How to love someone?

I don't know how to love someone After all, some people express their love in different ways. I can't give everyone a definition of how to love someone. But I can also tell which behaviors show that he loves someone.

Mom and dad have been married for almost 30 years. They stumbled all the way, and their daily state was noisy. My mother likes to nag my father endlessly every day. Then dad kept listening. When she can't stand it, she will yell at my mother, and my mother will be quiet for a while. But they were quarrelling, but I never quarreled in my memory. You know, my mother can be really ugly sometimes, and I listen to her. It's really hard to imagine how my dad put up with it for so many years. If I had listened to those words every day, I would have been fucked, and I had an impulse to fight. But my father loves my mother very much, so he can put up with my mother's nagging and unreasonable troubles every day. Although my father didn't tell my mother clearly that he loved my mother, I could feel from his behavior that he loved her very much.

I wonder if you still remember a public service advertisement. That's an old man with Alzheimer's disease. He forgot his name, where his home is, and even which one is his son. Once he went out to eat with his son, he kept jiaozi in his pocket. His son asked him why you did it. He said, "I want to give it back to my son. He likes jiaozi best. " See if your eyes are a little moist. A person who has forgotten himself, his home and even his son still remembers to bring his son jiaozi, his favorite food. This advertisement has always touched me. This is a sign of loving someone.

I once saw a girl's attitude towards her best friend. She and her best friend grew up together and have similar hobbies. This girl is good at drawing, writing calligraphy, playing erhu and reading books. Her best friend is also the headmaster like her. They often subscribe to newspapers and periodicals, and they subscribe to every issue. Later, she transferred to our school for half a semester. During that time, her best friend subscribed to newspapers and periodicals, which will become her possessions when she comes back. Even if she didn't take a penny when she subscribed, I asked her why, and she replied that I couldn't remember clearly. Actually, I'm thinking, if I don't love someone, who will give away what she bought?

Everyone expresses love in different ways, but you will feel whether it is love or not from your behavior.