Can two people with different views get married?

Many couples still feel sorry for each other after quarreling for half their lives. However, the current high breakup rate also illustrates a problem. The relationship between marriage and values is also advancing with the times. Of course, nothing is absolute.

1, affecting the bottom line and principles, the other party is more real and can't be together. In the hit drama The Last Romance, Jiang and Zhang Anren were attracted to each other at first, and then broke up because of different values. Zhang Anren is a man who does whatever it takes to achieve his goal. In order to stay in school, he used his girlfriend to expose it, which violated Jiang's principle and bottom line of dealing with people.

Later, the Chiang family fell, and Zhang Anren's practice made Jiang Sunnan give up completely. Later, I fell in love with Jiang. Although she was heavily in debt, she didn't let him know that it was not that she didn't love, but that she was afraid of hurting her love. At first, she wanted Zhang Anren to help, but she took the opportunity to find a reason to separate herself. Speaking of it, Zhang Anren and his ex-girlfriend Yuan Yuan are the same kind of people, but they are too selfish to be together.

One party is willing to compromise and can be together. When two people are together, there will always be one who loves more. Love is a magical thing. When you enter your heart and eyes, you can change for him or her. If one party compromises, two people can be together, but the one who changes will be a little tired. But as long as you are mentally prepared, of course you can be together. In many cross-border relationships, people can survive even if they have different values, but they are willing to take a step back or change their faces. As for happiness or not, no one can guarantee it, even people with the same values can't guarantee happiness. Many couples or lovers are coming in the running-in. Love is also a process of trial and error. If all risks can be avoided, it is meaningless.

It is impossible for people with strong personalities to be together.

In life, our behavior and cognition, the principles of doing things and the goals we pursue will all be influenced by values.

People you like have different values, and there will be disputes together. Both of them have strong personalities, so they will blush and have thick necks, and even say extreme words.

If the pain in love is greater than happiness, it is better to hit each other and find another lover.

Sensitive and suspicious people can't be together.

Different attitudes towards life can be tolerated, but if one party is too sensitive and over-interprets your values, it will fall into a quagmire of distrust and cannot extricate itself.

No matter how hard you try, you can't resist the doubt.

If you can't control your emotions, it is likely to lead to excessive behavior, so don't be together.

Therefore, before getting married, we should not only pay attention to the external conditions such as family background and appearance, but also consider the personality and outlook of two people. After all, what really supports you through a long marriage is your three views. Marriage will break up sooner or later if the three views disagree.

Remember, woman, even if a man loves you no matter how good he is, don't marry him, because you never know what kind of contradictions will arise after marriage.