How to say "forbearance" and "a knife in the heart"?

Tolerance means a knife over one's head. If something happens, one cannot bear to bring disaster upon him. If he can hold back the hatred in his heart, he will later realize that tolerance is more important. If he wants to hold back the hatred in his heart, he still needs a knife in his heart to suppress it. .

As the saying goes, "You can endure a moment of anger to avoid a century of worry." As a person, you must have a tolerant mind and have a higher vision. In addition to insisting on big rights and wrongs, don't take other frivolous things to your heart. Don't get entangled in small rights and wrongs, and don't engage in unprincipled disputes.

Many people feel that they cannot endure when they are slightly wronged. They feel that tolerating is to show weakness to the other party, which is a kind of humiliation. They cannot tolerate being bullied, so they care about trivial matters and become idle with life. When you argue with others, you get angrier as a result.

People often say, "You have to fight for reputation even if you don't steam the steamed buns." Sometimes it's obviously not a big deal, but you can't stand a little stinginess and can't bear it. In order to win reputation, you will show off your temporary anger and intensify it. Conflicts resulted in small things turning into big things, and the two sides became antagonists.