Learn to say the right nonsense.

The sixth issue of Qipa's speech on Hatsune Hatsune.

The higher a society demands on the quality of speech, the fewer people have the right to speak. I have thought about when you will say it. Do you dare to tell your boss if you don't say the right nonsense? Did you dare to tell your parents when you were a child? You dare not. When you dare, I can hold you, between us, I can define what nonsense is, and I will tell you. So don't say the right nonsense, inequality. As long as it has nothing to do with work, it is nonsense in the eyes of the boss, and as long as the leader doesn't like you, everything you say is nonsense, so the correct nonsense is to defend the rights of everyone, especially ordinary people.

Now we generally say, why not say the right nonsense? As Jia Ning thought, if you don't pay, you are neither salty nor light. In fact, it is often very important to say the right nonsense. Before the age of 20, you will feel that your parents are nagging. After 40, it is good to have parents nagging, because you will understand that it doesn't matter what you say. The important thing is that he is paying time and affection for you.

After graduation, my buddies called each other. Do you have any serious words? Is it useful? It's no use. I appreciate it. It means that my buddy has you in his heart. Your buddy talks nonsense to you when he is drunk, which means he still has you in his world.

To put it bluntly, people can't walk away, and people who listen often have to be tempted. People who listen are often related to novelty. Think about the time and place when you said I love you for the first time. It is vivid and unforgettable, but what about the second, third and hundredth time? Who remembers? After so many years of marriage, everything my wife and I have said is correct. From small fresh meat to old bacon, it is greasy. You say your routine, you are not tempted? Wrong. When something really happened to her, I was still the teenager who was desperate for her.

Life is like this. Don't expect too much. Life is to turn our freshness into security and our vows into correct nonsense. Yes, my words won't tempt you again, and won't keep you awake all night, but you will sleep soundly. This is life. Please forgive me. thank you

In fact, this debate, as far as a conflict of values is concerned, will your demands, high demands and high expectations for life definitely bring high quality? It will make you very anxious, and it will also make the people you deal with very anxious. We always want to talk to others, and we will meet the right person. When we meet the right words, we will be useful and moved. Have you ever thought these are useful, touching and happy? In fact, they were not given to you by others, but you realized and discovered them yourself. Don't make so many demands on the object of communication, because finding meaning from the ordinary is the biggest thing for every ordinary person.

In this utilitarian age, there is little time to talk nonsense together. Everyone is immersed in their own world and stays at home. How many people are free to come out and chat together? It's useless

It doesn't matter if you don't talk to the outside world. Those workaholics still have some time to talk nonsense with their families. It's useless to talk to their wives and parents casually, but it proves that we have it in our hearts. What is the purpose of our being so busy? Just to make the family and the closest people live better and be happy. When we talk nonsense together, this is an opportunity. When can we wait until the day when we are rich and expensive? Why not seize the moment and talk together?

In life, always talk nonsense, so that your life will not always be so tense, let yourself relax, relax and enjoy life.

Under what circumstances, don't talk nonsense? At work, reporting to superiors is naturally concise and straight to the point. But Professor Athena Chu made another point.

In teamwork, you are strict with outsiders, critical and everything you say is true. You can find out a little mistake of others, but you will know that it will be difficult to meet this person's requirements in the future, so fortunately you will not cooperate with this person again.

It is not a simple requirement to produce high quality, it needs many factors, but happy work is definitely the best way, with good work quality and high happiness index.

In fact, at work, those who are too demanding are not very popular.

Being an interesting person can not only be reasonable, but also lie and do things.