Interpretation of the Four Heroes in Heavy Rain from a Psychological Perspective

This article will interpret the four major characters in the order of lovers' recommendation from low to high, namely Shu Huan, Yi Ping, Ru Ping and Du Fei (only representing personal views, and some psychological interpretations of personality, not targeting at roles, not liking discussion and not spouting).

I believe that many girls were fascinated by the charm of the role of He Shuhuan when they first watched the drama "Deep Rain" as children. They feel very handsome and affectionate, and they all like this role best. But as they grow up, they see more levels. Why do more and more people start calling He Shuhuan love rat? From what aspects can slag be seen? The following is an analysis and interpretation for everyone:

When it comes to love with Yiping, whenever there is a quarrel, Hiraichi will comfort him. If Pingyi hurts his hand, he feels distressed and kisses Pingyi.

As soon as we quarreled and broke up, we got engaged to Ru Ping. Because Yiping appeared at the wedding, we immediately kicked him out.

Too emotional, weak, tangled and self-centered, which led him to export injuries to two girls many times.

On one occasion, Yi Ping and Shu Huan met Meng Ping and gangsters to drink together in Shanghai. Meng Ping severely humiliated Yi Ping and was finally taken away by gangsters. The next day, after learning that Meng Ping was raped, He Shuhuan went to Yi Ping's house and put all the blame on Yi Ping who stopped him from saving Meng Ping, and left after a big fight with Yi Ping.

If his values really think it is necessary to pursue them, then he should not listen to Yiping. If he thinks what his girlfriend said is reasonable, he should not blame his girlfriend for regret, but think that all the mistakes are others'.

In a relationship, a person who only throws the pot when encountering problems, blames others and shirks responsibility, but never thinks there is anything wrong with himself. He doesn't want to make any changes from his own side to take responsibility and solve problems, only blaming others, which is quite terrible.

When Shu Huan and Yiping just broke up, they didn't heal their pain and let Yiping go. Just because Ru Ping followed fate, they immediately began to have an affair with Ru Ping, and even skipped love and got married directly, which is obviously unreliable.

Meng Ping said at this moment: "He Shuhuan has gone to Suiyuan, and there is no Yiping in his heart. This man is too dangerous! " Sure enough, an outsider who loves can see through the true face of He Shuhuan-only using Ru Ping to heal, but not finding Ru Ping's beautiful true love.

In emotional psychology, this behavior is called "rebound romance". Many people fall in love with the next relationship immediately after breaking up. This is the case. It's not that they really know more and fall in love with a new lover, but that they just find someone to heal because they can't face their pain and loneliness. At the beginning of the rebound relationship, if you want to force yourself to let go out of disgust with your ex, you will rationalize, enlarge the bad side of your ex, enlarge the good side of your new lover and brainwash yourself. After getting along for a period of time, you will find that the other side of the original new lover's advantages is also your unacceptable shortcomings, which will start a lot of friction, which is also the reason why the rebound relationship is difficult to last.

These problems of Shu Huan actually stem from the hidden defects in his personality-too emotional decision-making, soft-hearted, tangled and self-centered.

Many mature people make rational decisions, but he is too emotional. The beginning of love is sensibility-a mysterious, beautiful and sultry girl who has never seen before enters her life and makes her crazy; The ending of love is also emotional-the disappointment and anger of a diary, without asking Yiping, directly making a qualitative conclusion and impulsively breaking up; Marriage is also an emotional decision-because Ru Ping's action of following fate touched him and wanted Yiping to get married; Avoiding marriage is also emotional-I can't let go of my feelings and feelings at all. I chased Yiping away, completely ignoring the faces of my parents, relatives and fiancee.

But Shu Huan also has his advantages, that is, handsome, talented, excellent and charming. Therefore, for girls, if you have a stable, self-respecting and firm heart like Zhao Min, know what you want, know how to choose, and have the ability to control and influence each other, you can choose to pursue such a person; If not, if you feel insecure, you must avoid people like Keng, otherwise you will only be tortured to death like Yi Ping. So the couple's recommendation index: 2 stars.

Why Yiping is a good lover candidate, but not a good wife candidate, lies in her emotional instability. (Of course, in real life, it is not recommended to separate lovers from their partners, but to be single-minded, or to find a mature partner, or to grow up and get married with an immature lover, and to solve problems by two people instead of finding a third party. )

People like Yi Ping, in fact, are typical anxious and attached people, which easily lead to ups and downs of feelings. It is easy to attract others in the early stage, because the average emotional person is also very good at providing emotional value, which makes people feel interesting, fascinated, needed, protected, emotional, superior and so on. However, in the later period of getting along, it is easy to be emotionally unstable, leading to excessive mental dependence, fierce arguments, negative interpretation, fragile heart, easy disintegration, and easy to be considered as "work" by partners.

This may also be related to the insecurity of her childhood growing environment, which leads to her hedgehog character, that is, her appearance is rigid and her heart is fragile, and the outside is a protective shell.

For a long time, she has been protecting her mother, who is obedient and flattering, so she can only keep arming herself and hide her true self. In fact, she is extremely eager for love, dependence, security and insecurity.

Therefore, even though she is a talented singer, she still lacks self-worth and security. Just because of the appearance of Shu Huan, I feel that I have lived alone for a long time, and finally I have light and dependence, and I am easy to rely on each other emotionally; It's easy to pretend to be strong and proud when quarreling. In fact, I am eager to make up with Shu Huan, and it is difficult to bow my head voluntarily. It is also easy to interpret the other person's behavior negatively and think that I don't love her enough. Even though I have fallen in love with Shu Huan, I still vent my hatred there by writing a diary; Even after breaking up, I still can't see Shu Huan's character and feel that I can't live without him.

In fact, many girls who are anxious and attached in life are like this. In a relationship, they will repeatedly doubt and verify each other's love for themselves, they will do different things, they will quarrel, or they will cover up their sense of need during the Cold War, but they can't quit after breaking up. They are emotionally dependent. It is the reason why the degree of inner independence and differentiation is not high enough, the degree of interdependence is too deep, and some of my inner needs have been well met by the other party.

But her advantage is that she provides high emotional value, falls in love with her, is rich and interesting, ups and downs, and life is not boring. Therefore, if it is a young first love, you can actually experience such passion and happiness, and often the more "working" people, the higher the long-term contribution of ta. We'll see if we can grow up together later. So the couple's recommendation index: 2.5 stars.

Ru Ping is a character I like very much in this play. Although I can't do it myself, I'm a little emotional. In the process of learning and transformation, I have to say that Ru Ping is indeed a role model for many women.

Many of Ru Ping's performances are in sharp contrast with Yiping's, two in sharp contrast. In the play, Shu Huan said that Ru Ping was soft outside and rigid inside, while Yiping was soft outside and rigid inside. In fact, from a psychological point of view, it is a type of emotional attachment, which is different from the source of self-confidence and self-esteem.

Let's talk about emotional attachment first. For example, Ping is safe, that is, she can be independent and willing to accompany each other. Even if she is not loved, she will not be attributed to her own bad. She has a stable high self-esteem and a sense of security. Yi Ping is anxious, insecure, needs a stable source of security from Shu Huan, and has a high degree of emotional dependence.

Besides, the source of self-confidence and self-esteem, such as self-confidence, so even if Aunt Xue says that she is not good and her words are mean, even if Shu Huan repeatedly refuses her and plays ambiguous, although she feels hurt, she will not doubt that she is not good and will not lose confidence; Most of Yi Ping's confidence comes from external feedback. Emotional people usually rely on artistic creation, sense of accomplishment and fresh stimulation to give themselves confidence and sense of accomplishment, such as stage, singing and creation, which gives her a lot of good self-feeling. She and Shu Huan are both such emotional people, so they can be attracted to each other quickly and hit it off, but her inner source of self-confidence is not enough. When she believes that Shu Huan is dependent on others, she will feel it. At this time, the unstable self-esteem level and dependence on the outside world bring disadvantages.

When there was a war, Shuhuan went to Suiyuan. She didn't think of herself as a victim to lick her wound like Yi Ping, but bravely went to the battlefield to support and bravely pursue what she loved, which showed her inner strength, strong independence and willingness to make sacrifices.

? Besides, the classic scene of Ru Ping getting married and chasing the groom on horseback, and her handling of this scene is in sharp contrast with that of Yiping. On the wedding day, the groom disappeared. If it is Yi Ping's insecure personality, she will definitely interpret it negatively, thinking that the other party has fled the marriage and the other party doesn't love herself, and then she will hide in the room and cry, feeling very sad. However, Ru Ping did not doubt herself, was not overwhelmed by negative emotions, and did not regard herself as a little girl who could only wait passively. Instead, she bravely acted directly, solved the problem and rode directly to the groom.

When she met Duffy, she asked Duffy, "Do you still want to marry me?" Many insecure girls may have their own negative interpretations at this time, so that they fall into emotions, and they will directly vent their negative emotions and accuse each other, saying, how can you do this? Don't you love me? Don't you want to marry me? You don't love me. After some accusations, the two sides quarreled and could not reach good communication. But Ru Ping didn't get angry. Instead, he went to confirm this matter with the other party first, what happened and what the other party thought. She was not angry at all until she was sure. This is a stable personality trait with strong self-esteem and high sense of security. Of course, it is also related to Duffy's persistent pursuit of her, her keen attention and her sense of security. A sense of security depends partly on one's own mentality, partly on the mode of communication, the love he gets, the sense of certainty and the sense of availability.

However, such girls often have one shortcoming. Their emotions are too stable and rational, which will lead to a lack of interest and emotional value. This is also the reason why many anxious ones are more attractive and easy to get off the bill, but difficult to maintain, and safe ones are not easy to get off the bill, but they perform better in long-term business relationships.

? Generally speaking, Ru Ping is already a very good marriage partner, with a recommended index of 4 stars.

? Finally, let me talk about one of my favorite characters in this play-Du Fei.

? When I was a child, at first, I just thought he was a very funny character with an active atmosphere. His looks and family background are not as dazzling and attractive as He Shuhuan's, but the right love is not the right combination of family background, but the right combination of complementary personality and mutual satisfaction of psychological needs. Otherwise, it is not a pair of Shu Huan and Du Fei. The older he grows up, the more he finds that Du Fei has many valuable and excellent personality traits. I believe that almost all girls want to meet such a partner.

Psychologically speaking, emotional value is the difference between emotional gain and emotional loss that a person can bring.

With people with low emotional value, we will feel that our emotions have changed greatly, and we are easily frustrated and can't do anything.

People with high emotional value can bring us positive emotional energy, sympathize with our anxiety and stabilize our emotions.

Duffy's emotional value is reflected in three aspects: humor, emotional stability and high emotional ability.

His humor can be seen from his self-introduction: "My name is Du, and I don't want to talk to Du. A name is a word for flying, unexpected trouble flying. "

Not only is he good at self-mockery, but Duffy also tries his best to amuse his beloved girl.

He couldn't hide Ru Ping's unhappiness, so he always racked his brains to come up with one cold joke after another and a fresh and interesting little gift. He even tried to bark like a dog and fell off his horse just to see Ru Ping's smile, which always made Ru Ping laugh.

Positive and stable emotions are another big advantage of Duffy.

He always seems to have bad luck in the play.

I smashed my camera when I was broadcasting the news, and broke an antique vase when I visited the museum. I fell off the ladder and sat on a nail board. ...

If ordinary people had encountered these things, they would have complained long ago.

Du Fei, which has suffered many setbacks, can always recover quickly.

I pulled the nail board out of my ass and said with a smile, this is: rain hits the beach.

If Shu Huan is a melancholy man with heavy rain, Duffy is the sunshine and walking pistachio, which can bring laughter and dispel the haze wherever he goes.

Duffy, who is so careless and informal, has a very delicate feeling.

He knew that Ru Ping had only Shu Huan in his heart at that moment, so he was willing to be her neutral friend, not giving her pressure, just silently accompanying her, accompanying her through the experience, and accompanying her to let go.

However, when Ru Ping was disappointed at the divorce, she tried her best to comfort and enlighten her, never giving her any pressure, and devoted herself to her happiness.

Some people say that Du Fei loves too lowly and licks dogs too much. He loves equally and loses himself.

That's not true.

In fact, Duffy has a high sense of self-identity and strong self-esteem.

When Ru Ping said "chinese odyssey in the Book Ring" in front of him, he responded firmly: "Duffy is also chinese odyssey."

His attachment to Ru Ping is not because he lost himself for love, but because he clearly saw Ru Ping's kindness and strengthened his choice. He sincerely agrees with his choice and is confident to be with Ru Ping in the future.

He Shuhuan's self-confidence is actually largely attributed to his good family background. My father is a famous diplomat. He grew up well fed and well educated.

On the other hand, Du Fei does not have such a good background. He was born in a barren mountain village in Anhui, and his parents made a living by running a canteen.

This means that even if Duffy really has nothing, it will not affect his self-esteem. His self-esteem and self-confidence level come from his heart and will not be changed and taken away because of any change in the external environment.

It is this high self-esteem that brings him a sense of security in love. It is this high self-esteem that makes him not feel bad, humble and unworthy of being loved even if he has been taking the initiative, chasing people and even making a fool of himself. Nowadays, many people don't have such high self-esteem and persistent patience. They take the initiative not to respond, and often feel very humble. They are licking dogs or something. In fact, they are all dissatisfied with themselves and have nothing to do with each other. Being positive doesn't mean being humble.

When Aunt Xue questioned that his toad wanted to eat swan meat, he didn't have any self-doubt and didn't care about his face, but he was bent on being like Ping:

It is found that people with high self-esteem tend to have a higher degree of commitment to intimate relationships and more investment, and are less likely to end relationships hastily.

The data results also show that high self-esteem has a positive role in promoting the satisfaction and happiness of marriage and love.

Du Fei, who has a strong self-esteem, will not doubt his self-worth because of the rejection and degradation of his relatives; He recognized his choices and efforts from the bottom of his heart and was happy for his persistence.

It was this high self-esteem that made him persist in the end and became the protagonist of Ru Ping's wedding.

Du Fei can be said to be the most correct role in this play.

When Shu Huan and Yiping quarreled and kissed Ru Ping in a daze,

He Shuhuan said: How can a dead-set person seduce others!

Du Fei pointed out: Not necessarily! Your heart is dead, and your mouth is not dead! You can also kiss others!

When He Shuhuan was madly in love, she felt that Yiping was lovely everywhere, but when she quarreled, she felt that everything was a shortcoming. Self-willed revealed to Duffy that her relationship with Yiping might be over completely. But Duffy immediately replied, "Didn't you say that Yiping is the cutest girl in the world? What tenderness, strength, weakness, strong enthusiasm, helplessness, dare to love and hate, never bow, stubbornness, all the advantages we can't see, and you still say that you love her shortcomings. So has she changed since you fell in love with her because of her shortcomings? "

Many people can't see this in their feelings, because they like each other's advantages and are easy to be together, and they want to be separated because they see each other's shortcomings. But the advantages and disadvantages are two sides of the same coin. There is never a perfect person. The other side of the advantages in quarreling may be the disadvantages. Since I fell in love with him because of those characteristics, I should not quarrel and break up because I saw shortcomings, but should be more tolerant. At this point, Du Phoebe Shu Huan is more rational and wise, and his three views are correct.

Finally, when Shu Huan filed for divorce, Uncle Lu flew into a rage and said that he would marry Duffy. Originally, a goddess who had been chasing for so long was suddenly proposed to her by her father, which was a happy thing for many people, but Duffy refused to accept it and flatly refused. He said that he would not accept this involuntary forced marriage. Although he likes Ru Ping, he pursues true love and Ru Ping's approval. He said that unless Ruping really likes him one day, he will never accept it, and said. . It also shows his positive outlook on life and high level of self-esteem.

How kind is Duffy?

He knew that the kitten was very important to the old lady, so even if she broke her glasses and looked embarrassed, she would help the old lady save the cat on the chimney.

Li, the adjutant who helped him, was injured and could not go to Yola to pull rickshaws. He is in danger of losing his job. He asked for leave from the newspaper and helped Li, the adjutant, pull the car all day.

The unknown high school student wants to commit suicide. He bravely rushed forward to grab the knife and cut his arm.

Kind people often have strong empathy. Because empathy induces their judgment and emotional experience of others' behavior, it makes them more likely to perceive the needs and feelings of others for help, thus promoting their desire to help others.

Frederick Newman, a doctor of psychology, once said:

"To judge whether a person is trustworthy, don't look at his attitude towards you during love, but at his attitude towards the waiter."

All lovers can make great sacrifices and contributions to each other when they are in love.

What really sustains love is the kind nature and deep empathy after the tide of passion recedes.

When Ru Ping was slapped by her mother, he stood up and complained for Ru Ping:

"Will you be a mother? You don't have a word of comfort after such a big accident happened to your daughter. Instead, you will scold her. What do you mean, she is human and has self-esteem! "

It's hard to love only one person all your life.

It depends on much more than love and feeling itself.

It requires a person to recognize the value of "singleness" from the heart, as well as a deep sense of morality and responsibility.

And these qualities, Duffy has.

When he knew that Shu Huan was swinging irregularly between Yi Ping and Ru Ping, he said painfully:

"If you only love one person, then the tears and sadness of the other person have nothing to do with you." "Be strict in this matter and patient in that one."

Some people say that Shu Huan's fancy is because two women love him, and it is difficult for him to choose, while Duffy's singleness is only because he has no other temptations and choices.

The opposite is true.

Duffy is not unloved. He is very popular with girls. Even he just walked to the rehearsal table and glanced at Ru Ping. Ru Ping's classmate Liu Rongrong confessed to him:

But there is no "if" in Duffy's heart, only Ru Ping. "Even if there are more temptations in this world, I only love you."

Tamiflu not only invested, but also lasted for a long time. Nowadays, many people find it difficult to insist on chasing a person and liking a person for a long time. Duffy, on the other hand, insisted on pursuing for several years without any response, and experienced a long ambiguous entanglement with Shu Huan, such as flat marriage, divorce, and then meeting on the battlefield. He was rejected many times, but he insisted wholeheartedly and never gave up, even if he was just a friend.

This firm determination and single-minded courage are too precious and scarce in contemporary times. He finally got what he wanted.

To sum up, due to Du Fei's ability to provide emotional value, stable high self-esteem, very positive three views, high empathy and single-mindedness, she is a partner with very high comprehensive value in love, with a scarcity and recommendation index of 5 stars.

Finally, to sum up, every lover's personality has advantages and disadvantages, and there is no perfect choice. Choose what suits you, and then * * * can grow together. However, empathy and empathy, communication ability, problem-solving ability, stable self-esteem and emotional management, and the ability to provide emotional value are all qualities that we should attach importance to and cultivate in our relationship.

(The above are all interpretations of the character and psychology of the role, not for the role itself and personal views. Don't spray if you don't like it )