How can children learn to talk to their parents?

Here are some suggestions to help you learn to communicate with your children:

1. Create a safe environment: Make sure that the communication environment between you and your children is open, understanding and respectful. Let your children know that they can talk to you at any time without being criticized or punished.

2. Listening and respect: Listening is very important when communicating with children. Give them enough time to express their views and feelings and convey your respect and concern to them.

3. Don't criticize or judge: When children share their worries with you, try not to criticize, judge or criticize their views or feelings. Instead, try to understand their views and the reasons behind their emotions.

4. Encourage positive expression: Encourage children to express their feelings and opinions directly and frankly. Help them find the right words to describe their feelings, instead of suppressing or avoiding them.

5. Provide support and advice: After listening to children's concerns, provide support and advice, but at the same time let children know that they have autonomy and can make decisions that they think are right.

6. Demonstrate open communication: Demonstrate the correct way of communication through your own behavior. Show a positive, frank and understanding attitude when communicating with children.

7. Establish the same hobbies: by participating in some hobbies, increase the intimacy and emotional connection with children. This will lay the foundation for you to communicate with your children.

8. Set a time: Create a specific time to communicate with your children every day or week to ensure that you have special time to listen to their thoughts and feelings.

In short, understanding children's psychological needs, creating an open and respectful communication atmosphere, listening to and supporting children's expressions are the keys to establishing a heartfelt communication relationship with children.