What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! I still can't work independently.

What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! I still can't work independently. The hardest part is actually in the beginning You just joined the company, and you have too many things to accept. How can you start so easily? In fact, everyone is like this. Why is the "first time" so precious? It is because it is the most impressive and can occupy your heart!

New company, new industry, new colleagues, new workflow, new. . . . . .

So many things, can you take them down in a few months? Unless you have been in society for several years, you will be in this situation to some extent, and you must grit your teeth.

First, deal with so many problems separately, do them bit by bit and do them well one by one, and you will find that you are growing every day, so that the problems you face will gradually decrease. Don't lose heart at this time, as long as you are willing to work hard, it will be fine after this time!

Don't call yourself stupid. Not everyone is a wise man. You must know the truth. If you divide it, you will definitely see the effect. Believe in yourself! Come on!

What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! I still can't work independently! I'm under a lot of pressure, brother. If you are anxious, you want to change.

This is a good thing. I'm afraid you don't want to change yourself. Hehe, don't be nervous. Let yourself relax first.

Step by step ~

You have two questions. One is that you are not familiar with your present job. This is the immediate problem.

One is that you feel inferior and don't contact with others. This is a long-standing problem.

Am I right?

I don't want to tell you too many theoretical things. It's too much trouble to strengthen my self-confidence and how to win the good feelings of others.

What you have to do is simple. First of all, you should sort out what you don't understand in your work, and then go to your master for advice with an open mind.

Sincere attitude, all ears, ask if you don't understand, ask if you don't understand!

Unless you are mentally retarded or have been struck by lightning, of course you can do your job well!

You said you were afraid to ask. I asked you if you were unemployed, and you dared to go home and tell your parents?

How dare you tell yourself that?

"Oh, I didn't understand many things at work and refused to ask others, so I was fired."

How dare you face your parents and yourself like this!

When you say you are afraid of losing face, do you ask if you don't understand or if you are fired?

You said you were afraid that people would call you stupid. If you don't pretend to know how to screw up your work, will they think you are a genius? !

You're scared! You're scared! What are you afraid of?

Treat yourself like a fool, treat yourself like an empty cup, and wait for you to understand the problem with an open mind.

Will you still be afraid when you finish your work hard?

Do you know that dead mice don't feel cold? Consider yourself dead.

Can others' ridicule, satire and impatience still hurt you?

What's more, all the sarcasm and satire may be purely in your imagination and your "fear".

Everyone will feel inferior, and 70% people on the earth have communication problems.

We are all learning how to get along with others and how to make ourselves better! ~~~~

When you encounter difficulties and want to retreat, tell yourself that you have taken another step forward after this hurdle.

Work hard and treat others with an open mind, and you will have a sense of accomplishment.

Come on! ~

I firmly believe that personality can really change fate. But it is not absolute. Everyone's personality has advantages and disadvantages. Introverts can also start their own businesses. Introverts can, but don't feel inferior.

I'm an introvert like you, and I'm afraid I'll make a fool of myself if I'm clumsy, and I care about other people's opinions. But we can't always live in other people's comments. We live for ourselves, not for others. Be confident, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and have a bright future.

What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! I still can't work independently ... I want to resign now, and I'm completely incompetent. What should I do? I have always advocated: study first, then do things, and don't do anything out of line before laying a good foundation. ....

In this case, I suggest you resign voluntarily after 8 months (because it is much better to resign voluntarily than passively! ), but in the next five months, you should be diligent and study hard. You'll quit anyway. What are you afraid of? You will gain more knowledge and more work experience. Don't be afraid of being laughed at and ridiculed by others. You'll quit anyway. After resigning, you will lose touch with those people. What are you afraid of? Dream for another five months.

After resigning, you should study hard for a period of time and spend half a year learning basic knowledge. There are all kinds of technical textbooks outside. While reviewing and digesting the past eight months, enrich yourself before looking for a new job. If you enrich yourself, your confidence will be restored. At that time, your mental state will be different, and you will no longer be afraid of any technical difficulties ... it will be easier to communicate with people because you have technical skills.

You're so excited. So you need to calm yourself down now. Don't say you can't do it. A person who can't control himself is like a broken machine.

Let's talk about your work problems first. You said you didn't understand many questions and were afraid to ask others. All right. Then ask yourself why you can't understand these questions, because the foundation is too poor, or because the master didn't listen carefully when explaining, or because there was no review later, or because of other reasons. If it is the foundation, well, it's not too late. You have seven months to make up for it. Seven months, don't you think that's enough? Everything needs to be done step by step. Set yourself a goal and accomplish it bit by bit. A year later, your company will see your learning results. So no matter how difficult the process is, as long as you can keep learning and never give up, I believe. You can do it! You said you were afraid to ask the master questions, but you could ask your colleagues. After all, colleagues are more accommodating than teachers. Actually, to tell the truth, you should ask your master. What the host hates most is people who don't pretend to understand.

There are also interpersonal problems. You said you were introverted and didn't like to talk. Well, you can choose to read professional books, newspapers and magazines to increase your experience. You know, the way to make others respect you is not to make others weak, but! Make you strong! We, choose to accumulate wealth and make little money. If all your colleagues are talking about family chores, then you don't need flowery language to express your true thoughts. If you are bored, it doesn't matter if you don't attend. You should understand that talking about these things in the office is taboo. If they are talking about national affairs or something with connotation, don't give up even if you can't get a word in at first. Read more books and pay attention to these things, and say something that people want to see at the critical moment. I believe no one will ignore you.

Where is the leader? Don't bow and scrape, don't be arrogant and don't take it seriously. As a newcomer, you need to find a job to prove yourself, instead of waiting for the leader to arrange a job for you. As the saying goes, you should be flexible and sunny, so that others can see that the impression you give you is not lifeless, but full of vitality, sunshine and confidence. Only in this way will others have confidence in you.

Finally, you need to rethink. Do you like this job? Do you like it? Do you think you are suitable? If you choose not, then leave there. I think you should be young. Youth is capital, and you can go there when you are young. Therefore, finding the right one is the most important thing.

Come on ~ ~ ~ you can do it. Calm yourself down, relax and stay away from people who can't think. . . Keep trying. . .

It's the reason in your heart ~

Do your best.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself ~

Exercise more ~ communicate with others ~

Usually everyone buys snacks together and gives them to everyone.

Or dessert, more eye-catching,

Do more small things for others.

What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! I can't work independently yet ... I want to quit now. I'm totally incompetent. If I do, I will resign, and you will remain the same in the next company. The most important thing now is that you should temper your character. I'm just like you. Such a character may be gradually recognized! But you can't give up on yourself! Know your own crux and dare not ask, then try to take this step! ~ ~ find a time to sort out your problems for the past three months and then break them all. In fact, knowledge and work are very simple. The leader thinks you are bad, probably because you don't take the initiative. Ask yourself, don't be afraid! ~ ~ ~ It is impossible for others to take the initiative to ask you for a lecture by holding back their discomfort! ~ ~ This is not a school! ~~

There are still seven months, and everything is still there! Adjust your mentality and take it one step at a time! ~ ~ ~ Come on! ~~

What should I do? Come to work for 3 months! So far, I can't work independently ... I'm under a lot of pressure (with a master). Working on the construction site can't solve the problem, but it will bring me pain and pressure. It's better to live happily than in pain. How do people live their whole lives? Why not live happily? Inferiority is brought by oneself and needs to be eliminated by oneself. And don't care too much about other people's eyes (look down on yours) ... learn to be broad-minded

Ask more questions and be introverted ... it means that you are under great pressure, and your subconscious (Baidu search subconscious, you will understand) may be related to your childhood education. Do you often get beaten (parents, teachers, classmates ... 0, friends often say you are stupid ...?

It is necessary to ask more questions. When I was an apprentice, I had to ask my master every little thing. Maybe you understand this question, but maybe after you ask the master, you will know more and have a different understanding, so be sure to ask more questions and keep thinking with the master. Don't leave it idle, it will help you a lot. Only by communicating with others can you find many problems and understand some things. Not communicating with others is like a frog in a well. If others don't try to help you, you can turn passivity into initiative. .........., don't always think about how stupid you are, otherwise, ........

You can express your opinions while listening to your colleagues. Ignore it, and don't be discouraged. Go on. Think about where you are wrong, the leader doesn't like you ... I don't think it's possible to see you for no reason. You can curry favor with the leader, give him gifts, say hello and smile more. .........

It's not that he doesn't trust you

I'm not afraid that you are new here and can't learn anything well.

But it depends on a lot of things to ask.

Learn to deal with people.