The only son of the old man took his wife to see a doctor.

I am a hundred minutes of game time! I'm glad to answer your question!

I am a father, taking into account the actual situation at home, taking care of the baby full-time!

Seeing your problem, there is actually another problem? It's what you call heartbreak. Is it because of life or because the old man takes care of the baby?

Or is it because of the contradiction between the parents and the elderly after the elderly take care of the baby, which makes you cry?

When the children were young, we lived with the elderly and went to work during the day. The elderly helped to take care of the children. When they get off work at night, the children will be taken care of by ourselves, and the elderly will rest at night, and the children will start kindergarten, and then we will be separated. In the morning, the children will be sent by us, and in the evening, the elderly will help to take them home. Then we will go to the elderly to take them home, so that the elderly will not have too much trouble looking after the children.

This problem will vary from family to family. This is also a social problem. It's really not easy for the elderly to take care of their children, and some of them are really forced by life. It is difficult for every family to recite scriptures.

You are talking nonsense. Make a social spear to follow, and a family spear to follow. Since ancient times, old people in China have helped to take care of their grandchildren. This is a kind of family happiness, although it is normal to have a small spear to follow occasionally.

My wife and I came to our son's house in the south from the northeast to hold our daughter-in-law for a month, and she gave birth to a baby boy. Our whole family is very happy. My son and daughter-in-law all have jobs, and the daughter-in-law has to go to work after six months of maternity leave. We can't afford a nanny, so let's take it. We have to run for a while and have a look. My relatives and friends in my hometown also told me that when I go to my son's house, I should talk less and mind my own business, and my daughter-in-law should remember what she likes to eat. It's okay. Go to your wife's room. If you can't hear the child crying, just push the door and go in. Through the observation these days, the daughter-in-law is ok. My wife and I remind each other that my daughter-in-law is from the south and loves to eat Northeast food. I also watch various food practices on my mobile phone. Keep studying, there will be no tears for the time being. Our task is to cook a good meal, take good care of the children and reassure their children. If the old routine doesn't work, you have to listen to young people. Live in peace and don't care too much about whether you are an old man. We were young once. In retrospect, we are still the same. Before us, we must be children. Who will never do anything wrong in his life? There is no right or wrong in housework, we can tolerate each other. Otherwise, it's futile to marry a few daughters-in-law.

My two children were accompanied by my aunt and grandfather a year and a half ago, and then my grandparents took care of them together. I was not busy with my work. Basically, my grandfather brought it back to me when I was in kindergarten, and I brought it myself at night.

Whether the elderly can live in harmony with their children depends mainly on whether they are smart, nosy, talkative and receptive to new ideas.

Secondly, in the mother, whether the mother can be open-minded, not serious, open-minded can get along.

Why does the old man help bring sad tears to the baby? It is a pleasure for the elderly to help their children look after their children when their bodies permit. This is very interesting. Why a burden? If you think it's heartbreaking, don't look after the children. Enjoy the free life of the elderly. Old people should be happy every day. Don't force yourself to do things you don't want to do. I have worked hard all my life, and my old age should be happy.

Married for ten years, the child is 9 years old, and the parents help the baby to be 7 years old. A passerby tells you that if you think about it from another angle, it may not be difficult!

When children were young, most of them were brought up by their grandmothers, and most of them were very happy. I started my own small business, and my husband often travels for work. My mother and I are basically at home, talking and laughing when we get home from work, which is very harmonious. Occasionally, because I don't quite agree with the old people's concept of dressing or education, I basically say it. Because I'm taking care of my daughter, my mother doesn't care, and we can communicate effectively. When the child was five years old, he took a coin out of his pocket when he installed his mobile phone because he was in a hurry to go to work in the morning. That's a 50-cent coin. It's on the bedside table. As a result, the child ran to the dormitory to play, put it in his mouth when he saw it, and accidentally swallowed it. The 5-year-old child already knows some safety knowledge. Because he was afraid of crying, my mother mopped the floor in the living room and ran over and swallowed it. The child cried and said, "I don't want to die ..." Will I die ... "My mother was scared to death. What's more, after calling me more than 20 times, I couldn't get through ... I just got a call from a customer, about 40 minutes. My mother couldn't wait, picked up the child and went out to take a taxi to the hospital. Because she is an old lady from the countryside, she went to town to take care of her daughter, and she didn't know which hospital to go to or which number to hang ... I quickly drove home. When I went to the hospital, the coin was already in the lower part of the stomach and was not stuck in the esophagus. The doctor said that it would be good to shoot the stool in three days, and our hanging hearts were put down. On the way back, my mother kept explaining that she was mopping the floor with a client and accidentally ran to that house ... In fact, I didn't blame her very much, but I was very sad and felt sorry for my mother. Even if I take care of the children myself, I can't guarantee that there are no mistakes. Fortunately, on the third day, the coin finally discharged. The child hasn't defecated for several days, and the poop stinks. My mother doesn't dislike it at all. When she found coins from the pile of shit with a small stick and reading glasses, her face was happy and gratified. I can only say that it is really not easy for the elderly to take care of their children. I brought up my children when I was a child, and now I take care of his children at my brother's house. The older generation will always sacrifice themselves until the lights go out, and they can no longer contribute to their children, so they have to guard their small homes and often say that they are old and nothing can help you. ...

Besides, grandma, when my mother-in-law is here, most of them are very harmonious, but how can you not touch pots and pans under the same roof? We are not as familiar as my mother and I, and have the same tastes and habits. What's more, my mother-in-law and I are not in the same province. I'm from Shandong and she's from Hebei. Cultural differences are much worse, and everyone is trying to adapt to each other. But an unpleasant thing happened. Once I went back and forth on the day of a business trip, things didn't go well, I was in a bad mood and a little tired. When I got home, it was already dark. I just pushed the door and went in. Before I could sit down for a drink, my mother-in-law kept telling me that my daughter brought a bunch of friends to play at home after school, which made the home messy. The ground is a toy, my face can't be inserted ... She pointed to my daughter and said, "Don't let them go home again!" " Come and tidy up! "I looked at the child again. Her eyes were red and she looked at me in horror. My heart aches. I knew my mother-in-law usually didn't like to talk and tidy up. She doesn't go out to socialize, and she doesn't like playing at home, not to mention a group of six or seven-year-old children making a mess at home. She had to clean up later ... so, this time I am more on the side of the children. I said, "Mom, children need friends, too. "You also have friends. Don't children need friends? " As a result, my mother-in-law began to lie, "I can't teach, I can't teach!" Bring your own children! I'm leaving tomorrow! "I said she was unreasonable ... she said I didn't have a tutor and didn't respect my elders ... we quarreled with each other. I explained the whole story to my husband that night. I'm worried that my husband is not at home and my mother-in-law will quarrel with me. If my mother-in-law really left the next day, it would be hard for me to leave a bad wife's reputation. Fortunately, my husband knows my usual nature, and will not disrespect the old man or bully her ... really gone! Worse than my temper!

After I sent my children to school, I went back to the property to check and monitor. My mother-in-law must have got out of the elevator at 5: 30 in the morning and left the community door. I was a little nervous at once, worried about her safety on the road, and she was also an old lady in the countryside. In case she got lost, I told her that her phone had been turned off. She didn't reply, so she recorded the surveillance video of my mother-in-law leaving and showed it to her father-in-law who stayed at home. My father-in-law explained the situation to him. My mother-in-law left and never came back ... then my father-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized. I bought a better dress for my mother-in-law, and our family went back to our hometown to see my father-in-law before picking up the plane and making up. This year, two old people came to live for another month. That month, I could concentrate on my work, but with the old man gone, I had to take care of the children alone. Because of time, I can't travel and work overtime, which affects my work and my income. In the process of getting along with my mother-in-law, although there have been unpleasantness, it has all passed, which is a running-in process. I don't hold grudges. Later, I also felt that my mother-in-law was right. My children take care of themselves, and the old people have no obligation and responsibility to take care of us. As long as he can give up his normal life, he will pick us up early in the morning and evening, and he will be satisfied to have a hot meal when he comes home from work.

The education, living environment and food and clothing habits of the older generation are different from ours. It is a kindness to help us take care of our children. We should be grateful, don't take them, and don't blame them. They are happy and healthy, which is also the blessing of our children. Imagine, when we are old, are you willing to babysit the children? I don't want to think so anyway, so I'm relieved!

I don't have the help of the old man, so I hire someone to take care of the baby!

There is no perfection about bringing a baby, and so is life.

In fact, these three ways of bringing a baby will eventually make you feel sad. To put it bluntly, it is nothing more than feeling that everyone is not serving you according to their own wishes. It's better to be open-minded than melodramatic …

The word "rarely confused" applies to everything in life.