What should I do if I can't let go of my children after divorce? Extremely painful ...

It is understandable that the child is the meat that falls from the mother. Have you considered children before divorce? Since you have chosen, you have to bear this pain, and so does a friend of mine, because you can't let go of your children and forgive each other again and again. But what can you do? The other person still treats himself like that, and finally chooses to leave, but you are so sad that you can't bear to part with your children. I can only look at photos occasionally. I hope you can be strong and turn grief into motivation. Come on, everything will pass.