Every mother-in-law comes from a daughter-in-law. Why is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still difficult?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times, and it is not easy to solve. Of course, there are also mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law who get along well. Even if they get along well, there will definitely be conflicts.

Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are nothing more than children, living habits and trivial matters. The reason for all conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that the husband does not play a good role in the middle and fails to balance the relationship between the wife and the mother. relation. There is a saying that the reason why a mother-in-law feels bad about her daughter-in-law and dislikes her daughter-in-law is because her daughter-in-law has not experienced the hardships she endured. Perhaps it is because she is mentally unbalanced or something else. Gradually there will be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

For example, today's daughter-in-law needs a car and a house when she gets married. How could she have such conditions when her mother-in-law got married? Moreover, cars and houses are very expensive. If the family's conditions are not good, Okay, but the daughter-in-law asked to buy it. At this time, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law formed a dispute. Being one means getting pregnant. In my mother-in-law’s time, there was no prenatal check-up, and she had to work when she should. But now, the daughter-in-law is very precious when she is pregnant. She doesn’t do any work and always has problems. Some mothers-in-law will dislike their daughter-in-law. Much, it was incomparable to what I had at that time, and I began to have a bad impression of my daughter-in-law.

Because the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are becoming more and more serious now, many new daughters-in-law put forward the request to buy a house before they get married. On the one hand, they do not want to live with their parents-in-law in the future, so as to avoid conflicts. In addition, buying a house is also essential. Always look forward. No one has yet said how to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

As long as we tolerate each other, understand each other, and empathize with each other in daily life, of course, as a husband and as a son, he also plays an important role in it. As long as he plays a key role, the general problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be solved. Not too big.