Both husband and wife go to work, there is no in-laws to take care of the children, and there is no money to hire a nanny. How did you handle it?

Both husband and wife go to work, there is no in-laws to take care of the children, and there is no money to hire a nanny. What should I do? ? Your situation is very common, and so is my family. The first few years must be difficult. When the children go to kindergarten and make a plan, they can still stick to it.

1, it is the hardest time for a child to go to kindergarten at the age of two and a half. If there is no old man to help with the children, no reassuring nanny, or no money to hire a nanny, it may be necessary for the mother to take care of the children herself. At this time, the mother can open an online shop, take care of the children and do something at the same time, so as not to be out of touch with society. Or you can find a job near the community where you can take care of your children while working, and earn more, so that you can spend more money at home.

You can also set up a stall nearby after your husband comes home from work, or go to the supermarket to work at night, or go to a fast food restaurant for two or three hours to change your mind. Don't be depressed because you take care of the children all day. It is necessary for women to have an income at all times. If you can't find a suitable job, you can write something online to ease the mood of staying at home full-time. When you can't make money, take care of your children and adjust your emotional state.

2. In some places, you can go to kindergarten at the age of two and a half, and you can go near your work unit; Or look for a job near the kindergarten. At that time, I found a kindergarten for my children near the newspaper office. I can take my children to and from work, and I can go there at any time if there is anything. Kindergartens can usually send their children there before 7 o'clock at the earliest. After school in the afternoon, they can learn to draw in the kindergarten interest class, mainly to kill time and wait for their mother to pick them up after work.

Children who go to kindergarten usually have dinner in kindergarten. In this case, the children's breakfast, lunch and dinner will be solved. The most important thing to bring children home is to let them have enough sleep and rest early to avoid the fatigue of staying at school all day. Children who sleep well, drink enough water and feel happy are less likely to get sick. Remember, the more difficult it is, the more cheerful it is, which is conducive to the growth of children.

In this way, the child grew up and went to primary school. In order to pick up and drop off the children, mothers may still have to change jobs, so they should find a job near the school. It doesn't matter if they earn less. Taking care of children is the most important thing. I used to work at the children's dining table for more than two years, in order to take care of the children conveniently. My mother and I solved three meals a day, and the income was more than 1000, which was not bad. If both children have to go to work in primary school, it is best to let the children go to the small table after school in the afternoon, where they can eat and do their homework. Some small dining tables also send children to interest classes instead of parents. If it is really impossible to send children to primary school, they can be sent to boarding schools.

4, two people try to ensure that they can spend a weekend at home, so that they can take care of their children at home when they are not in class on weekends. Holidays can be enrolled in interest classes or winter and summer classes, so that children can solve the problem of eating and studying in a safer place. If children have strong self-care ability, they can stay at home by themselves, and parents get up early to prepare breakfast for their children. My family teaches children to use simple kitchen appliances such as electric baking pans when they are in kindergarten, so that children can simply cook something at home. Because children are very young, they are taught to use the telephone and call their parents if they need anything. Since you are in poor condition, try to teach your homework to your children, which can save a lot of tuition. Our children have hardly attended the remedial classes of cultural classes. I accompanied them to learn the textbook knowledge well, and the results naturally went up.

5. Mothers who take care of their children while going to work must be calm, don't be anxious, put an end to unnecessary socialization, and put their thoughts outside work on their children. Go to work well, go home immediately after work, and be patient with your children. In the year when I was going to take care of my little daughter at home, before she went to kindergarten, I took her to open a small shop near the boss's primary school to sell clothes, and took the boss to the store for dinner and rest at noon. During the time when I picked up two children by myself, I first took the boss home from the small dining table to rest, and then went to the nearby kindergarten to pick up chickens non-stop. For about four or five years, I never dared to get sick or even catch a cold. Later, I sent the chick to boarding school and finally went back to work.

Editor: Some people may say: Since it is so difficult, why should we have children? Why have two children? Why does mom go to work? At a certain stage, people are still eager to have children, if they are not determined to dink or cannot have children. Giving birth to a second child is also fate. Now the affection between relatives is getting weaker and weaker. A family with two children can become partners when they grow up. Why do you have to go to work instead of taking care of the children at home full time?

That's because I hope to bring new stories to my children every day, learn new knowledge to tell them every day, and let them feel my growth together. When they grow up, they will naturally imitate me and gradually surpass me. If I stay at home full-time, with my mood and state, I estimate that my self-confidence will gradually lose, and I will lose my self-confidence if I don't earn money. When my children grow up, I will have an opinion about my mother. Even if the stars are so rich, most of them have their own careers, rather than being completely idle at home. All the difficulties will pass, come on!