For the rest of your life, find someone you can talk to at any time.

It's really difficult to find someone who can chat with you anytime, anywhere. Yes, I can often feel the deep and unspeakable taste in this sentence.

Maybe you are very popular, you know a lot of people, and there are many people who have a good relationship with you, but even your family, even your close lover, you may not be able to talk to him whenever you want, and you don't have to worry about being rude, blaming yourself or being afraid of being left out at any time.

The vast sea of people, the world of mortals, dozens of names and hundreds of familiar faces in the address book. Sometimes, when you turn on your mobile phone and turn over your names one by one, how many people can make you feel at ease, calm down, disturb you anytime and anywhere and speak freely?

Sometimes, we would rather tell ourselves a thousand times and ten thousand times in our hearts than reveal a word, some distress and boredom, some feelings and situations to people around us. No one else has been there, so naturally you can't feel the same. An understanding person may be able to say some pertinent words of comfort, while a perfunctory person will only say a few words, which will make you regret telling your heart immediately.

During the day, we wrap ourselves heavily under armor and hide our true selves deeply. No matter how close you are, everyone will have scruples, and everyone you know will have guesses. We are like a group of stinging porcupines, huddled together to keep out the cold and keep our distance for self-protection. It's hard to find someone to talk to at any time. It's even harder to find someone who always tells the truth.

Occasionally, gurgling spring water will flow out of our hearts. We show sincerity and enthusiasm without affectation, make eye contact and warm our hearts, but soon even we ourselves will laugh at our childishness. Heart and heart are always separated by such a distance, and never even follow the same track.

We are becoming more and more unreal, unable to find the truth and afraid to express it. Our heart, which was once as transparent as glass, is the truest heart. Now, where can we find it?

In the TV series Kangxi Dynasty, Kangxi had 3,000 concubines, and Rong Fei was his favorite. When he went to Rongfei's house, his favorite sentence was: "I want to talk to you." Then, pour out some state affairs and family affairs. Later, he had to abolish Rong Fei. When he was depressed, he always went to Rong Fei Palace. However, when people come to the palace, you are an emperor through the ages, and there is not even a speaker.

Just talking, think about it carefully, that's it: no matter how great and vigorous, you are also a person, an ordinary person with secular desires, and you also hope to have someone who is close to your heart, knows how to be warm and cold, and can deeply understand your thoughts and feelings to communicate with you. In this way, you won't be lonely.

I once read such a passage: "marry someone you like to chat with." When you are old, you will find that chatting is a person's greatest advantage. " Love should be all-inclusive and interdependent; It is lonely, but it doesn't feel lonely. I know the road is long in Xiu Yuan and the snow is boundless in Xiu Yuan, but I am still grateful to walk with you ... The world is too big, too complicated and changing too fast. Holding the hand of someone who can chat with you anytime and anywhere, you will have the happiness that even Kangxi has.

Life is like a huge funnel in front of us. When I was young, I met many people and wanted to say a lot, so I had no scruples. Maybe I will talk to this friend about everything today, and I will forget the time when I talk to another person tomorrow. Even if I make up my own story, two people can talk with relish.

However, with the growth of age, we will gradually find that fewer and fewer people can listen to you and talk to you, and sometimes these have become our own luxury desires. At this time, we may only have a fixed close friend who can listen to you when you are lonely, or we may not.

In fact, such difficulties have always existed throughout the ages. Even when Lu Xun met Qu Qiubai, he felt that "it is enough to have a bosom friend in life, so we should treat each other with the same bosom".

When you want to talk at a certain moment, it's not that simple to rummage through all the address books and find the person you can talk to.

A bosom friend is rare in life, so cherish fate.