Four-year-old girls practice piano 1 hour every day, which is enough to cultivate children's concentration.

Hello, I'm Jiang Hua, not only an English teacher, but also the mother of a four-year-old girl.

Xiaoqing's mother in the group of friends spits in the group every day. No matter whether her daughter Lingling is doing homework or practicing piano, as long as she is asked to sit down and do something seriously, she either wants to drink water, go to the toilet, or pick her nails and look around. A little noise outside the door can attract Lingling's attention.

Xiaoqing circulates in anger every day. She doesn't understand why the baby's concentration is so poor. Babies who are only in the first grade can't finish their homework after 10 every day. Xiaoqing is not only angry with her children, but also worried about their lack of sleep.

After listening to Xiaoqing's spit, I began to worry about the little one who just learned the piano. She is only 4 years old. Will her concentration be worse, let alone practicing the piano? Can she still sit still after 45 minutes of class?

With uneasy feelings, we started the road of learning the piano. The teacher told Xiao that if she decided to learn the piano, she should practice for at least 30 minutes every day. I thought it would be difficult to be young, but I didn't expect her to start practicing for 30 minutes every day.

After studying for three weeks, because of Xiao's high efficiency, the teacher added homework to Xiao, and the daily practice time unconsciously became more than 1 hour. I didn't even realize that only a 4-year-old can concentrate on practicing the piano for so long.

Because I punch in my circle of friends every day, many friends begin to sigh with envy, saying that I am born to love playing the piano and have potential. Let me teach you some experience, how to make the baby sit still.

Although I am very happy to hear it, I still have some doubts. My baby knows best. The teacher arranged for her to play three songs 1 hour a day, so it can be seen that she has no talent. Then why can Xiao A sit still?

With a skeptical attitude, I began to recall what I did to Xiao during my four-year babysitting.

Because of the relationship between a person and a baby, I usually need to clean the housework and cook. I can't always be with the little one. At this time, Xiao Ah will play alone in the toy area, and no one at home will disturb her except me.

There will be a pattern between us at home: you do yours and I do mine. Little A, a few months old, began to roll on the bed by himself, then began to play books or toys, and slowly began to play house games by himself.

No matter what she is doing, whether tearing books or breaking toys, as long as she doesn't call me, I never disturb her little world.

Gradually, I spend more and more time playing alone and pay more and more attention.

I believe that most children like watching cartoons, and so does Xiao. He wants to watch cartoons for a while every day. I know many parents will remind their children repeatedly when watching almost the same thing, but I promised to watch a few episodes today and turn it off when you finish watching it.

Because we have a contract, I won't bother her every time I watch it, so I will let her watch it alone. Every time I reach the specified number of episodes, I will take the initiative to turn off the TV.

If children want to keep their promises, adults must first keep their promises. Children imitate the behavior of adults from the beginning.

When Xiao A was two and a half years old, I wanted to give Xiao A a painting initiation class. The painting teacher was very nice. She told me that the child is too young to sit still in class for an hour, and there is no need to report to class, but it can let the child play with stickers to help the child concentrate for a long time, and then the class will naturally come.

She recommended my left and right brain development stickers, the total volume 16, including intellectual development, moral and professional training, situational ability, study and professional training, attention, practical ability, routine training, cognitive ability, financial and business training, reaction ability, memory ability, time game and creation. The color is soft and children like to watch it.

It's not expensive, but I bought it all. I must make full use of this set of stickers.

Xiao, who is over two years old, was once judged to have poor fine motor ability in empathy assessment. I used to peel edamame to exercise, but after a long time, she didn't want it. This set of stickers allows her to tear it off and reattach it. This kind of behavior can completely exercise small fine movements, which makes me feel extremely surprised.

In addition, you need to be careful and patient when tearing, which also cultivates patience.

Because each book is equipped with exquisite enough stickers, it contains different contents, such as small animals, daily necessities, everything in the world and so on. Visually, it has a great influence on children. Color can not only attract children, but also cultivate their aesthetic feeling from an early age.

For example, if there is a web page with the theme of zoo, the child must find the corresponding animals according to the graphics. After finding it, she will start to observe the colors of various small animals, and she will be very curious, especially impressed by zebra stripes.

Sticking pictures, as the name implies, children should find suitable stickers to stick in the blank space. This is a great test of the baby's observation. We should observe carefully and think about what these blank patterns represent, are they small animals or other things? If it is a small animal, what kind of small animal will it be?

In fact, this is not only the cultivation of observation, but also the cultivation of cognition. Every item has its own characteristics. When children look for stickers and observe them repeatedly, they will leave a very deep impression on the characteristics of each item.

Because of the epidemic, I can't travel around with Xiao A, I have never been on a plane, and I have never seen the outside world.

This set of stickers satisfies the little boy's desire for the world. She saw all kinds of animals in the stickers and learned a lot about the beauty in the world.

She learned what the Ferris wheel is on the sticker, and the story of Santa Claus and Christmas tree.

I bought this set of stickers for Xiao A when I was more than 2 years old. I liked Xiao A very much when I saw him. I bought another set after I put all the stickers on. When we were three and a half years old, we went to the painting teacher again and listened to a class. Xiao became the youngest child in the class.

The painting teacher said that Xiao can sit still completely, he is also very serious in class, and his grasp of color is also in place, and his perception of shape is not bad, which is particularly good.

Special thanks to the painting teacher for recommending this set of cost-effective stickers. The parents of other children sitting by heard that they all came to ask the teacher what book it was. The link is here. Interested parents can buy a set for their children to try.

I seldom buy toys for my children, but I am especially willing to spend money on books. What kind of life the child will lead in this life is still unknown, but as a parent, I can give her the most suitable guidance within my own ability.