What is the relationship between Laozi's Tao Te Ching and our daily life?

Some people may think, why write such a theme.

As we all know:

Any mysterious wisdom in the world must be realized in the end. The most common and simple problem that people face and solve first.

So what are the most common and simple questions?

Vivre！ ! !

Live freely! ! !

Living is the simplest and ultimate goal of human beings, and having a happy life is everyone's long-cherished wish.

However, in order to live, many people indulge in imagination and are tightly imprisoned by reality. They clearly feel their own division, but they can't make themselves pure. On a miserable moonlit night, they waited for the redemption of dawn alone.

Expect to be the master of all this, not the driven slave.

So live!

It is inevitable to face three problems:

1. How to solve the problems between people and themselves?

2. How to solve people's problems.

3. How to solve the problems between people and society?

First, let's look at the first question:

How to solve the problems between people and themselves …

No matter who he is from ancient times to the present, without his own health, everything will be zero and all hopes will be dashed.

There is a popular saying in the circle of friends that "martial arts are practiced in troubled times and medicine is taken in prosperous times", and everything is pinned on the medicine bottle. In the face of these people's sub-health, what is worth pondering?

Is there any other way besides taking medicine?

Can we adjust ourselves, nip in the bud, bid farewell to those bottles and jars and those well-made medicine boxes?

We should solve the contradiction between man and body from two aspects:

Internally: Chapter 16 of Tao Te Ching says, "Be empty, be quiet and believe".

"To" is a verb, which means to achieve.

There is nothing in "emptiness" and nothing to hide. Things here are very tired.

"Silence" means silence.

"Benedict XVI" is regarded as Benedict XVI at rest.

So the meaning of this sentence is: put down your things and keep the initial calm.

"Heart" is the seedling of human beings, and all diseases occur in this life. Faced with our constant pressure, this ailment has multiplied. Finally, even we ourselves unconsciously think that this is a normal state, and it is this unconscious habit that has become the last straw to crush us.

Many people will think: life is so fast, how can we keep quiet? Because we are racing against time every day.

When I gave lectures to many people, I said a law of life-the law of 30 points.

Everyone should spend 30 minutes every day to keep quiet and have a complete and thorough rest. Naturally, you will have 30 more enthusiasm and 30 more confidence in facing things than others.

With the support of 90 points, you will definitely have 10 for a healthy life of 100.

Exterior: "Being satisfied is not humiliating, content is not dangerous, and it can last for a long time."

It means: if you know that you are satisfied, you will not be humiliated for no reason. If you learn to stop, you will not suffer disaster.

Diseases are transmitted through the mouth. . .

Few people are immune to good things, so in the constant pursuit of good food, we get all kinds of diseases of wealth. If I had kept my mouth shut and opened my legs, I wouldn't be disappointed now.

Therefore, life is not a sprint, but a marathon. It is not who runs fast, but who runs far.

Life is like a train. No matter whether you are a soft sleeper, a hard seat or a station ticket, who cares how you got here after getting off the train? Only the passengers who are still on this train are the winners in life, so don't get off early for the complicated scenery outside the window.

So satisfying Zhi Zhi has been the key for a long time.

Life is a hundred years, why bother to find danger;

Be content with what you know and do, and stay healthy and rich!

Secondly, let's look at the second question:

How to solve people's problems …

For thousands of years, people have to face the problem of communication and cooperation with others as long as they want to survive. How to improve interpersonal relationship has become the core direction of world public relations research.

Now, I always hear a just word around me: "Every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost." This seems to be the law of life now.

This sentence

Seems to meet the requirements of survival now!

Seems to be in line with some inner throbbing voices!

However, as long as we observe carefully, such people, whether they succeed or fail, are fighting for the so-called correctness, and finally they are brutally strangled in the distribution of benefits and sadly come to the end of their lives.

So!

There is no golden mean in the relationship between people!

There is no legendary simple friendship between people!

The answer is yes.

Can we rely on some rules to make the relationship between people less rigid and make everyone feel comfortable here?

To solve this interpersonal problem, we should have two points:

Say to yourself: "Square without cutting, sincere without saving, straight without arrogance, bright without showiness."

Note: angular but not stiff, sharp but not hurtful, straight but not arrogant, shiny but not dazzling.

Vernacular Chinese: Be sharp and honest in dealing with people, but don't be reckless. You should master some skills and don't show off, so as not to bring unnecessary harm to others.

Many people may think that there is no room for survival now with such fierce competition and convergence.

I have such a friend:

He is a doctoral student in a famous university and an outstanding scholar in his research field. He has just arrived at the unit, won everyone's respect and is also very modest. As time went on, he seemed to feel that no one could match him, so he used his knowledge to show off everywhere. He became the most dazzling person in the unit, only to find that everyone around him was avoiding him and everything could not be promoted. Finally, he had no choice but to leave his work unit. He said to me angrily, "I helped solve all the difficulties." They isolated me and drove him away. "

I told him that since you chose dazzling, your light made others afraid to approach, hurting others and hurting yourself at the same time, and failure was inevitable. You can only be considered a smart person, but you are not a smart person.

Because a wise man is always modest!

Actually, let's see-

Who is really competing with us?

Yourself!

Who drove us to the wall?

Yourself!

When we hate the sinister people in the Jianghu, have we considered whether we are wrong? Only by constantly improving yourself can we usher in our own spring.

To people: "Jiang Hai can be the king of all the valleys, so benevolence and righteousness are the king of all the valleys."

It means: The sea can be the king of the valley because it is tolerant and lives in a humble place.

Nowadays, if people encounter contradictions, most of them ignore their own mistakes because they constantly magnify the shortcomings of others, and finally become lonely in the failure of interacting with others again and again.

Who knows that meeting someone is fate? Don't let your mistakes ruin yourself and hurt others.

Therefore, we should learn to remember the benefits of others, tolerate their mistakes, correct our own mistakes and cherish the rare fate. Only in this way can we be invincible in interpersonal communication and eventually become a victorious general.

Everyone has no communication, so always think about yourself and don't stop;

Don't forget the gratitude day of others, and walk hand in hand!

Finally, let's look at the third question:

How to solve the problems between people and society …

People and society seem to be a pair of contradictory bodies since they appeared. The main reason for the contradiction lies in the concept of taking and feeding.

People are born with self-centered thoughts. Of course, a certain material foundation is a necessary condition for our survival, but it seems that this sentence was misinterpreted and turned into hoarding until it was stifled in the distribution of benefits.

This vicious circle will inevitably lead to the distortion of human nature and social indifference.

A simple greeting becomes extravagant, a bright smile solidifies in complaining, and finally dies in indifferent fermentation.

"A tribute to glory" said, "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June."

This sentence means that a well-understood sentence can give people great comfort, increase courage and feel warm even in the cold winter. And an untimely word, like a sword, stung people's fragile hearts, even in summer and June, they felt a chill.

So is there a Libra that can effectively control the distortion of human nature and social indifference?

To solve the problems between people and society, we can proceed from two angles:

Seeking: "It is better to persist than to have it; If you are sharp, you can't keep it for long. Happy from now on, can't keep it;

It means: If you always stay full, you will lose more, and you will often compete with others. Come on, it won't last long. If you accumulate more wealth, you will sometimes lose it.

The vernacular is: when the water is full, it will overflow, and when the moon is full, it will lose money. Everything should be measured.

Some people may think that in the fast-paced life, good materials are already scarce and there is no need to get enough. Doesn't that mean waiting to die?

Please have a look!

The water here is regarded as a living substance!

There are three kinds of glasses: full, half full and empty.

When you grab water with a full glass of water (half a glass of water), you will eventually find that there is no half a glass of water. In the end, I can only grab someone else's water in anger. In the end, the water spilled on the ground and no one took it.

Because the total amount of a cup is limited, when we have the necessary materials, can we stop for a short time so that what we have got will not be lost again because of our greed?

Feedback: I think the more I have, the more I have with others.

The more you get, try your best to give it to others and try your best to help others become richer.

Many people may laugh. Is there such a fool in the world? Who would want to do such a stupid thing! ! !

Everyone remembers that we are all members of society. Today you laugh at me for being stupid, tomorrow I laugh at you for being stupid, and one day you will be coldly rejected by others when you need help. Then who is the real fool?

So we have to understand that I love not because I am loved, but because my lover loves me. In this way, society will no longer be cruel and human nature will no longer be greedy, so that we can truly be all for one and all for one. The road is wide, the heart is warm, many difficulties are gone, and naturally it is invincible!

People are not difficult in society, don't let greed make people cold;

Give more, take less, take its roots, the world is immortal!

Trees wither without roots, and people are lonely without roots. This "root" is our heart of contentment, tolerance and fraternity.

Tao Zu said: The tree of embracing each other lasts a lifetime, the nine-story platform begins with the soil, and the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step: only by subtracting each life well can we accumulate the addition of a happy life; Only by adhering to the "three hearts" can we see the flash of our humanity and become the winner of life.