Reflections on being a teacher without regrets

Having tasted a famous book, I believe everyone has a lot to share. You can't just watch. Write a review. So, can it really be written? The following are my thoughts on "Don't complain about the teacher", hoping to help you.

Reflection on Don't Complain about Teachers 1 Books are the eternal friends of mankind. I like reading, and I prefer reading. In fact, for an unknown junior like me, the word "research" does not match. The word "research" just adds a grandiose hat to my study, grinding and laziness. But as the saying goes, slow work makes fine work. Reading slowly naturally has the advantage of being slow, and you can better ponder and understand some plots and contents.

I have read the book "Be a teacher who doesn't complain" and I am deeply touched. When I first saw the title of the book, I thought, how can a teacher not complain? There are too many complaints. Especially with the development of the times, there are more and more only children, and parents have higher and higher requirements for teachers, which inevitably brings pressure to our teachers. Students ask for a burden reduction, but parents don't agree. Some ask for reducing the burden, while others ask for speaking with grades. Under the pressure of parents and students' increasing awareness of rights protection, "complaining" seems to be a way to "release" the pressure. But there is a sentence in the first chapter of this book: "Complaining is the best interpretation of cowardice and incompetence. He wandered around like a ghost, which was disturbing. " "Don't complain" reflects not only the teacher's mind. Our teachers should adjust their mentality and be full of confidence in students and life.

Complaining can't produce any joy, on the contrary, it will make our negative emotions constantly superimpose and produce more unhappiness. Education is a kind of wisdom. In our educational work, if we abandon the idea of making all students "brilliant" and conform to nature, will children laugh more? Just like some teachers, it is not enough for students to get 96 points in the exam. It seems that only 100 can be considered excellent. Our teacher is always dissatisfied with children's grades, just as some students are not serious in class. Once caught by the teacher, they will be criticized ... actually, calm down and think about it. Who can guarantee that a class lasts for 45 minutes? As long as the students correct. "Many times, the small friction between classmates is not so critical." Just like the growth of all things in nature, in the process of friction, we have learned the art of getting along with others. Therefore, our teacher wants students to learn to survive and grow in friction, which is a natural selection process, and in this process, our teacher does not have to do it for them.

Our teacher often complains: Why are children so disobedient nowadays? Why is it so difficult to teach? Why do you dislike studying so much? Parents don't care, and so on. In fact, we may have made a mountain out of a molehill. When facing students' problems, our teachers should try to trust students and control their emotions. This can not only solve the problem, but also teachers and students have learned a lot.

There are some things that I think I just need to tell my children. After all, there is no child who does not make mistakes. The key is that they don't give up their studies and continue to work hard. We don't need to be strict with them and treat them differently. We can't look at students with colored glasses. We should encourage them more and criticize them less.

Every child's needs in the growth stage are different, and they need to be instilled and guided when they are ignorant; But when you grow up, you must learn to let go. As long as we are good at guidance, flexible use of educational methods and the right medicine, genius may appear in our hands. We should teach students more attentively and feel another wealth brought by life. We give students hope, and they become our hope.

Life is a mirror, you smile at it; You cry, and it cries. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", if students' words and deeds are measured by adults' eyes, teachers will only add a lot of troubles; And treating students as children, teachers will have endless happiness! Treat every child with a tolerant heart! Only in this way can we be happy and grow up with our classmates!

Don't complain about the teacher after reading it. We can often hear a lot of complaints. Yu Dan said, "What is a complaint? Some people say it is a kind of catharsis, a kind of balance, which can vent unsatisfactory things. We often put a gorgeous coat on complaints. All this happened unconsciously in our lives. When you are angry or upset, it is not completely regarded as adjustment and catharsis, but as a way for everyone to show themselves in life. "

Why do people who complain say that life is so tired, because they only see their own efforts and can't see their own gains, while people who don't complain won't complain about life even if they are really tired, because they know that loss and gains are always together, and we can't never stop complaining, but we should let ourselves complain less and have a more positive attitude, because if complaining becomes a habit of one person, it will be useless to others.

As the book "Be a teacher who never complains" says, "You have the right to get everything you want, so go ahead with your dream." For a long time, our profession as a teacher has been hailed as an engineer of the human soul and is the most glorious profession in the world. With the development of the times, the progress of society and the arrival of the one-child era, society and families have higher and higher requirements for teachers. These negative emotions, such as anxiety, depression and worry, are quietly invading our bodies and minds, and our teachers have been living a life of sighing all the time. I often hear teachers complain (and I have complained): Why are children so difficult to teach now? Why do you dislike studying so much? Why do you like and love at such a young age? Why don't parents care ... those children who can't sit still, together with their parents, seem to be our biggest trouble.

But what will parents think? "The teacher makes a mountain out of a molehill", isn't it that he is absent from class? Just remind me not to do this next time; Isn't it just a little contradiction with my classmates? Aren't they fine now? Tell them to exercise restraint next time and not to be too impulsive. I didn't do my homework well this time. It's really a family matter. Did he just occasionally fail to finish it? Tell him it won't happen again. He didn't do well in the exam, which is his level. I used to be like this ... actually, I think I just need to talk to the children. After all, there is no child who does not make mistakes. The key is whether he has given up studying. As long as he is working hard, as long as he can accept your words, we don't need to be harsh and treat them differently.

When I finished reading "Be a teacher who doesn't complain", I understood that complaining about the environment is not as hard as working hard. Only through our own efforts can we truly realize the growth of individual life. We may not be able to change the environment, but we can completely change ourselves. Therefore, if we look at the problem from another angle, the situation will change greatly. For example, if we stay in school for a long time and our children are alone at home, on the other hand, we will exercise our children's independence, and they will learn to take care of themselves and cook relatively simple meals. The average life expectancy of teachers is too short, we can't control the length of life, but we can broaden the width of life ... Deng Xiaoping said: "Development is the last word." We must develop, and only development can really improve our quality of life. So I decided to change myself, stop complaining, spend my complaining time and energy on reading good books, researching teaching and other meaningful things, and read my happiness carefully with a calm mood, away from impetuous mood. Tired, stretch; Sleepy, look at the distant scenery; Tired, think about how beautiful life is; Tired, pour out your inner anguish to your family, and let the burnout go with the wind ... In fact, life is a mirror, and when you smile, it smiles. You cry, and it cries. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", and be a sunshine teacher, and life will be simple and full.

Be a teacher who doesn't complain, be a person who doesn't complain, work without complaining, and live without complaining.

After reading Don't Complain about Teachers, it is a great happiness to meet a good teacher in life. In our own growth process, different teachers in memory have a lifelong influence on us. Being a teacher makes me feel different. When I was a child, I regarded the profession of teacher as just the same as other professions, just to support my family; When I became a mother, I realized that the word teacher is so heavy. I always hope that my children can meet a good teacher.

"Change your words, change your thinking; When good things happen, stop complaining and express gratitude, and you can change your life and make everyone's future better. "

Complaining can not produce any joy, nor can it add luster to our life and work. On the contrary, it will make our negative emotions constantly stack up, thus generating more unhappiness. Education is a kind of wisdom, and teachers should have the wisdom to educate people. In our educational work, if we abandon the idea of making all students "brilliant" and conform to nature, will there be more smiling faces of children? Just like some teachers, it is not enough for students to get 96 points in the exam. It seems that only 100 can be considered excellent. Our teacher is always dissatisfied with the children's grades. Just like some students are not serious in class, once they are caught by the teacher, they will be criticized immediately; A little friction with classmates after class is also a fight. Actually, calm down and think about it. A class lasts for 40 minutes. Who can promise not to do anything? As long as the students correct. "Many times, the small friction between classmates is not so critical." Just like the growth of all things in nature, in the process of friction, we have learned the art of getting along with others. Therefore, our teachers let students learn to survive and grow in friction, which is a natural selection process, and in this process, our teachers don't have to do it for them.

Our teacher often complains: Why are children so disobedient nowadays? Why are you so restless? Why is it so difficult to teach? Why do you dislike studying so much? Parents don't care In fact, think calmly, maybe our teacher made a mountain out of a molehill and was absent-minded in class. Let's remind them. Make trouble with your classmates and tell them to get along well and not be too impulsive. In fact, as soon as they turn their faces, they will forget all the contradictions. Some students didn't finish all their homework. Maybe things at home delayed them, but they didn't finish it occasionally. Some students didn't do well in the exam, because he could only do that, that level, and he did his best. When facing students' problems, our teachers should try to trust students and try to control their emotions. This can not only solve the problem, but also teachers and students have learned a lot.

As teachers, we should treat our work with a calm mind-not eager for success and not impetuous. A teacher who learns to wait will never say "you can't" to his students. Education is the field that can best reflect "a hard work, a harvest". As long as we make sincere efforts, we will certainly achieve results. Although more often not so direct, so fast. When we learn to treat students with a waiting attitude, we can be less critical, less indifferent and less disappointed, but more understanding, more kindness and more confidence.

We should pay more attention to teaching students and feeling them. To feel another kind of wealth that life brings us. If you put your heart into it, you can teach students a lot of things, not just subject knowledge! It doesn't matter if students can't be doctors. It is more meaningful to make them useful and contribute to society! We give students hope, and they become our hope. You face the hope with a smile, the hope will be more and more, and you will find more and more happiness! "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", always pay attention, keep a happy mood and be a sunshine teacher. Treat every child with a tolerant heart!

After reading "Don't complain about the teacher", I remember reading a sentence before: Eating food with gratitude is much better than eating meat with resentment. Yu Dan also said, "Complaining is a language, not an action. If a person is troubled by language too much, he will lose motivation. " During this time, I read the book "Be a teacher who doesn't complain" and gained a lot.

First, don't complain about yourself and develop your potential.

Complaining about yourself is the best interpretation of cowardice and incompetence. It wandered around like a ghost, disturbing people's hearts. Complaining about ourselves makes us focus on what we don't want, so when we complain about ourselves, we will be far away from what we want, and the more we complain, the greater the distance. Yu Dan said: The more we can't do, the more we complain, but the more we complain, the less likely it is to be done smoothly. This forms a vicious circle, and things can't be solved in the end. Complaining shows that our hearts are not strong enough and confident enough. As teachers, we must have a strong heart, because we need to solve more problems than the average person. If we only know how to complain blindly, but don't have the courage and firm belief to fight against it, we will be helpless. Dare to challenge yourself, explore your potential, establish self-confidence and firm belief, and don't belittle yourself and complain about yourself easily. Learning from others with an open mind and trying to create by ourselves will make us stronger and stronger!

Second, don't complain about work and get the pleasure of work.

Happy work is a day, so is drowsiness. I don't think teachers should lose their direction and belief in education. Although the profession of teachers is ordinary, as long as we love our work and devote ourselves wholeheartedly to the cause of education, we will one day be looked up to by others and become respected models. Dedication is not only an explanation to students and parents, to the school and society, but more importantly, to our teachers, with a sacred sense of mission. Only when the sense of dedication is rooted in our minds can we finish our work more actively and realize the pleasure that work brings us. A great man once said: "Doing something is the highest state of life, while complaining is doing nothing, evading responsibility, giving up obligations and self-indulgence." If you have time to complain about your work, then you have time to do it well. It is doomed to be useless to complain endlessly. If you want to have a bright future, you must learn to enjoy the fun at work.

Third, don't complain about others and win their respect.

No one in the world is perfect, and no one will be completely satisfied with himself. As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." Since you can't be strict with your own perfection, you should also let yourself complain less about others and be more tolerant, kind and respectful. I often hear teachers complain (and I have complained): Why are children so difficult to teach now? Why do you dislike studying so much? Why don't parents care? ..... Those children who can't sit still, together with their parents, seem to be our biggest trouble. After all, there is no child who does not make mistakes. The key is whether he has given up studying. As long as he works hard, as long as he can accept you, we don't need to treat you differently. When we really pay special attention to a student, we will wear colored glasses. We thought that while we were paying special attention, we actually pushed him to the side you least expected. After all, we forced our children to make this helpless choice. So, don't complain about others, win their respect.

In the future, I will, as always, work hard to be a person who doesn't complain, a teacher who doesn't complain, a child who makes mistakes, a parent who doesn't complain, and make my own choice! Have a tolerant heart!

5 "Complaining is the best interpretation of cowardice and incompetence. He wandered around like a ghost, which was disturbing. " Such a passage in A Teacher Who Does Not Complain is thought-provoking. I used to complain about the hard work, the disobedience of students, the incomprehension of parents, and the pressure of life ... I always keep those unhappy little things in my heart. Actually, if you think about it carefully, what's the use of complaining? Complaining may win a little sympathy and understanding. However, after complaining, I found that all complaints not only didn't help, but also infected people around me with negative energy and affected others' emotions.

What is the reason for complaining blindly?

As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Education is complicated. For every teacher, it is impossible to be smooth sailing, and setbacks and failures are inevitable. This requires a mature sense of reason, a correct view of frustration, positive self-suggestion, good emotional control and a reasonable way of emotional excretion. The responsibility of teachers determines that we must bear the necessary pressure.

To be a teacher who doesn't complain, you should have a sunny attitude. In order to make students' personality develop healthily, teachers must devote themselves to shaping noble personality and then illuminate others, which requires teachers to have sunshine and fire in their own hearts, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and calmly face all difficulties and setbacks in work and life.

Be a teacher who doesn't complain, and have love in your heart. A teacher's job is a loving profession. This kind of love includes two aspects: self-love and lover. The so-called self-love means that teachers are strict with themselves and strive to achieve self-respect, self-respect, self-reliance and self-improvement, so as to gain the respect and recognition of students, parents and society and become respectable and lovely people. Teachers face a group of observant and imitative children every day. Teachers' words and deeds and actions will deeply affect students' words and deeds and habits. Therefore, teachers must pay attention to self-love, and only by setting an example can they be a model. Teachers should love others besides self-love. Love for students is a noble moral emotion that teachers have towards the object of education when performing their duties, and it is the foundation of education. Because without love, there is no real education.

To be a teacher who doesn't complain, you must be enthusiastic about the teacher's professional input. Only by loving can we devote ourselves wholeheartedly, face all challenges calmly and have more fun in our work. Only by putting positive emotions into the teaching profession can we regard teaching and educating people as a profession rather than a career to make a living, and can we teach more outstanding students. If you don't have a positive feeling about teachers' professional input, you can't stick to it as always. As a teacher, we must be strict with ourselves by the standard of "being a teacher", love education, actively participate in education, tap the fun of education, and stick to it for a long time before we can enjoy the happiness of being full of peaches and plums.

To be a teacher who doesn't complain, you must have a sense of responsibility. The teacher's duty is, in a word, "teaching and educating people". We often compare students to the flowers of the motherland, and teachers are hard-working gardeners. It is the important task of a gardener like a teacher to cultivate brilliant flowers with the rain and dew of knowledge and the sunshine of morality. Only when teachers make clear their mission and turn it into motivation can they constantly eliminate the influence of negative factors such as bitterness and tiredness on the road of struggle, adjust their mentality, keep forging ahead, make contributions to the education of the motherland and realize their own life value.

Life is a mirror. When you smile, it smiles back. You cry, and it cries. Since we can't ask ourselves to be perfect, we should complain less about others and be more tolerant, understanding and respectful. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", try to be a teacher who doesn't complain, always keep a happy mood, be neither sad nor happy, be neither humble nor supercilious, let nature take its course, be affordable and let go, and life will be simple and full.

Ren Zheng Fei, president of Huawei, once said after reading Don't Complain about Teachers: If a lion can catch up with an antelope, it will survive; If it can't outrun the antelope, it can only starve to death. If the antelope complains about unfairness, who should the prairie antelope complain about its "breakfast"? The antelope can still run, and the grass has no chance to escape! If the antelope wants to survive, it must strengthen its training in peacetime, improve its running speed and make itself run faster. Even if it can't run faster than a lion, it must run faster than other antelopes. Only in this way can it survive.

From this story, we can realize that complaining is the most useless energy-consuming behavior. Sometimes, we will express our dissatisfaction, not only with people, but also with different life situations; If we can't find someone to listen to our complaints, we will still complain to ourselves in our minds. Those who complain about themselves should try to learn to accept themselves; Those who complain about others should try to turn complaints into requests; Those who complain about God, please try to pray for your wish. In this way, your life will have an unimaginable big change, and your life will be more beautiful and complete.

"Complaining" is really bad breath, which is contagious. People who are used to complaining are pouring water into their shoes. If you are willing to complain, you will find many things to complain about around you, such as annoying traffic, gossiping colleagues, mean bosses, difficult customers, soaring housing prices … However, if you don't complain, you will also find a lot of fun. In fact, complaining is to remind you to make changes and actions. Complaining is not terrible, but we are more accustomed to complaining than to changing in life.

In the late Qing Dynasty and the early Republic of China, there was a professional lawyer named Wang Fengyi. His main job is to constantly discover and discover the problems of every family, and then help everyone solve them. For example, an old lady said that the old man was bad to her and often beat her, and then she complained to Wang Fengyi that her life was very hard. I didn't expect Wang Fengyi, the great good man, not only didn't sympathize with her, but said, "Take a mirror and have a look. Your bitter gourd face will never smile. Everyone will tell you how miserable you are. Even if you don't marry this old man, another old man is likely to hit you. " The old lady immediately understood that the original problem was not only with others.

In fact, our lives are given by God, and he makes us suffer. You just need to think that every baby comes into this world hand in hand, and he will watch us bit by bit in the sky. Sometimes we really feel bitter, but have you ever heard such a saying? "Sunshine is always after the storm. How can you see a rainbow without suffering in life? " Although the present days are bitter, the later days will be sweeter than honey.

Don't complain that God is unfair to you. God is training us to live a better life. Don't blame yourself for the hard life, because you are happier than anyone else, and you have your own ideal, so you should work hard towards that goal. Even if you encounter many obstacles, don't give up easily as long as you make up your mind. When you reach your ideal, you will feel extremely gratified. As long as you don't give up, God will be moved by you, and he may help you achieve your ideal goal. So, we don't have to complain, just consider it our training. Grow up through training, and you will have a lot of "wealth". Even if you can't realize your ideal, you will know a lot of truth. Knowing a truth is equivalent to gaining a huge "wealth".

Don't live a sad life every day. It's too much to live a sad life and laugh too much. Why not be happy every day? Smile at the corners of your mouth, and don't frown even if you are unhappy. Open the window and let the sunlight into your room. Looking at the sun is like looking at God. At this time, God is watching you, and he will share your troubles. Or go out and see the outside world, go to nature, speak out your troubles to everything, don't hide it in your heart, and let God and everything help you share your anguish.

So don't complain that God is unfair to us, let us have a 45 smile on our lips every day, and let us live a full day! composition

Reflections on being a teacher who doesn't complain 7 During the summer vacation, I read the book Being a teacher who doesn't complain, and I was deeply touched. Teachers have always been regarded as the most glorious profession in the world. However, with the development of the times, there are more and more only children, and parents have higher and higher requirements for teachers, which inevitably brings pressure to our teachers. Therefore, our teachers should adjust their mentality, be full of confidence in life, be satisfied with their work and establish good interpersonal relationships. Only in this way can life be simple and full.

Complaining can not produce any joy, nor can it add luster to our life and work. On the contrary, it will make our negative emotions constantly stack up, thus generating more unhappiness. Education is a kind of wisdom, and teachers should have the wisdom to educate people. In our educational work, if we abandon the idea of making all students "brilliant" and conform to nature, will there be more smiling faces of children? Just like some teachers, it is not enough for students to get 96 points in the exam. It seems that only 100 can be considered excellent. Our teacher is always dissatisfied with the children's grades. Just like some students are not serious in class, once they are caught by the teacher, they will be criticized immediately; A little friction with classmates after class is also a fight. Actually, calm down and think about it. A class lasts for 40 minutes. Who can promise not to do anything? As long as the students correct. "Many times, the small friction between classmates is not so critical." Just like the growth of all things in nature, in the process of friction, we have learned the art of getting along with others. Therefore, our teachers let students learn to survive and grow in friction, which is a natural selection process, and in this process, our teachers don't have to do it for them.

Our teacher often complains: Why are children so disobedient nowadays? Why are you so restless? Why is it so difficult to teach? Why do you dislike studying so much? Parents don't care In fact, think calmly, maybe our teacher made a mountain out of a molehill and was absent-minded in class. Let's remind them. Make trouble with your classmates and tell them to get along well and not be too impulsive. In fact, as soon as they turn their faces, they will forget all the contradictions. Some students didn't finish all their homework. Maybe things at home delayed them, but they didn't finish it occasionally. Some students didn't do well in the exam, because he could only do that, that level, and he did his best. When facing students' problems, our teachers should try to trust students and try to control their emotions. This can not only solve the problem, but also teachers and students have learned a lot.

There are some things that I think I just need to tell my children. After all, there is no child who does not make mistakes. The key is that they don't give up their studies and continue to work hard. We don't need to be strict with them and treat them differently. We can't look at students with colored glasses. We should encourage them more and criticize them less.

Every child's needs are different in the growing stage. When he is ignorant, he should know how to instill guidance. Put it down when you are old; When he is completely independent, there will be encouragement and spur. Love is not only a single way to carry it out all the way, but also has layers. As long as we are good at guidance, flexible use of educational methods and the right medicine, genius may appear in our hands. We should teach students more attentively and feel them. To feel another kind of wealth that life brings us. If you put your heart into it, you can teach students a lot of things, not just subject knowledge! It doesn't matter if students can't be doctors. It is more meaningful to make them useful people and contribute to society! We give students hope, and they become our hope. Do you face hope with a smile or with bitterness? Smile at hope, hope will be more and more, and you will find more and more happiness! Life is a mirror, you smile at it; You cry, and it cries. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", always pay attention, keep a happy mood and be a sunshine teacher. Treat every child with a tolerant heart!