"The daughter-in-law is really unfilial, and she complains when she washes the bowl." The circle of friends sent by her mother-in-law makes women feel very cold. Why?

Many young couples aim to get married when they are in love. However, they will be very sweet when they are in love, and may not be so sweet after marriage.

Love only needs to deal with the relationship between two people, but marriage is affected by too many factors. When a woman marries, she naturally hopes that she can live in harmony with the other half of her family.

But in many marriages, there are always many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many two people who once loved each other separated, mostly because of the outbreak of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In fact, there is no absolute contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law In a family, two people are important to the same man. Only by dealing with the relationship between two people can this family be more harmonious.

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Wang Yanfang and her husband Zhang Jianguo met at work, and they have a deep affection. Later, they naturally got married.

I thought this marriage would be perfect, but what greeted Wang Yanfang was not the happiness of the family, but the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Not long after they got married, her mother-in-law asked them to give them 5000 yuan of living expenses every month, and the salary was not high, so Wang Yanfang asked if she could give them less and give them more when they got promoted.

Later, there was no way out. My mother-in-law agreed to let them give 3000 yuan a month first, and it was precisely because of this that she buried some dissatisfaction in her heart.

The mother-in-law has three sons, who live in each son's house for one year and take turns to take care of them. Every time Wang Yanfang takes care of them, Wang Yanfang will do his best. All the housework in the family is solved by herself. After all, she is a family, and she wants this family to be harmonious.

Later, when it was her turn again, it happened to catch up with Wang Yanfang's confinement. She handed down a pair of twins for the family and is also a hero of this family.

I thought my mother-in-law could help her take care of the children and share some housework when she came to her house, because she was not in good health.

Then she went to her house, and her mother-in-law did nothing, which made her very helpless, but she didn't care about each other.

The last two people had a conflict because of one thing. After she cooked a meal at home, the family had a delicious meal.

Then when she was eating, she felt uncomfortable and a little dizzy, so she asked her mother-in-law to wash the dishes first. She wanted to go back and have a rest, but her mother-in-law thought she didn't want to wash the dishes, so she made an excuse and refused.

She whispered, "I can't wash the dishes because I'm not feeling well." How can I find you? I don't want to wash the dishes. Forget it. When I am ready, I will wash it myself. "

With these words, she went back to the house and rested in bed. When she woke up, she found that her mother-in-law had sent a circle of friends: "My daughter-in-law is really unfilial. I just asked her to do the dishes. She didn't want to wash the dishes and complained about me. Is it easy for me to be an old woman? "

She saw many relatives complaining about her, which made her particularly chilling. She really knew where her mother-in-law had put her.

Because of this, she became estranged from her mother-in-law, and even rarely talked to her mother-in-law.

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In marriage, the mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to listen to her own words and live a good life with her son, while the daughter-in-law wants her mother-in-law to understand herself better and not force herself, so there will be many contradictions between them.

In fact, women also want to be filial to their parents. After all, they love that man, so for this man, she will learn to accept her family and love his family. But if the man's family is too harsh, women will feel very sad.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important in feelings. If two people want to live a happier marriage, then there should be more understanding and tolerance in the family.

Only in this way can this family be happier and men have more experiences to struggle and have no worries.