"My brother is getting married and has no money to buy a house." My wife wants me to pay. Should I pay?

I don't know when the word "helping younger brother" became popular on the Internet, which refers to women who blindly help their parents and brothers regardless of their small families. Many men called for boycotting' brotherly helpers' on the Internet and threatened that they would never marry such a woman. Is it really that hard for two amiable brothers and sisters to help each other? Ran Ran was recently tortured to the point of collapse by her brother and husband. On the one hand, she grew up with her younger brother, and on the other hand, her husband went from school uniforms to wedding dresses. How to choose Ran Ran is really uncertain.

At the beginning, Ran Ran and his younger brother were admitted to the university, but only one child could study at home because his family was poor. The younger brother resolutely gave the opportunity to study to his sister and said, "Sister, you go to school and I will work for you. A girl with a little culture will not be angry at her husband's family in the future. " Although Ran Ran, who was in tears, repeatedly shirked his responsibilities, he finally listened to his younger brother and went to Shenzhen to work for his younger sister to study. Ran Ran also lived up to expectations. Even under the work-study program, he got a full scholarship. In the second year, he used the scholarship to help his younger brother go back to school, and his younger brother got the opportunity to go to college.

After Ran Ran graduated, he found a job soon, and his younger brother also started a university trip. When he came here, their identities began to change, and they became working in Ran Ran for their younger brother to learn. Although there is no gap between the two brothers, Ran Ran's behavior is regarded as "helping his younger brother" by outsiders who don't know the truth. Ran Ran's husband was the first unwelcome person. He felt that Ran Ran had no obligation to provide study for his brother-in-law, while Ran Ran didn't tell her husband about his brother's going to school because he was worried about his brother's face. He just insisted on supporting his brother with his own salary. Although their feelings are still very good, they are gradually estranged.

It was not until his younger brother graduated and started to work that Ran Ran stopped this kind of support behavior. Ran Ran's husband had no reason to accuse Ran Ran, and their feelings began to heat up gradually. But the days will pass, how can there be no waves? My brother fell in love after graduation, and soon they were ready to get married, but the girl asked her brother to buy a house, but he couldn't make a down payment for a while and had to borrow money from him. Ran Ran remembered her husband's attitude and said to discuss it first when she went home.

After returning home, Ran Ran said to her husband, "My brother is getting married and has no money to buy a house." Her husband was very uncomfortable after hearing what Ran Ran said. He was even angrier when he remembered the years when Ran Ran supported his brother-in-law. "Don't complain to me, I won't take care of your family." When Ran Ran heard what her husband said, he knew he didn't want to pay. He thought of his younger brother who had given up the opportunity to go to school and his elderly parents at home, and his heart became more and more wronged, and tears flowed out. When Ran Ran's husband saw his wife crying, he was very flustered. He quickly took Ran Ran's hand and said, "Why are you crying? Can't we borrow money? " The more Ran Ran cried, the sadder she became. She threw herself into her husband's arms and told him that his brother had given up the chance to go to school.

Ran Ran's husband didn't expect this to happen. He instantly erased his prejudice against his brother-in-law and quietly gave him a thumbs-up sign. The husband comforted Ran Ran and said, "Why didn't you say so earlier? If you had said earlier, I wouldn't have been sad for so many years. " Ran Ran sobbed and said, "I don't think it's a glorious thing. I'm afraid you'll think I'm a selfish woman if I say it." Ran Ran's husband felt very sad when he heard his wife's words. He held his wife tightly and kept silent for a long time.

The next day, the two took out100000 yuan and lent it to their younger brother. Ran Ran's husband patted his younger brother on the shoulder and said, "Brother-in-law, don't worry about the money. You work hard first. " My brother looked at the hundred thousand pieces in his hand and his eyes were red. He said to his brother-in-law, "I keep this kindness in mind." Ran Ran's husband smiled and said, "We are all related. Borrowing money is just a kindness. As long as you follow the right path, your sister and I will be comforted. " The younger brother held his brother-in-law tightly and could not speak. Later, my brother worked hard and finally paid back the money in the third year. He said to his brother-in-law, "You lend me this hundred thousand to help me tide over the difficulties. If you need anything in the future, I will never say it. "

Emotional message: The closest people in this world are brothers and sisters. It's okay to help each other, but don't help without a bottom line, otherwise you may not be helping him, but hurting him.