Do you think children are "scary"? what do you think?

"Terrible" makes people laugh and cry.

Just last weekend, I swam back to the countryside with my son who was less than three years old. Xiong Haizi did something that has left a shadow on me so far.

When I arrived at my hometown in the countryside, I was particularly interested in the sand in front of my door, so I kept squatting and repeatedly grabbed the sand to another position. In the spirit of letting children play casually if they like, we trust him to play alone, while adults choose dishes on the other side.

More than ten minutes passed. Unexpectedly, he saw the children still playing. He didn't come with an adult. We continue to be busy and enjoy the "quiet time" without children's interference.

Half an hour later, I went to the lobby to get something, and suddenly I found a pile of sand and stones on the floor, sofa, desktop, coffee table, even in the circular gap in the middle of the stereo and on the remote control. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. When I was ready to vent my anger, I swam in with a hand full of gravel and smiled happily at me: "Mom, I swam a lot."

I calmed my anger, turned around and took my hand and garbage shovel and handed it to my son. I warned him not to bring sand into the house and let him clean it up. Finally, my son helped mop the floor and finally repaired the hall together.

At the moment of completion, my son squatted on the ground and sighed very tired. I suddenly found myself doing something wrong.

1, I let my son play freely, and I didn't supervise and guide him in time during the process, which made him take a detour (stained the sand in the hall).

3. If there is a problem, I should see the progress of the child first, and then guide the child to recognize and correct the mistake in time. At least let the children have a perfect ending in playing with sand and stones, rather than ending in "good fatigue".

As long as you understand and investigate with your heart, in fact, behind every "terrible" and naughty behavior of children, there is a reason that adults ignore. As long as it is handled properly, it is also a precious growth for children.

Do you think children are "scary"? what do you think?

It sucks.

It's really scary to talk about children now Let's start with how difficult it is to have a baby: how much unbearable pain does a mother have to bear from October of pregnancy to delivery? From the beginning of pregnancy, pregnancy test, pregnant women who are uncomfortable during pregnancy, "Yaner doesn't lay eggs", go to the hospital once every three days, and draw blood once every two days ... I finally gave birth, and my mother was tortured to death. Nowadays, hospitals are prone to caesarean section, major surgery, and mothers who managed to escape from the jaws of death have to work tirelessly day and night, nursing, bathing, changing clothes and changing diapers. Today eczema, eczema,

It is difficult to send children to kindergarten, for fear that they will be cold, hot, underfed and bullied. Learn piano today, practice calligraphy tomorrow, and fight with children; Go to school a little bigger, send early and pick up late, rain or shine, year after year, attend cram schools and extra-long classes; Keep up with classmates, wear clothes and hats, use famous brand learning tools, fight, puppy love ...

All right. Here comes the problem. In the face of everything, parents scrimp and save for their children to go to school and meet all their requirements. In the end, it's hard to say, scold or fight. I watched a few videos. A boy and his mother go shopping in the supermarket. The boy is playing games. Because the mother took the change handed over by the cashier and blocked her son's view of playing games, the mother was beaten by her son in public.

A child jumped off the balcony just because of his mother's nagging;

They all say that they want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. There is also a saying that loving mothers often fail. Faced with such a group of children, they don't know how to respect their parents and teachers, and they don't abide by the social moral order, which breaks their parents' hearts. In exchange, this is the end. Who dares to care? How to manage?

Parents bring up their children with hardships and fear, but also face further studies, employment, marriage, having children and bringing up grandchildren ... When children are young, they are afraid that they will not be able to support themselves. When they grow up, they are afraid that their children will not study well, work well and have an unhappy marriage. When they are old, they are afraid that their children will not provide for themselves and die. Do you think "children" are terrible now? Children ask their parents for stars and dare not give them to the moon. It is really "thinking about change when you are poor."

Children are "terrible", which stage depends on? It depends on how you look at this problem!

Life: Children are "scary". The terrible thing is that they will never change their minds. They can always find some problems that catch you off guard. For example, when you are a baby, careful service will make you suffer from minor illnesses. In kindergarten, he will give you 100 thousand. Why? When I was in primary school, my teacher would talk to you about his various minor problems, which made you laugh and cry. Puppy love has invaded your life since middle school. Three years of study in high school is stressful, and adolescent rebellion is becoming more and more serious. These are all problems that life should experience. Parents should exercise the skill of "seeing the move and dismantling the move" and deal with all kinds of situations from small to large!

Mentally: People say: Pain and happiness coexist? That's the way to have a baby. From infancy, with his tender face and lovely babbling, you will enjoy unparalleled happiness. In kindergarten, little guys grow up little by little, learn to sing, dance, tell stories, and even learn to train people and reason with you like adults. You will cherish and care more about your ignorant little appearance. Every parent will remember the small appearance of primary school students wearing school uniforms and carrying schoolbags for the first time. Gradually become a "little devil" in many cases in the school, and you also love and hate. In junior high school, although "puppy love" scares you, you will be glad that your children have their own opinions. In high school, when you are about to face the "flying out" child, you sometimes feel anxious, sometimes afraid to hug him, and sometimes hate him for not studying hard. All kinds of emotions are intertwined, and I think you will really understand the difficulties of your parents.

Therefore, children are "terrible". They have magical power to make you understand the profound meaning of "I don't know my parents' kindness if I don't raise children". Children are "terrible". They are individuals of life. Let you grow and progress with them and learn how to be parents. The child is "terrible" They are like a treasure. When they are born, the mysterious door opens from your life, making your life more meaningful and perfect!

I don't think children are scary at all. I personally like children very much. Wherever I see children playing there, I will play with them.

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