Boyfriend visits his ex-girlfriend and her family who died several times a year. What should my current girlfriend do?

Just eat dessert. After all, you are the current girlfriend. As long as your boyfriend admits you, your mother-in-law will not be biased towards her ex-girlfriend.

As for the ex-girlfriend's family, just be ordinary guests. Ask them what water they want to drink when they enter the door, and cut her fruit when chatting. She gave a gift, and you said, "Why would our family want your gift when you came all the way?" If she says you don't have to be so polite, you should say, "You are a guest, of course, you should thank her for taking care of your boyfriend and mother-in-law, and finally show your trust in your boyfriend."

It's okay to wander around during the holiday, as long as you have a clear conscience. I suggest you don't tell your boyfriend that you don't like it. If your boyfriend has reasons for his disgust, then avoid it, so that the dead girl can rest in peace. Your boyfriend is very kind. Taking care of the parents of an ex-girlfriend may make the current girlfriend feel that she can't forget her ex-girlfriend, but this problem is not insoluble. As long as a good mode of getting along and communication is established, new feelings will not be affected.

Boyfriend chased his ex-girlfriend for three years and stayed together for three years. His ex-girlfriend also lived with his family for a year. I didn't care at first, but later I cared more and more. Moreover, the boyfriend told all about the development of his ex-girlfriend in the first six years. We have been talking for half a year now, and he said that he and his ex-girlfriend had talked about long-distance love and spent less time together than I did.

Besides, I still find it strange that he used to be very picky. After meeting his parents, I felt even more strange. I feel like a passerby. Friends around his parents know his ex-girlfriend and current girlfriend, and maybe there will be another girlfriend. And he often mentioned his ex-girlfriend at first, including in front of his friends and me. I always feel that I am his second relationship, which is the transition period from his first love to his marriage.

At first, he told me a lot about his ex-girlfriend. At first, I ignored it. Later, when we were together, I couldn't help thinking that when they were together, when they were together for 2-3 months, he would still mention it. Later, when I got bored, I kept making trouble. He will say that I am better than his ex-girlfriend or something, just for comparison, maybe it means giving me some confidence.

But I don't even want to know what his ex-girlfriend is like and what they did together. I didn't mention it once, but I thought of it. For example, he said that other people's holidays don't hurt, and other girls use umbrellas to protect themselves from the sun. My eyes looked big when I said grafting eyelash, and he said yes. And he will say something, and I will think of his ex-girlfriend.

This kind of thing always feels like a knot in my heart. I went to his house and met his parents, and we met. He kept telling me that he was engaged and got married at the end of the year, but his parents never gave me any gifts or small gifts, never. Then I asked him once. He said that his ex-girlfriend didn't have it when she went. Later, his parents gave him 2000 yuan during the holiday, so I didn't ask him anything else, and I didn't want to ask him in detail, which was a waste of brain.