A southerner is lonely studying in the north. what should he do ？

When loneliness comes, you should relax and learn to enjoy it.

Keep yourself busy, enrich your life and enrich your heart. It is normal to be alone in a foreign land, but you should not be too emotional about loneliness. You can think about where you want to go when you walk. Many people, like you, will be inexplicably depressed. But it doesn't matter, because people always have to face loneliness alone, so you should learn to enjoy loneliness.

My biggest feeling when I study at school is that people here actually enjoy being alone. When you are in the library, it is difficult to see people in groups of three or two. The most common thing is that a person carries a schoolbag with a glass of water, takes out five or six books and reads quietly from morning to noon.

A person goes to the canteen to eat, buys some fruit on the roadside, and then goes back to the library to continue writing and drawing in his notebook. Even when walking on the road, the most common person is a person. You will find that they have a very calm manner. Although I was in a hurry, my expression was particularly firm.

On the contrary, when you are alone, you are the happiest, and your time is entirely at your own disposal. As for loneliness, it is only a subjective feeling. Just like when I read and write alone, I don't feel sorry and lonely.

I once read such a passage in a book: "When I was young, I thought loneliness was a cool thing. Later, I felt that loneliness was a sad thing. Now I think loneliness is not a thing. " At least, try not to turn it into a thing. It is wonderful to have a bosom friend in life, but you can't force it. All you can ask is yourself. You must bend down and reach out to yourself in the dark. "

Therefore, in the face of loneliness, our best wisdom is to admit it, not to escape it, but not to take it too seriously and then learn to enjoy it. When you feel lonely, you actually get the time and opportunity to explore yourself. It is much better to explore your own happiness than to perfuse the happiness of outsiders.