Friends circle is blocked by high emotional intelligence (when you find yourself blocked by friends circle)

When someone blocks you but doesn't delete you, sometimes you don't have to do anything wrong, just because the other person's current state is not suitable for you to see.

A: "Have you seen Z Jun's WeChat circle of friends recently? It's cool to go to Japan to see cherry blossoms. "

B: "Ah? Why didn't I see it? "

This conversation took place in a restaurant, because it was blocked by Z Jun, so B could only see a blank in Z Jun's circle of friends.

In life, this kind of dialogue is not uncommon. Why do you suddenly block your circle of friends when you think there is no problem?

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We will block others and be blocked by others.

The circle of friends is still a circle after all. When someone is invited in, someone is invited out.

In the world of adults, everyone lives with a mask, and the ability to perform well is called "high emotional intelligence".

There are complex trade-offs and considerations behind those who say the wrong thing, those who know but don't know, and those who keep secrets.

Therefore, more and more people divide their social life by setting the permissions of their circle of friends, which is more about "seeing once every three days" and "group shielding".

Among them, "group shielding" is the most unacceptable, and the subtext of "shielding" is "disapproval".

When we find ourselves banned, we will feel indignant, just like a hot face sticking to a cold ass, and sincere blood will always cause tragic damage when it meets cold eyes.

But one thing, each of us must understand that the equivalence of emotional pay and return only exists in the ideal state.

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Then, when you meet someone who is blocked by friends, should you understand, forgive, delete, break up, or ask?

Faced with this problem, some people resolutely chose to delete it. "For friends who blocked my star logo, please forgive me for deleting it first", while others were "tit for tat". It doesn't matter if you block me, I can block you. We had a good chat yesterday, and today we will inevitably go our separate ways.

However, "shielding friends from being discovered" does make people see how others really feel about themselves.

There is a line in The Ring Messenger: It seems that everyone is so pretentious but insignificant.

When you find someone blocking your circle of friends, don't worry. There are not so many things in the world. Do not compete. Smart people usually do this.

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I won't be angry about this, I can only say "I can't be friends".

The circle of friends is just a circle, not "friends everywhere". When you find yourself blocked, you don't have to be angry, you can only say "you can't be friends".

Because everyone has his own life, he chooses to block you, either because he doesn't want to disturb your life or because he doesn't want you to know his life state.

Look down. After all, it is just a "circle of friends".

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There is a relationship as light as water, knowing that the other party has sheltered you, but you don't have to expose it.

A person will not stand in your way because of a mistake, so don't ask for trouble, you are just not that important in his heart.

Some relationships can only get along well if you keep your distance. Once we forcibly look at them, we will inevitably torture each other.

A true friend will "explain" everything when he knows that you are "shielding" you, instead of waiting for you to ask.

Therefore, in other people's world, you don't have to care about your weight. Each busy, each hard, each smooth!

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Life is not easy, and all beings suffer. Choose to forgive.

People who stand in our way may not have too much prejudice against us. He may just want to do subtraction in his life to make his life less burdensome.

My friend Xiao K is born after 90. His circle of friends used to be really colorful, but recently he only saw Only Three Days.

When chatting, I asked why. She said helplessly, I was not sensible before, and I just wanted to record my life in my circle of friends. However, I feel that I haven't done anything, so I won't send it.

Her sentence "I don't understand" reminds me of a teenager with a silver ring and a steel fork and turned into a middle-aged teenager with a mouthful of "master". There may be a kind truth behind the cover.

If you find yourself blocked from your circle of friends, not being angry is your self-restraint, and not asking questions is your respect for others. If we can meet in rivers and lakes another day, he will be a glass of wine; Don't laugh if you can't treat each other as equals at present.