My mother died of a heart attack, and now she is extremely sad. How can I relieve it?

Our experiences are the same. My father died of a heart attack last May 14 at the age of 66. He should have retired, but he is still working and worried about his children. That morning, because my sister's little daughter had a fever, he couldn't help but come back early to take her to see a doctor. Her granddaughter was fine, but something happened in the afternoon. He left us in a hurry without saying a word, leaving no one behind. When I got a call from my mother, I told her to call an ambulance in despair. When I got home, I watched him lying on the ground, his body was terrible. I called out to my father, but when the doctor in the hospital announced his death, my mind went blank. I just grabbed the doctor's hand and begged him to save my father. But the truth is cruel, and my father just left. More than a year, I still can't accept this fact. Everything about my father often appears in my mind. Missing and tears have become a habit. Only slowly, only I can enlighten myself. Now I'm a little better than before. Perhaps time can slowly heal the pain in my heart, but my thoughts of my father will never fade away. Now, whenever I think of my father, I cry. When I think that he may be watching you, I will hold back my sadness. Losing loved ones is really a heartbreaking pain. No one understands it and no one helps you. You can only understand it after experience, and you can only come out on your own.

My father had a heart attack two weeks ago, but he was saved! Tell me about my experience! I have worked in the emergency department for ten years, and I have saved countless people, and there have also been cases of living deaths. It is no stranger to sudden myocardial infarction, and it is also a feeling for dying patients.

Because I am far from home now, because the epidemic is at home. My baby and I rode bicycles in the yard that day. My baby rides well, so I want to see her. I ordered the video, but I didn't answer it. Then the voice came back, saying that my father was delirious and called an ambulance. She was afraid that I was in a hurry and didn't describe it too much. I called the emergency doctor after her. The exam was coming soon. Did an electrocardiogram. The doctor told me that my blood pressure was 70/40 and my heart rate was 40. My first reaction was where it was blocked, because the doctor didn't mention the myocardial infarction, and I didn't think about it. Since being hospitalized, the electrocardiogram of myocardial infarction is still very obvious.

I can't help worrying about my mother alone. I called my uncle, and my mother found my two cousins. I was calm at first when I called my uncle, but I couldn't help crying after the first sentence. He said stop. I'll go right away.

I found my former colleague and friend, and he said to ask for me. As a result, I was diagnosed with myocardial infarction. I asked a friend who happened to know a nurse. She asked me to go to a higher hospital and find a doctor to do it. Yes, but I was told by phone that the patient had gone to the catheter room to get the stent. At this time, the circulatory doctor who took over told me that my blood pressure and heart rate were both 28, and I really couldn't wait any longer. The hospital itself is a three-level municipal hospital, and the support is not an advanced technology. I still trust the hospital itself.

Tell me about myself. I know my father is dying. Although my consciousness is clear, my heart is shaking. Although I knew that I would face my parents' death one day, I didn't expect it to come so soon. My dad has always been in good health, and if he really leaves, of course I can't accept it. But these, we can't control.

My heart will settle down. As long as I know what the problem is and I am solving it now, I won't be so upset. It was finished soon, and my dad was in a good state of mind and finally put his heart down! Two inlet brackets.

My best friend's father-in-law died of a heart attack. He said he had a stomachache, so his best friend contacted him to have a gastroscope next Tuesday, but no one was there that day. On the phone, he said he had a stomachache and wouldn't go. As a result, he drove out the next morning and didn't go home until the afternoon. The family went out to look for it and found the car in the park near their home. People have been walking for a long time. When people are gone, the living will continue to care about their living relatives, and the painful process will gradually calm down with the passage of time.

People are always going to die, and passing away without pain is also a kind of rest for the deceased. We can't predict death, but we can live every day and love it.

Our experience is the same. My father left us more than a year ago. I was not in front of him when he left, so it became my eternal pain. Afterwards, my mother told me that my father was not feeling well at 2 o'clock in the middle of the night and told my mother to get up in the morning and go to the hospital to see a doctor. She also personally counted the money for going to see a doctor, found out the medical books and ID cards and put them in her bag. I feel like I'm almost ready to go to the toilet, and it's not good when I get out of the toilet. Ask my mother to tell my brothers and sisters to call 120 (the most feared thing about myocardial infarction is that it is dangerous to move), 120. After six or seven hours of rescue, my father was finally saved from death. Saving the doctor is also called a miracle. He stayed in the intensive care unit for half a month, but he couldn't get out of bed for more than ten days. Father told his lover who accompanied him to bed at night about the experience of liberating Taiyuan, saying that when he returned to his hometown after discharge, he would change the tap water again to prevent freezing in winter. He feels fine himself. After all the indexes in the hospital were normal, we regretted that we didn't transfer directly to the cardiovascular hospital after discharge, mainly because we didn't understand medicine. We listened to the doctor and went back to raise it for a while before going to the cardiovascular hospital for examination. If you go directly to the cardiovascular hospital, this may not be the result. My father was strong and stubborn all his life and never accepted that it was a heart problem. He only admitted that smoking was bad for his lungs, and he had to walk to the toilet on the second floor after leaving the hospital and lost his life. Before, the whole family always thought that my dad was in good health and he was too busy. He ran away from everything big and small. When I lost my father, I felt that there was no support at home, especially when my mother was instantly crushed and lost more than 20 kilograms. She often stands in front of the balcony and says to herself, "There are so many people in the street, why can't I see his shadow?" Or she just stared at the phone and waited for it to ring. Better than my wife. It's really painful to look at my mother. Really realized the loneliness and helplessness of leaving one behind. After my father left, we took turns to accompany my mother. Losing a loved one is really painful, and I can understand how you feel. Until now, I still have tears in my eyes when I mention my father. What my father once said and did to us is vivid in my mind. In fact, I have long wanted to write an article about my father, but I just can't. Let's use your topic today to satisfy my wish.

Parents always walk in front of us and let us know that we are adults. Walking fast and not suffering is the blessing of her old man's house, which is better than letting her live in a hospital bed without self-esteem. Sadness will fade with the passage of time, but mom's love will continue on you. I wish you my condolences, and I pray that she will have a pleasant journey, take care of herself and live a good day.

My mother died of illness when I was about four years old. Later, there was a stepmother at home, which was not pleasing to the eye anyway. I don't know how many times I was beaten and scolded. Sometimes a person sits on the side of the road and thinks, why doesn't anyone come to steal me? I didn't want to go home after school, so I wandered around for a long time until it was dark. Whenever I walk to the small bridge near my home, my heart is jammed. When I was thirteen, she also died of illness. I'm in a good mood and I'll grow taller in a summer vacation. Later, I, a girl, undertook the sewing work at home. Now I also have a daughter. Exercise hard, love your daughter and your lovely grandson. You have to live well. In this way, your mother's soul will be at ease! She also loathed to give up your information. So you should live a good life.

There is no other way. Time is the best medicine. Although my father is not a myocardial infarction but a cancer, it is still a year. We spend as much time with him as possible, buy him all kinds of things he likes to eat and satisfy his wishes. Although it has been 12 or 13 years, every time in the dead of night, I will think of him being treated in the hospital. The dead have passed away. Take care of your mother and her family.

Is it a kind of happiness to leave like this many times? No pain, no regrets, and a peaceful death. When I see those old people who are physically and mentally exhausted by diseases, they want to live and die if they want to. This kind of death is the blessing of his old man's house.

Time is the best medicine for healing. As time goes on, the extremely sad mood will gradually ease.

Anyone who lives to be a hundred years old will die. The mother left like this, without bringing pain, suffering or trouble to the child. It's just that sudden death is unbearable for children. I believe that time will let you come out slowly.

No one can accept the sudden death of a loved one when he is unprepared. It's really heartbreaking

Say it here and everyone will help you. I hope you can get rid of the pain as soon as possible and feel sorry for your loss.

Everyone has this time. If the old man can leave without pain, we will feel a little relieved. Don't blame yourself too much. The reality is just around the corner, and we have to accept it.

If you feel too depressed, find a place with a good natural environment to relax after doing the things for the elderly, and you will gradually accept this fact. In the spirit of heaven, the old man doesn't want you to be too sad.

It is painful for the old man to leave his relatives suddenly, and it is also painful for the old man to leave slowly. Compared with the two, it is better to let the elderly suffer less and less, and the pain of their loved ones will gradually fade away. Time is the best healing medicine!