times a year as in feudal society. As for this, I don't like it, but I always keep a sense of contract. As long as my husband and I haven't broken the jar, it proves that I still have nostalgia for him, so I have to be patient and love my in-laws.

In-laws regret that they can't have children, just as we can't understand why parents always use a pile of colorful plastic bags to buy food as garbage bags. Parents are always parents, which is why we need a good friend and classmate. They don't understand. You can get the understanding of the people around you, but don't force the elderly to understand your behavior. It is a great sin not to understand you.

Loneliness may be like many families. Before the son gets married, the husband will listen to him and the son will listen to him. When his son gets married, he will take this as an inertia and want to stay at home alone. At that time, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo warmly invited their mother-in-law to their home, but her mother-in-law said, "Our home is not yours". Later, Chen Songling used the word "loose" to tell her mother-in-law where her boundaries were. As a mother-in-law, she did not listen to her daughter-in-law, but quickly broke into her territory.

Chen Songling's mother-in-law, just like the mother-in-law in TV series, played the slogan of "good mother-in-law", which crossed the boundary between mother-in-law and son-in-law. Perhaps, Chen Songling's mother-in-law found that she had gone too far in doing these things, but she quickly comforted herself by saying, "Anyway, this is my son" and let herself get rid of her guilt quickly. Never take up other people's private space because of taking care of children or in the name of love. This cannot be an excuse for your emotional kidnapping.

Zhang Duo may be a good husband, but he is not good enough as a son. As for Chen Songling's mother-in-law's temper, she said that she knew it was cold, and her mother wanted to make up for the regret at that time. Zhang Duo not only didn't understand her mother, but also spoke directly, but she relied on her mother's infinite packaging.

EQ Zhang Duo came to the meeting place in Chen Songling and did not tell Chen Songling at the first time, but simply forgot his investment. As long as you really care about your mother, you will take photos at school together and then take them to Chen Songling. If your mother doesn't want to, at least she has done her duty as a son, and she has a clear conscience. Go with her mother.

When Chen Songling learned the news, she always wondered how her mother-in-law would treat herself, but Zhang Duo did nothing for herself. She just casually said, "My mother is so old that she is even hurt." .

I have to say that this trick of quitting the group is very beautiful, which successfully pushed my mother and my mother-in-law to the top of the storm. But as long as the editing of Mango Taiwan is unfriendly, the spittle of netizens will directly drown the old man.

It was not until I watched this program that I realized that Chen Songling's mother-in-law had always been a submissive person. Seeing Chen Songling kneeling down to apologize, she didn't blame her son and daughter-in-law for their kindness for the first time, but immediately took Chen Songling's hand and worried that she would get hurt. As long as it is a daughter-in-law with higher emotional intelligence, she will follow the old man and make him happy, instead of deliberately angering him. From this perspective, Chen Songling is not always the weak side.

Look at this, I feel very distressed about this difficult old man. In order to take care of Zhang Duo's studies without affecting the children's mood, I didn't say a word, and tried to win the children's understanding and sympathy. I don't even have the kindness of old people, let alone my attitude towards my mother. The poor inherit the wind.