My boyfriend is a baby boy. Is there any way to change him?

"Mama Bao Nan" is a popular online word in recent years, especially for some boys who rely too much on their mothers. A popular saying among many women is "Don't marry your mother-in-law". Is it true?/You don't say.

Xiaoxi, a child who has no opinion and doesn't grow up, is a particularly independent girl in my impression. She is elegant, hardworking and good-natured, and basically has all the advantages of traditional women. I met my boyfriend a year ago, tall and handsome, and a local quality man in the eyes of my friends. After months of pursuit, we got together. Maybe in the eyes of my friends, they are more right, but after I met this boy several times, I felt an unspeakable taste, which was not good anyway. They broke up in less than two months, although I don't think they will have a good result. I didn't expect to break up so soon. On the surface, there is nothing wrong with the boy. Xiaoxi and I spoke out that this boy is a mother-in-law. When he began to try to communicate, he already knew something that he didn't expect to be so serious at that time.

He looks like a little boy. Without "My mother taught me this way" and "My mother never did this", he would not talk or do anything. What makes Xiaoxi even more unbearable is that when eating and ordering, he will discuss with her what to eat. Before the movie is over, his mother will call to confirm when to go home.

What kind of operation is this? No girl can stand it! This kind of love is naked in front of my mother. If there is further development in the future, will there be more private things to show my mother?

Xiaoxi is not young, and she is getting married in love. She can't accept such a lifestyle. Although it's all advice and no advice, I still expressed my opinion that such a boy is not worth loving. Marriage is a life-long event. If you live in such an environment, will you be depressed after a long time?

Ma Baonan's first characteristic is that he has no opinion, like a little child. Maybe in his mother's eyes, the child is still a good baby until he grows up.

Xiao Lei, a cousin who is easily depressed and uncertain about her best friend in college, is a young man who looks like five big and three thick. He only met him once, that is, he sent the packaging materials produced at home to a wholesale market near the school and passed by the school to see his cousin. When I invited my best friend to dinner, I had a meal with him.

During the whole meal, I didn't feel the manly temperament that matched his appearance. I seldom speak and my voice is very low. After dinner, my best friend and I talked about her cousin. In fact, she is as old as her, one month younger, and she has been very obedient at home since childhood. Recently, because of marital troubles, I often come out to deliver goods.

Xiao Lei's family is very good in the local area, which can be said to be a well-off family well known far and wide. There was a small factory at home to make packaging materials, which was simply a gold-swallowing beast in the eyes of rural people at that time. Parents have laid a good foundation, and Xiao Lei is also famous for her obedient behavior, so she is very popular in the nearby blind date market.

At this time, Xiao Lei's mother had a magical operation. Many good-looking girls don't look at it at all, so they bring a girl with the highest appearance of 60 points in the neighbor's house. The reason is that this girl is obedient and works at home. Xiao Lei didn't want to, but there was nothing she could do. Her mother has the final say and insists on getting engaged to him.

This is what happened when I met Xiao Lei. I lamented that my girlfriend's aunt, that is, Xiao Lei's mother, died after she made trouble without reason.

Half a year later, I suddenly remembered my best friend's cousin Xiao Lei and chatted about the subsequent development. My best friend sighed and said that she got married reluctantly, but there was a story in the middle.

In short, before getting married, Xiao Lei made the biggest struggle. He left home alone and went to work in a city, expressing his dissatisfaction with his parents' arranged marriage. Xiao Lei grew up with his parents and didn't have much common sense of life. He didn't earn much money by working, but all the money he took out was lost. Living outside is even more difficult. I have long lost my determination to resist marriage, and finally returned home despondently.

I don't know whether the girl who married him later is happy or not, but one thing is certain, his mother will be very satisfied, because he arranged everything for her son. Xiao Lei may not be happy either, because it is far from his expected marriage.

After parents control their children's everything, they often become insecure and have worse stress resistance. If you are an ordinary child, you will not end up in failure at work, and you will not easily let go of your determination to resist.

Is it really that good for a mother to do everything for her children? I don't think so. What you think is often not what children need. Without self-confidence, children's road will get narrower and narrower.

Family relationship is not good. The essence of polygamy with failed marriage is that two people form a new family. Perhaps many people will argue that this is not a matter for two people, but a matter for two families, and all aspects have been taken into account. Let's not talk about whether there can be such a beautiful thing, and whether it can take care of everything. Let's just say that in the future, the two young people will be the main ones, and the others will only be the auxiliary ones in marriage life. If their roles are misplaced, the essence of marriage will be misplaced.

Cousin Wei is in this state now. My brother-in-law and she are high school classmates. Originally, they were all working in the city, and their lives were not bad.

But since the baby was born, since the parents-in-law came to take care of the baby, everything has changed. My brother-in-law is a very filial person. Ever since he bought a house in the city with a down payment, he has been thinking about taking his parents to live together and enjoying the city life. My sister has always resisted their arrival, knowing that they have many bad habits, and she is also afraid of being together for a long time. Finally, the brother-in-law pulled his parents to his side on the grounds that the children needed care.

My sister didn't know that her brother-in-law was actually her mother-in-law. After her mother-in-law came over, she brought all her living habits and thoughts to this small family. My brother-in-law has been trying to reconcile the relationship between the two sides. Maybe he is also very hard, but the most common words are three sentences: "My mother is so old, it's not easy", "My mother is actually quite good" and "That's my mother, excuse me".

An ordinary wife doesn't know how many times she has heard her husband say it. It's normal to say it once in a while If you usually say these things, unfortunately, you may just meet a mother-in-law.

My sister always complains to me that at home, she is like an outsider. The three of them talked and laughed, but they couldn't get in a word. If the mother-in-law is slightly unhappy, the father-in-law will scold her husband, and she is not a person inside and outside. My brother-in-law may not realize these problems. When the young couple are together, everything is fine.

After the two old people came over, the family was like a big unit. My mother-in-law is the general manager, my father-in-law is the secretary, and the young couple are like two clerks. You need to ask your mother-in-law everything. After disappointment, her father-in-law expressed his dissatisfaction. Her husband's passive Nuo Nuo's performance in front of them broke her heart just like that of her children.

This kind of life really depresses my sister, so it doesn't matter if I complain. Fortunately, my brother-in-law has not reached a very serious level. At least he has the ability to live on his own, which is the only way to save.

Conclusion It is normal that many women don't hold men in Malik's arms. Before getting married, it is better to find a man with such characteristics and stay away from it. After touching him, the result may not be too good.

Ma Baonan is a derogatory term. In fact, there are bright spots when you think about it carefully. At least such a man will not be too willful, and there is no problem with filial piety. If you find that your husband is a mother-in-law after marriage, don't complain. It's not his fault, it's his growing environment. There are several suggestions that may be useful for changing Ma Baonan.

The first point: let him realize his own problems. Many men don't know they have a problem, but they think their wives have a problem. In this way, they can find more information to show him, correct his thoughts and make him realize that he is that kind of person.

The second point: get rid of dependence on parents and have your own opinions. Many men rely on their parents since childhood, overcome their dependence, make their own decisions when things happen, and consciously let him make decisions about some things at home. After a long time, they will gradually become independent, and there will be nothing to find their mother.

The third point: learn to be strong and cultivate more sense of responsibility. When two people live together, there will always be difficulties and setbacks. The meaning of home is that you are no longer alone. In the face of difficulties, a man should bear most of the responsibility, and can't be devastated because of a little thing. The method is always more difficult than it is. Over time, with a sense of responsibility, people will naturally be strong.

Ma Baonan was not formed in a day, and his long-term habits will not change easily. With the correct guidance, Ma Baonan will also become a real man.