Women don't want someone else's stepmother to say it.

Cleaning up housework is a woman's business, so just clean it up quickly. It doesn't matter if the family says it. Open your mind. Whether you can be kind to your stepdaughter depends on your character and conduct. Don't neglect your little daughter. Don't give anything to your little daughter. Neither child can be mistreated. When children grow up, they will naturally be good to you. Don't despise your stepdaughter just because her mother doesn't want her. Be kind to your stepdaughter. God will see that respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue. Both children will be filial to you when they grow up. A word for you: don't do it because of small kindness, don't do it because of small evil.