Help my introverted brother.

China's philosophy since ancient times holds that human nature is quiet. China people advocate nature and emphasize the integration with nature, which is the so-called "harmony between man and nature".

When we stand in the endless wilderness, in front of the winding stream, on the misty mountain, we look at the quiet sky and listen to the sounds of nature.

How quiet and comfortable this feeling will be. Think about it, how depressed it will be to have a rock and roll at this time! It's not interesting at all!

Nature is speechless, and people who advocate nature are speechless.

There is nothing wrong with being introverted. If possible, we hope the other half of the world can understand.

Introversion is a legitimate and reasonable character. There are two legal personalities in this world: extroversion and introversion.

Introversion is not a neurosis.

Introverts are no more prone to mental illness than others.

Introversion is not antisocial.

Introverts are not dumb.

Introverts are better listeners.

One doesn't have to apologize to others.

Introverts are not losers.

Justice for children misunderstood because of introversion.

Don't let the talkative extroverts bother you when you are reading a good book.

Introversion and extroversion are one dimension of personality, and there is no difference between good and bad. Introversion and extroversion are a continuum, at both ends of this continuum. In real life, we will use both sides of this continuum. It's like a netizen asking, "Why do I like talking sometimes, but I don't like talking sometimes?" In fact, this is to use things on one side and things on the other side on another occasion. We have a natural preference for one side or the other. If we tend to be more extroverted, we are extroverts, and those who tend to be introverted are introverts. Someone is extroverted, so his extroversion is more obvious; Some people are more introverted, so his introversion is more obvious. Similarly, someone will be right in the middle of this continuum, that is, his deviation will account for 50% each. It is not that an introverted person is introverted at any time and on any occasion. He can be extroverted at certain times and occasions, but he is introverted at most times and occasions. For another example, in fact, introversion and extroversion are like our right hands. We use both our right and left hands in life, but which hand we are more used to. If you are an extrovert, then extroversion is like your right hand and introversion is like your left hand. Just like sometimes using your left hand, sometimes you will be introverted. Similarly, if you are an introvert, then introversion is like your right hand, extroversion is like your left hand, just as you sometimes use your left hand, you will sometimes be extroverted. The above example assumes that we are all right-handed.

Although there is a long-standing debate about whether there are more extroverts or introverts in the world, recent research shows that there are equal numbers of introverts and extroverts among Americans.

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Most extroverts don't understand introverts, because extroverts always want the world to be open and people can communicate with each other. When faced with people you can't understand or need to pay more to understand, you often choose to give up.

As a social animal, introverts often want to integrate into society, but they lack various means or cannot overcome some of their own shortcomings. Extroverts can get more resources and recognition, and are often more likely to be in a higher position, while introverts are often difficult to get group recognition, resulting in frustration.

At this time, an interesting phenomenon was formed. Introverts are often labeled as "losers". As a group, just like the disabled, they are discriminated against because of their own defects. The difference is that disability is usually considered to be unchangeable, while introversion is considered to be caused by its own reasons. This discrimination is most obvious when women choose men (or men choose women) (this is another big topic, so I won't describe it here).

The reasons for the formation of introverted personality are very complicated, which cannot be explained by a sentence "formed by many wrong solutions" The most direct statement is that introversion and extroversion are relative, and half of them are always "less extroverted" than the other half. They are often called introverts (of course, I admit that this is not a good statement, and there are other statements, but I don't think that is the essence of the problem, so I don't want to mention it).

I am an introvert, but this does not prevent me from expressing my views. I think I know people's thoughts better than extroverts to some extent. I think human nature is good, and I can clearly understand my own advantages and disadvantages, but I prefer to express myself modestly, which may be considered as not confident enough. I don't think others deliberately snubbed me. Although I was left out a lot, I always thought it was because I didn't perform well enough. Indeed, I would rather bear the pressure myself than tell others, but this is only in the private sphere.

There has been a big misunderstanding. I remember someone once asked me, if you introverted friends sit together, won't you stare at each other for a long time without saying a word? To tell the truth, in my impression, when I am with them, I should be cheerful rather than talkative. Introverts are not without opinions, and they are not without words. Introverts may lack humor, introverts may lack courage, but their hearts are always rich.

Refuse to be introverted, and you may not become better! But there will definitely be more people who think you are excellent!