Have you ever understood the inferiority of children under the education of crying for poverty?

When I was a child, my family was poor and my parents were particularly difficult. I should be rational.

Today, although my family is not so poor, I am still reluctant to spend money. 1It's a waste to spend 20 yuan when 0 yuan is full. I still think so.

Do you think I don't know that I should change my mind? No, I'm not ignorant. I can't change it at all.

When I was a child, whenever I saw something I liked, my mother always told me that it was not easy for my parents to make money because my family was poor. You should know something, don't buy unnecessary things.

Although I really want beautiful clothes and delicious food, I want to be a sensible child, spend less money and try not to burden my parents. Every time my brother wants a toy, my mother won't buy it. When my brother cries and insists on buying, my mother will beat him and scold him severely. I was angry, too. I am angry that my brother is not sensible and our family is not rich. You shouldn't want these things.

Maybe from a very young age, I felt that my little brother didn't deserve those good toys, and neither did I. This may sound a bit exaggerated, but it's true.

I am used to shopping in PDD because it is very cheap. I am used to looking at the price before buying clothes. If the price is right, I will choose it in detail. I am used to shopping around and buying the cheapest, whether it is clothes or cosmetics. Because it is cheap, I never demand too much quality. It is normal for clothes to be wired or pilling. Clothes make the man, and horses depend on the saddle. From the outside, I'm not good at it. When I entered the crowd, I was embarrassed and afraid of being rejected.

I don't know? I know, but I'm still used to finding the cheapest clothes.

I'm not happy to go out for league building in my class, because it costs a lot of money to go out together, so it's not good not to go. I don't want to be stingy, but I want to be sensible and spend less money, because I firmly remember what my mother said to me when I was a child.

Why did I say so many things about myself? I just want to show you what I, a child brought up crying and poor, think now. I want to change it, but subconsciously I just think it's right. There is nothing wrong with these practices.

My mother, who loves to cry and love the poor, successfully taught me to be frugal, but it also made me lose the happiness and big pattern in my life, and I couldn't feel rich and couldn't hide my deep inferiority.

I feel inferior under the education of crying for poverty, and I want to change and overcome it, but in fact I think it is right. Even though I realize it is wrong, my subconscious still thinks it is right.

Education is really a beautiful and sacred thing. After all, everyone in the world is a parent for the first time, but not all parents are incompetent. Smart parents never cry to their children, but from a long-term perspective, cultivate their children's inner richness and high vision.

I hope that crying for poverty education will no longer exist in the future, and parents will establish a correct outlook on life, money and values for their children.