What should I do with my marriage?

Hello: I can see from your words that you are struggling. You love your boyfriend very much, but your boyfriend refuses to give. Let me talk about my opinion: first, although you are free to fall in love and don't pay attention to bride price, drinking still costs money. Before marriage, both parents must meet to discuss the details of marriage. Secondly, there should be wedding rings and necklaces, which are the witness of marriage and passed on to future generations. If he won't give anything, you want him to be adopted by his wife. Look at his reaction.