Children beat grandparents.

Error demonstration

Accuse and question children

You can't hit grandma. How can you hit someone?

How does mom usually teach you?

Did you learn all your manners in a dog's stomach?

Indiscriminately label children.

If you can't learn well when you are young, you can learn to hit people, and you will know when you grow up. Grandma is so kind to you, and you still hit her. Do you want to be a baiwenhang?

Blindly brute force to stop it is not education.

Fight violence with violence and fight back directly.

Why didn't you hit him without explaining why?

Tell children how to do the right thing without guidance.

Hold the child's hand and stop beating.

First, baby, we don't hit people!

! ! Be sure to say "we" don't hit people, so that the child won't feel that this rule is aimed at him alone, but the correct way for every family member to abide by.

Second, patiently accompany and accept children's emotions.

Mom knows you are angry. You can cry for a while, say it out loud, or kick the ball twice to vent your anger! Let the child know that his mother accepts his emotions unconditionally, but there are better ways to vent than hitting people.

Third, analyze the reasons, correct behaviors, and learn to make children feel * * *

Are you angry about xx? But have you ever thought that your beating grandma didn't solve the problem, and grandma was still very painful and sad. Do you want grandma to be both miserable and sad? ! Guide children from both emotional and rational aspects, and let them realize that their behavior is incorrect and they can't hit people again? Fourth, guide children to apologize for their actions.

Baby, this is good now. Say what you really think, but you just hit grandma and need to apologize. After guiding children to relieve their emotions, they must be guided to apologize for their actions, so that children can understand that doing something wrong is not terrible, but they must face it bravely!