Dry goods

Every woman is born a shopaholic. I forget who said this.

It's only seven years since I registered my account on a treasure in 2008, but it's really scary to look at my spending list that has exceeded 6 digits on a treasure. In the past seven years, I didn't know what to buy when I first landed, and I placed an order crazily in the later period. At the peak of 20 15, the number of orders reached 64. After that, it gradually became rational and gentle, and the whole body and mind seemed to have experienced a war. It hurts every time I recall it. Fortunately, my morbid online shopping has been controlled now, and I can face online shopping rationally in my life.

Online shopping addiction cannot be suppressed. I believe many people have tried to uninstall the shopping app and untie the fast payment card, but in the near future, they will repeat the same mistakes and even get worse.

Trying to quit morbid online shopping addiction, I took many detours and experienced a long painful struggle. If you are confused and painful about this, then you can try my method.

When a woman is bored, she is most likely to relieve her anxiety, emptiness and depression by watching the mobile app. I don't know that I will unconsciously place countless orders, which is horrible. Starting from today, try to find some life fun that can make you happy, such as reading, running, yoga, calligraphy, painting, baking, fitness and so on. All the small wishes that can make you happy, but you have never had time to realize them, start thinking now and put them into practice. After enriching your life with these little pleasures, you will find that there is less and less time to browse the mobile shopping app, and there will be much less orders unconsciously.

Clean the house thoroughly, and you will find that there are many unnecessary items in the house. But breaking up is still hard. Every time I throw something away, I unconsciously think about the cost of shopping, and my heart hurts. Therefore, the breakup can never be completely carried out. But in order to seek change, it must be done.

When you leave, you can try what you think you can give up. Friends circle second-hand transfer or hanging on salted fish. Second-hand transfer is difficult, either nobody likes it or the lion bargains, which will also lead to the difficulty of transfer. Now I want you to accumulate this pain. The next time you place an order, think about this pain, which will really slow down the order. Try it if you don't believe me.

When I try to start bookkeeping, I am always intimidated by my recent consumption expenditure. I thought it didn't cost much to accumulate, but it gave me a surprise. I think you must have had such an experience.

In order to get rid of the problem of disorderly shopping, I went to the bank and got a new debit card, requiring myself to make compulsory savings every month. When I accumulated to a certain extent, I actually found that I could also buy the expensive things I had in mind before, or I could have some money to arrange a trip for my family. This feeling is really wonderful, and it also strengthens my confidence in financial management.

Open your closet. If you find that at least one product in the closet has not removed its trademark, but you still feel confused and have nothing to wear, you can follow the fashion bloggers in Weibo like me. You will find that fashion bloggers do not blindly pursue popular elements. They are very rational and can choose items that suit their style very accurately. Looking through it often, our aesthetics will be improved unconsciously, and we will begin to refuse to blindly choose online celebrity models with low prices and small quantities, and only buy clothes that really suit us! Invisible, avoiding a lot of waste.

In the past two years, books and videos have become very popular. Some time ago, the popular books "Disengagement" and "The Magic of Organizing the Heartbeat Life" are all classic, so you must read them. The Japanese drama My Home is Empty is also recommended to everyone. We may not be able to do all the acts in the play, but the idea is worth learning. When we start to dislike the exquisite items at home, online shopping can basically be controlled.

The good methods I have realized are roughly the above points, and it is not too difficult to really do everything.

Now I still shop online, but I always insist on "buying a new one and forcing myself to throw away what I have now", insisting that there can only be fewer items at home than now, and no more. I will still enjoy the convenience brought by online shopping, but I won't place an order anytime and anywhere freely. I ushered in my new life. Give yourself some confidence and make some changes. I hope you can do the same!