What is the psychological state of the leftover women?

People are always in a hurry to mention leftover women, which has a hint of irony, as if leftover women can't be married. But what I want to say is: as long as you have a good attitude, no matter how old you are. The mental state of leftover women can be roughly divided into two categories.

The first category, single aristocratic type. In fact, most of the leftover women have a good mentality and don't think married people have anything to envy. On the contrary, they think it is better to be single without the constraints of marriage and family. While peers are worried about their husbands' infidelity, their aging, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the cost of children's remedial classes, these so-called leftover women are constantly expanding their careers or enriching their experiences, traveling around the world or participating in various activities, fully enjoying their rare solitude, and time seems to have left no trace of time on them.

For love, they never tire of it. Because they believe that when fate comes, people with fate will appear, and there is no need to force them.

The second category belongs to the anxiety and hate marriage type. There are two main reasons why women are anxious and hate marriage. First, because of the urging and persecution of parents and relatives at home, she had to rush to various blind date places, just like Xiao Ping, a woman who hates getting married in Pink Girl, who was eager to find a husband under the urging of three aunts and six aunts.

Second, because they put too much psychological pressure on themselves, they always think that women can't find a boyfriend after the age of 30, and they have no capital in the marriage and love market, so they should try their best to marry themselves on their youngest day. In fact, this idea is not desirable, because everyone has their own characteristics. What should I do if I get old after I'm 30? On the contrary, 30 years old brings women the precipitation and calmness of the years. The so-called age is all the psychological pressure we give ourselves. We must believe that when you are in full bloom, butterflies will come. Just like Fang Xiaoping in Pink Girl, she finally married happiness.