What a mother said to her daughter.

1, your mother is glad that you are doing well in your studies, but she wants you to be a good boy with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique. Either study well or be useful to the country, with high IQ. Society is complex and interpersonal relationships are also very important. If you are well connected, more people will like you, communicate with your classmates and go out with your friends. Don't always stay at home alone.

It is no exaggeration to say that you are a blank sheet of paper. Even if you gently click a point on the top, it will make your heart choppy. Unlike thick ink and painter's paintings, you can't see any change if you spend more and less. For pure you, any stroke is a key stroke, an indelible stroke, accompanied by a lifetime stroke. And this pen may have been inadvertently drawn by you, perhaps just because of curiosity and fun. However, it is not the same as learning to write. If the handwriting is broken, you can erase it with an eraser, but what you care about is stronger and more painful than the scar you have branded. Daughter, mother hopes your first stroke will be beautiful, poetic and charming.

I know that you love studying, and I also know that you love reading and listen carefully in class. But dear daughter, can we hurry up when we do our homework? Don't put it off, the homework is your own, and no one can help you write it. Why not do what you have to do sooner or later?

4. Daughter, I want to say that there is nothing in this world that asks for nothing in return. You won't believe me, and you will cite many examples in one breath to refute me. For example, who is unwilling to pay, such as parents raising children, mutual help between friends, and love between husband and wife? Yes, if my parents' love is not pure enough, I don't agree, otherwise, I won't take the trouble to tell you this. But, daughter, don't you feel it? I ask you all the time how you were born. I'm so happy. This is my life, and this life is my continuation. Whether you like it or not, I have been telling people my deep satisfaction and love. Daughter, can I buy money? You can walk, call your mother, read children's songs and dance. Which one doesn't surprise me and move me? For more than ten years, I have been guiding you according to my ideas, even forcing you. Sometimes I think, after giving birth to you, do I have the right to dominate you? However, you are too young and so attached to me. Listen to me, gradually I found myself from you. For more than ten years, it is not so much that I live for you as that you live for me.

Mom knows that you get up early in the morning now, and you have learned to cook by yourself. You don't need your mother to do it for you, which saves me a lot. Thank you, too, mom. But dear daughter, since you get up so early, why don't you tidy up the quilt, too! Be a clean woman from the inside out! Cleanliness is not only physical, but also reflected in her room and everything around her.

My mother disagrees with what my grandmother told you the other day. My mother didn't explain it to you at that time. Now my mother tells you that a person will not be bullied if he is not strong at home. A capable person will not lose his temper at home no matter how wronged he is outside, because he knows that his family needs care and care.

7. The same is true of mutual help between friends. "Friends" are based on each other. Whether it is communication from the heart or the catalysis of external factors, they can only be called friends if they reach a mutual understanding and a tacit understanding. If one party keeps asking and the other party is not an idiot, then they will never make friends with her.

8. The love between husband and wife is even more naked. Once the interest support is lost, the lighter flies away. Serious cases will be taken to court. Of course, this interest is not only material, it is a complex synthesis, and there are many things that you can't understand.

You are a very thrifty girl. You didn't know how to spend money when you were young. If you have money, you can save it and buy something for later use. But don't be too detailed, dear daughter. Only those who can spend money can learn to earn money. Money is not saved, it is earned.

10, this is not an alarmist. There is really no love and being loved for no reason, even in the face of your parents, friends and lovers. Knowing this, daughter, you won't complain because you get less, but you get real happiness while you are busy giving. This is the highest reward from God.